Female Masturbation

[Princess Arabia]

I'm going to go out on a limb here and since there are way more males here than females, this might get tricky. I notice a lot of guys talking about no fap, which is the abstaining from masturbation. You know - no fap, fap, fap, fap sound. They say it promotes mental clarity to muscle growth, to increased testosterone levels, to higher energy levels and more. I don't think there are any scientific evidence to back these claims, but, either way:

My question is, does no fap for women affects women in anyway. Are there any benefits or side effects. Does it also help in clarity, mood swings or health. I don't know since I've never done it. I'm always masturbating as I have no sex life and I'm always horny. My work doesn't require me to have an orgasm and I can always fake it if I have to. I cannot come on the spot as it takes special positioning of my legs, and I don't need to do that anyway. I'm just curious as I have never gone more than a week, or at the most, two weeks without masturbating. I know, that's a long time for men but for women that's not too long. 

No hate speeches please, as this is a legitimate question, and if you can't handle it or are going to be rude, please don't respond as you know my tongue slips from time to time. Women and men can answer, but women encouraged. Women be brave, there's no shame here.

[Ajax]

Hmm… a very bold topic. I generally don’t discuss sex much… I don’t have thoughts on it. I have to make them up on the spot as I haven’t really pondered the subject in any depth. However, communication is important, and one must be willing to experience anything, so I will jump out of my comfort zone and hope others can do so in a conscious and civil way as well.

When I was heavily involved in all kinds of martial arts, I would Fap constantly, I would estimate to be 6 to 12 times a day, sometime more. It was a compulsive need to help regulate my urges and aggression. It did not affect my performance in any way… Perhaps it could have been a barrier to attaining “awakenings” I don’t know… I pursued enlightenment aggressively, and perhaps if I was involved in NoFap, I would have made some spiritual gains. But what is done is done. Lol no sense in dwelling in the past.

I never even really explored the subject of NoFap. It was just another subject that I was aware of but didn’t know anything about. I think I watched some videos on it back in 2016 to have some comprehension of what it was. But I didn’t care to practice it or even give it any serious thought.

However, in 2017 I have had less focus in Martial Arts and material pursuits and focused much more intensely on spirituality. Accordingly, I have had several so-called “awakenings” and it was these mind-shifts that have eliminated the compulsions to Fap. Now, I am aware that this topic is related to body health (energy, testosterone, mental clarity) however, it was the spiritual practices, not the practice of NoFap that has given me the benefits.

At the same time, I have noticed no real benefits to NoFap. However, I am no longer addicted to the need to Fap. Actually, I have been to several female teachers, who taught me to transform my sexual urges into spiritual practices (Tantric and the like). With this knowledge, I am able to redirect such urges into the things that I am doing. Working, exercising, playing and the like. Perhaps, this idea would be beneficial to women, I don't know... just sharing my experiences.... The only thing I can say on female sexuality. 

Therefore, sexual depravity or satisfaction, is really not a thing for me anymore. I don’t even think of sex very much. When I am not helping friends and family members, I live as a hermit. When alone, I don’t really practice Fap. Perhaps on the rare occasion, if I am feeling extremely overwhelmed or have a stressful deadline, I do revert to my old ways, but otherwise such a condition does not exist for me.

I really prefer to practice sex rather than fapping and that is only when I have found a real, intense and passionate connection with someone.  Take this as you will, that is my story.

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

f you can't handle it or are going to be rude, please don't respond as you know my tongue slips from time to time.

Is is possible to get some tongue slips without having to be rude. Or does one have to be rude to get the tongue slips… asking for a friend!

lol... I am getting the hell outta here before I get in trouble! 

Edited August 28, 2023 by Ajax

[Jehovah increases]

TO FLAP OR NOT TO FLAP IS THAT THE QUESTION. IT'S ABSOLUTE AND UNQUESTIONABLY A LOAD OF
POPYCOCK NO FLAP SHOULD BE KNOWN AS CLAPTRAP. WHAT PLEB EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT THIS? FOR MEN OF COURSE AND WELL MOST OF THE WOMEN I HAVE BEEN WITH LOVED TO FLAP. AND IT DESTREESSED THEM AND HELPED THEM SLEEP BETTER SO FORTH AND SO ON. I WOULD FLAP THEM AND THEY LOVED IT AS WELL THEY WOULD FLAP ME. IT'S CALLED BEING HUMAN AND IT NATURAL PART OF YOUR BIOLOGY. AND IT IS ENTIRELY NORMAL. GOD HAS BEEN FLAPPING ALL HIS LIFE. HE PREFERS TO MAKE LOVE THOUGH THAN FLAP BUT HE DOES BOTH. AND KNOW IT NEVER AFFECTED ME IN ANY NEGATIVE WAY. IF YOU DON'T FLAP IT WILL COME OUT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. FLAPWET DREAMS. IT RELEASES SO MUCH STRESS GOD DID NOT INTEND FOR YOU TO HAVE A NO-FLAP DAY OR WHATEVER THESE NEW AGERS SAY. BUT IN THE THE END IT'S ENTIRELY UP TO YOU.

