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Just now, Ajax said:

These are not related to Human Rights thus not relevant. These are judgements, not related to membership in humanity. Neither are Consumer Rights however, as Industries have rights as well.  It is important to make these distinctions. 

Dude, once again. Your human rights stuff is what is not relevant here. Go and start your own thread about human rights. We are talking about sex industry specifically here.

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2 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

I work in logistics and help to transport medicine to sick people.

However, this is not a point. I am not shaming your job. Pleasr don't take it in that way.

I don't care what you think about a job I do. It's obvious I'm not ashamed of it, and that's all that matters. It doesn't define me. I know who and what I am so it doesn't phase me, I just don't go around flaunting it in people's faces because people are closed-minded and oblivious to their own so -called immorality. I probably won't ever mention it again here because its quite a boring topic for me as Spiritualty and Consciousness is what I'm more concerned with. There are more people here facing mental issues than I am to be concerned with my job, I'm more concerned with solving those issues than who care about what I do or not.


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There is nothing wrong with sex as an industry. We have bigger problems related to issues related to humanity. The only think wrong is having a lack of choice, which is related to human rights. 

What @PrincessArabia  is doing is her own choice. Her clients are doing it according to their own choice. That isn't related to the sex traffiking.

It is a pleasure and wonderful to hear from someone actually in the industry to hear how they feel about it is enlightening and helpful. I appreciate the knowledge gained from the discourse

ts. 

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What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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We are all having fun with this! It's all a game. Being able to communicate freely. Its healthy and lovely.

Thank you  @Something Funny @Princess Arabia

So much laughter and Joy today!

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What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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7 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

Do you not agree with that? Why?

How am I preying. I don't go to anyone they come to me, and they are adults capable of making their own choices. I get preyed upon more by men in public so much so that I choose to level-down in my appearance at times just to go food shopping for not wanting to be bothered with the cat calls and whistles. 

Going out in search for women just to have sex with to satisfy your horny needs and having to pretend you care about her feelings to get laid is more predatory than some guy willing to give exchange services where neither one of us have to be deceitful about the transaction.


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Preying! The wild jungle. We get to play the role of animals. 

Haha, preying! What a funny idea! It sounds like praying! Coincidence? 


What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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Just now, Ajax said:

Preying! The wild jungle. We get to play the role of animals. 

Haha, preying! What a funny idea! It sounds like praying! Coincidence? 

Lol, wow didn't realize I was a predator, I have to go pray on that. It's all good tho. No harm done. Nobody's knocking on my door asking to lick my feet today, the only thing lost is I probably smoked 3 cigarettes arguing on this thread, when I probably could have made $1,000x3 for it somewhere. Oh well, that's the price you pay for defending a job where you have to look at shitty asses. Worth it to me.


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1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

How am I preying. I don't go to anyone they come to me, and they are adults capable of making their own choices. I get preyed upon more by men in public so much so that I choose to level-down in my appearance at times just to go food shopping for not wanting to be bothered with the cat calls and whistles. 

Going out in search for women just to have sex with to satisfy your horny needs and having to pretend you care about her feelings to get laid is more predatory than some guy willing to give exchange services where neither one of us have to be deceitful about the transaction.

I didn't really mean that you are consciously preying on them. I didn't even mean you personally. I just wanted to describe the relationship dynamic. 

6 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

I don't go to anyone they come to me, and they are adults capable of making their own choices

The same can be said about heroin addicts. Are they really in a good state of mind to make their own choices? Choices that are good for them?

Once again, I am not shaming you. I don't think that what you are doing is horrible and shameful. It's just that you were comparing it to the mcdonalds work so I wanted to point out how it is not that different as an industry.

Unfortunately we live in the world where most of our industries are very unconscious, toxic, and unhealthy. And we need to somehow survive here...

I think that you, personally, are a really nice, kind hearted person.

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7 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

I didn't really mean that you are consciously preying on them. I didn't even mean you personally. I just wanted to describe the relationship dynamic. 

The same can be said about heroin addicts. Are they really in a good state of mind to make their own choices? Choices that are good for them?

Once again, I am not shaming you. I don't think that what you are doing is horrible and shameful. It's just that you were comparing it to the mcdonalds work so I wanted to point out how it is not that different as an industry.

Unfortunately we live in the world where most of our industries are very unconscious, toxic, and unhealthy. And we need to somehow survive here...

I think that you, personally, are a really nice, kind hearted person.

