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My theory on why some people feel physically devastated After Fapping

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Is normal to feel somewhat relaxed or 'chill' (a small decrease in energy) after fapping, but I don't think is normal to feel a brutal crash in energy, 'exhausted', body aches...etc. (At least if you were fucking for 2 hours you might have an excuse to feel exhausted).

Here's my theory on why this happens to some people: Is not the act itself of fapping or ejaculating, but rather the energetic crash from the type of content that you are watching. 

Precisely, is type of thoughts or fantasy situation you are imagining while watching that content (the content itself, as hardcore as you might think it is, is not fundamentally 'bad') that makes the period after arousal, an exhaustion crash in your whole body.

So If you 'suffer' from this 'post fapping' syndrome, I would inspect what you actually are feeling while arousal and what type of psychological dynamic is going through your mind. 

See, this is not about judging or not judging the kind of porn or fantasy you have. You can go on fantasies of killing nazis to arouse yourself. I don't care. But Reality does have consequences for you depending on what you like to think or get aroused with. 
 

Of course there will be minority that have some real health issues or abnormalities and fapping just makes them very tired. But I suspect that is not the majority. The majority of people are fine but are traumatising themselves with their fantasies and then paying a high price in terms of a damaged energetic body afterwards (particularly fantasies that revolve around shame, guilt, ...etc).

It is not a causality that religion, guilt and shame have gone hand in hand for centuries. Those things are still implanted in the collective ego consciousness, and we are paying the price still.

Things are getting better, but there's a whole a lot to do. In summary, if after fapping you are not feeling fine you are doing something fundamentally wrong.

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Interesting theory, I agree that negative feeling after fapping is more energetic and spiritual/psychological than physical although there are physical consequences. Shame and guilt are a big apart of it. I think you have to really come to terms with your most private, extreme desires face them honestly and decide whether these are things you want to experience and pursue or detach from. The most attractive men on a sexual level are at peace with their desires. Awkward, shy men are ashamed of their desire, even in privacy they are constantly punishing themselves. Honesty and awareness are the keys.

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