Edited August 28, 2023 by Jehovah increases

[soos_mite_ah]

I wrote about this in my journal a while back: 

I know the post is kind of long but here is the gist of it: 

On 8/2/2021 at 11:39 PM, soos_mite_ah said:

I guess the basic impression I get from NoFap is that a lot of it often is linked to guys having an unhealthy and even addictive relationship with porn. Consequently, not jacking off is seen as a solution and people try to not jack off for long periods of time to achieve some type of desired end result. Some people do it to get over their addiction while others claim that NoFap helps them be more creative and preserve energy. The first I get. The second, I'll admit I'm rather skeptical of. I feel like a lot of it has to do with placebo tbh. My hunch is that dealing with addictive behaviors linked to masturbation such as issues with porn along with avoiding masturbation because you use it as some type of coping mechanism to avoid dealing with other issues with your life are the things that are actually helping these men. Because if you take away the coping mechanism and actually address what's happening, that's when the improvements come about. 

Personally, I tried this. It wasn't really hard tbh and I didn't get much of a benefit from it. My guess is that I didn't get results because I never used masturbation as a coping mechanism to avoid my problems and because I never had an addictive relationship to porn. 

The reason why NoFap felt contradictory to my opinion around masturbation is because prior to finding this guy, I had this experiment with myself. One night I was basically like *what would happen if I jacked off every night for 30 days.* It wasn't anything super serious. It just came from a place of lighthearted curiosity. Basically after that, I noticed that I handled stress better and it was easier to fall asleep (apparently there is a hormonal explanation for this). I also felt that I had a better relationship with my body. This manifested in both me figuring out what I physically liked technique wise as well as seeing my body as desirable, not for anyone else but for me and for me only. My body is desirable to me not because of the way it looks or what I can do with it, but because it's mine and mine only.  

This experiment helped get rid of shame that I had around my body and my sexuality that I didn't know I even had at the time. I think for women, sex, especially masturbation, is seen as dirty and sinful. I feel that it is still something that is still taboo to talk about. I think most people are ok with guys jacking off but when it comes to women, there are people who get all triggered about it. I feel that a lot of it has to do with how women's pleasure isn't prioritized during sex, even in the topic of self pleasure. It goes back to this whole attitude of how sex is something that done to women rather than with women which is a whole nother post by itself. 

[Jehovah increases]

3 hours ago, soos_mite_ah said:

I wrote about this in my journal a while back: 

I know the post is kind of long but here is the gist of it: 

I think most people are ok with guys jacking off but when it comes to women, there are people who get all triggered about it. I feel that a lot of it has to do with how women's pleasure isn't prioritized during sex, even in the topic of pleasure. PEOPLE GET TRIGGERED FROM A GIRL EXPRESSING LOVE TO HERSELF? I THINK IT IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING EVER  for a woman to make love to herself. And do not ever feel ashamed of it.?♾?.

Edited August 28, 2023 by Jehovah increases

[Something Funny]

Npfap doesn't work. Literally, never saw someone who got any success from it. 

[NoSelfSelf]

Nofap is a cult and ideology of the blind...

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Nofap is a cult and ideology of the blind...