I guess the state of mind of men has been fucked since the dawn of time since it's the oldest profession. You're assuming most men that see sex workers are addicts and have a problem. I'm just doing the flip side of pick-up, except I don't have intercourse (very rarely, maybe 3x yr) I charge you horny men for my precious services and neither has to lie about our intentions, and I don't have to approach. Same difference. Only mine seems a little easier and less draining. 

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1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

I guess the state of mind of men has been fucked since the dawn of time since it's the oldest profession. You're assuming most men that see sex workers are addicts and have a problem. I'm just doing the flip side of pick-up, except I don't have intercourse (very rarely, maybe 3x yr) I charge you horny men for my precious services and neither has to lie about our intentions, and I don't have to approach. Same difference. Only mine seems a little easier and less draining. 

1) This might come as a suprise for you, but most men have never been to a sex worker of any kind.

So yeah, most those men who use your services likely have various mental and personal life issues.

2) 99% of men don't do pickup either.

3) Approaching girls is actually fun and exciting. And it's totally up to you how you do it. It's your choice to lie or be honest, to look for a one night stand or a soulmate. Cold approach is just a skill.

 

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19 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Lol, wow didn't realize I was a predator, I have to go pray on that. It's all good tho. No harm done. Nobody's knocking on my door asking to lick my feet today, the only thing lost is I probably smoked 3 cigarettes arguing on this thread, when I probably could have made $1,000x3 for it somewhere. Oh well, that's the price you pay for defending a job where you have to look at shitty asses. Worth it to me.

Man, I don't know how you do it! Smoke while arguing! I would probably choke to death on the smoke from laughing so much! My god! It was wild today... a little too much fun. Oh boy, what a stress reliever! What a convo! Man oh Man! I can't stop laughing! I haven't laughed so hard in years! Years I say!  What can I say HAHAHHAHA... Oh man what a treat!

Thank you for today! It was EPIC! It was the best gift I could ever ask for! I was in a bit of a slump, and I forgot how it is important to let loose and go wild for a little while.

xD

No wonder this forum is so full of nonsense! People like to show their shitty ass! 

You must have some pretty good spanking skills in your bag of tricks.

Haha! I can't thank you enough! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

P.S. Remind me to introduce you to some nice cuban Monte #5 cigars. Tiny like a cigarette and sooo good!

Edited by Ajax

What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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1 minute ago, Ajax said:

Man, I don't know how you do it! Smoke while arguing! I would probably choke to death on the smoke from laughing so much! My god! It was wild today... a little too much fun. Oh boy, what a stress reliever! What a convo! Man oh Man! I can't stop laughing! I haven't laughed so hard in years! Years I say!  What can I say HAHAHHAHA... Oh man what a treat!

Thank you for today! It was EPIC! It was the best gift I could ever ask for! I was in a bit of a slump, and I forgot how it is important to let loose and go wild for a little while.

xD

No wonder this forum is so full of nonsense! People like to show their shitty ass! 

You must have some pretty good spanking skills in your bag of tricks.

Haha! I can't thank you enough! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

1 minute ago, Something Funny said:
6 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

1) This might come as a suprise for you, but most men have never been to a sex worker of any kind.

So yeah, most those men who use your services likely have various mental and personal life issues.

2) 99% of men don't do pickup either.

3) Approaching girls is actually fun and exciting. And it's totally up to you how you do it. It's your choice to lie or be honest, to look for a one night stand or a soulmate. Cold approach is just a skill.

 

Shit! I'm so tired from typing i'm hitting all sorts of buttons. This is for @Ajax. Yeah, this was quite a ride and the topic starter was nowhere in sight after he started this shit. lol. Everything is cool now, we made amends like grown -ups should do. I didn't mean for it to go where it went either, but what the heck. It's all good. Now I got that out the way, maybe we can discuss something another time more ethical like Consciousness and why did it invent porn. I need a break. Chow. Later


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There's something inherently fucked up with mass-producing sexual fantasies as if it's some sort of work. It would take a bad toll on the actors even if they weren't being exploited. Sex in its healthy form is when both the recipient have deep respect and emotional connection with each other, which is not present, and can't be, in most porn. A lot of it is perverted and you'll find way too much that's simply twisted.

I understand if you are very horny teenager who can't control their hormones watching this shit but you must leave this at some point. It's not about you contributing to this industry, it's about why you feel the need to watch this shit at all.

