What should I do now? I didn't sign up for this.

[Sabth]

A guy is asking me to send a nude/underwear pic. And I wanna save it only for my future husband. It never occured to me. I never took a pic of such so I have no image like that. (I am always fully clothed.) Neither do I wanna take one. I don't wanna appear like that at all. Only in the far future. What should I do? How do I settle this guy? He's nuisance. 

I really don't wanna..

Edited August 22, 2023 by Sabth

[integral]

Absolutely do not send him a pic, that is what your authentic self wants.

Always be true to your self in situations like this. 

Next question why in this relationships are you unable to communicate to him what your true self wants and desires.

Why do you feel you cant be your self with him?

Why are you hiding?

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In a healthy relationship you tell people how you feel and they take that seriously and have your best interests at heart. If you say no to him and he tryes to manipulate you (guilt trip) then hes not the one. 

Edited August 22, 2023 by integral

[Sabth]

I've already told him many times that I don't wanna

[integral]

4 minutes ago, Sabth said:

I've already told him many times that I don't wanna

Find someone that respects your boundaries, thats what this relationship is trying to teach you. 

Relationships are high speed growth vehicles.  

Edited August 22, 2023 by integral

[Buck Edwards]

If he doesn't respect your basic boundaries, he will most likely never forge a healthy bond with you. This is bad for you. Give it up. In the same space and time you can find someone healthy. 

[Sabth]

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Edited August 23, 2023 by Sabth

[Salvijus]

13 hours ago, Sabth said:

How do I settle this guy? He's nuisance. 

I'm not sure if this would work but if I was in such a situation I think i would try bring awareness to that person of how unhealthy and toxic his behavior is towards you and hopefully he would heal and regain some sense. But that implies you have enough awareness yourself to see through unhealthy aspects of that behavior and are able to communicate it through. And the guy is not a hopeless case.

Otherwise just block it. Yea, probably I'd just block it.

Edited August 23, 2023 by Salvijus