Lol

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Jehovah increases said:

TO FLAP OR NOT TO FLAP IS THAT THE QUESTION. IT'S ABSOLUTE AND UNQUESTIONABLY A LOAD OF
POPYCOCK NO FLAP SHOULD BE KNOWN AS CLAPTRAP. WHAT PLEB EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT THIS? FOR MEN OF COURSE AND WELL MOST OF THE WOMEN I HAVE BEEN WITH LOVED TO FLAP. AND IT DESTREESSED THEM AND HELPED THEM SLEEP BETTER SO FORTH AND SO ON. I WOULD FLAP THEM AND THEY LOVED IT AS WELL THEY WOULD FLAP ME. IT'S CALLED BEING HUMAN AND IT NATURAL PART OF YOUR BIOLOGY. AND IT IS ENTIRELY NORMAL. GOD HAS BEEN FLAPPING ALL HIS LIFE. HE PREFERS TO MAKE LOVE THOUGH THAN FLAP BUT HE DOES BOTH. AND KNOW IT NEVER AFFECTED ME IN ANY NEGATIVE WAY. IF YOU DON'T FLAP IT WILL COME OUT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. FLAPWET DREAMS. IT RELEASES SO MUCH STRESS GOD DID NOT INTEND FOR YOU TO HAVE A NO-FLAP DAY OR WHATEVER THESE NEW AGERS SAY. BUT IN THE THE END IT'S ENTIRELY UP TO YOU.

Why are you shouting. Lol

[NoSelfSelf]

@Princess Arabia Yeah creator of the nofap is a complete nerd that made an ideology that if you nofap you will attract women thats the point of it...

[Princess Arabia]

53 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

Npfap doesn't work. Literally, never saw someone who got any success from it. 

Remember, you only live in a bubble.

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Princess Arabia Yeah creator of the nofap is a complete nerd that made an ideology that if you nofap you will attract women thats the point of it...

I guess they were trying to get them all to themselves, huh. I briefly looked on Reddit and I realized it was a movement that started a while back.

[Princess Arabia]

5 hours ago, Ajax said:

I would estimate to be 6 to 12 times a day, sometime more.

Oink, oink. Must have grown an extra finger.

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, soos_mite_ah said:

I think for women, sex, especially masturbation, is seen as dirty and sinful. I feel that it is still something that is still taboo to talk about. I think most people are ok with guys jacking off but when it comes to women, there are people who get all triggered about it.

I guess that's one upside to adult work. I don't get to see this side of it a lot, quite the contrary for me. Maybe that's why I'm so open with it along with realizing people's shit is usually about them. Thanks for the input.

[Something Funny]

11 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Remember, you only live in a bubble.

No I don't. Nofap is a shitty strategy and doesn't work.

Remember, the next time you try to sound smart and patronise someone, you should at least have some basic experience with the topic you are talking about first.

[Princess Arabia]

5 hours ago, Ajax said:

Is is possible to get some tongue slips without having to be rude. Or does one have to be rude to get the tongue slips… asking for a friend!

I have to say this is the most requested act, I've come across with the male species. 

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Something Funny said:

No I don't. Nofap is a shitty strategy and doesn't work.

Remember, the next time you try to sound smart and patronise someone, you should at least have some basic experience with the topic you are talking about first.

I'm so sorry, didn't mean to offend you as I also live in a bubble along with the other 8 billion people on earth. That was meant to be a general statement. I don't ever have any bad intentions only if you take it that way. I don't have to try to sound smart, I'm just being me. My statement was not meant to be an attack as you just did . 

[Something Funny]

@Princess Arabia okay, no worries.

[Salvijus]

9 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

My question is, does no fap for women affects women in anyway. Are there any benefits or side effects. Does it also help in clarity, mood swings or health.

I doubt it makes any difference for women. It's not the sexual energy that's the problem. It's ejaculation that's the problem. For women It's the bleeding and mestrual cycles that is considered a waste for someone on the spiritual path. 

In some esoteric schools if a women choose to go celibate and monk mode there are eneregtic practices to stop menstrual cycles from happening and retain that energy for inner cultivation. But that's only for crazy people who are into weird things somewhere in the mountains.

 

Edited August 28, 2023 by Salvijus

[EugeneTheSage]

I don't know guys what stupidity are you talking here. Porn and masturbation is killing my life. After masturbation I feel like a vegetable, low energy levels, brainfog, weak willpower - it destroys my career, I'm unable to work more than 2 months on some job. That's no surprise, because the sperm is a high quality protein which requires a lot of energy to be produced and if you are spilling it on a blanket few times a day, you are constantly loosing energy.

Actually recently I almost effortlessly abstain from masturbation thanks to amanita muscaria microdosing.

Maybe women don't ejaculate, but the loss of energy could be through because of the dopamine peak. When you are constantly injecting pleasure into yourself (in any form) you are releasing neuromediators such as dopamine and the more you do so, the more dopamine receptors adapt and become less sensitive to the point that you don't enjoy simple things anymore. But that can be wrong regarding female masturbation - maybe dopamine doesn't get released