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8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Then why don't you go for the McDonald's job and work for a company where it's food is making half of America obese and creating all kinds of illnesses from it's addictive toxic ingredients and underpaying it's staff while they are getting rich. Why don't you go do that and come back and tell me about the stinky ass people you had to deal with and the smelly ass bathrooms you had to clean while slaving for 8hrs a day. Please don't tell me what I definitely get as an escort because some girl told you about her experience. It can be dangerous just sitting on your front porch. 

So because it is not safe to sit in front of my porch I should let randoms pound me? That doesn’t make sense. If I don’t like a McDonald’s job there are many other jobs I can do that doesn’t involve random things going inside of me. To go into sex industry involves special consideration and it is not comparable to a regular job. You are trying to make it sound like it is a regular job. 

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1 hour ago, Swarnim said:

There's something inherently fucked up with mass-producing sexual fantasies as if it's some sort of work. It would take a bad toll on the actors even if they weren't being exploited. Sex in its healthy form is when both the recipient have deep respect and emotional connection with each other, which is not present, and can't be, in most porn. A lot of it is perverted and you'll find way too much that's simply twisted.

I understand if you are very horny teenager who can't control their hormones watching this shit but you must leave this at some point. It's not about you contributing to this industry, it's about why you feel the need to watch this shit at all.

 

1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

So because it is not safe to sit in front of my porch I should let randoms pound me? That doesn’t make sense. If I don’t like a McDonald’s job there are many other jobs I can do that doesn’t involve random things going inside of me. To go into sex industry involves special consideration and it is not comparable to a regular job. You are trying to make it sound like it is a regular job. 

@Princess Arabia just to confirm, I do not agree with the 2 hypocritical r*****s above.

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2 hours ago, StarStruck said:

So because it is not safe to sit in front of my porch I should let randoms pound me? That doesn’t make sense. If I don’t like a McDonald’s job there are many other jobs I can do that doesn’t involve random things going inside of me. To go into sex industry involves special consideration and it is not comparable to a regular job. You are trying to make it sound like it is a regular job. 

There are people in the music industry who never sang a song their entire life. I never said anything about getting pounded or having random things inside me. I know it isn't necessary to defend my position and I'm only doing it to let you see how your assumptions are your own and how people's perspectives can be skewed because of them. Just because I'm in the adult industry doesn't mean I'm getting pounded -using your derogatory phrase. As a matter of fact, I'm probably the least sexed person on this forum, meaning having the least amount of sex, and by that I mean intercourse. Both in my personal life and work. I am not kidding.

I have been very blunt and open in my responses on the subject here, even though all I'm getting are judgements, so why stop at this point. If I was, i wouldn't need to deny it. I can say that within the last 5yrs or so I have probably had intercourse about 10x, and that's pushing it. I'm trying to think and because I don't want to be deceitfully modest, I might have thrown in a couple times I missed. And I'm a sex worker. I can also assure you that other sex workers can attest to the possibilities of this as long as their not street workers or are doing it on a lower level. I'm talking both in my private life and public I've probably had intercourse around 10x in the last 5yrs and a more accurate count would probably by around 5 but I added the extra just to be sure.

So I'm not getting pounded by anyone nor do I get random things inside of me and even if I did, so what. Its my choice. You guys are sticking random shits up your asses so what's the difference at least I would be getting paid for it. You are speaking about something that you don't understand. There are many categories of things people can do in this field to make money other than having intercourse, and I can assure you, if intercourse was all there was to it, I would have chosen something else because I couldn't stand the thought of countless dicks pounding my precious pussy to the point of being washed up like you guys like to say. Yes, I'm providing a sexual service without intercourse as a sex worker. It is possible. 

Most of my clientele are not interested in having intercouse with me, they have others to fill that boring role, I say boring because I find intercourse boring with someone I don't love or like, I don't use dildos nor do I use vibrators and I don't allow fingering. If you would like me to provide a list of other things that are possible to do and the fetishes that people enjoy with a beautiful woman where they can't exercise because people are too judgemental, I can provide them for you at another time, but for now I can assure you they're not that gross as getting pounded by some randoms. 

I'm not trying to make anything sound like anything because I'm evolved enough to realize that there's no such thing as a "regular job", I don't even know what that means. I guess slaving at McDonald's. The problem with society today is, we don't know how to think for ourselves, and instead of constantly passing judgements on others because of our ignorance, we go around thinking we're doing the right or moral thing by slaving for others and making them rich and giving up our sovereignty and authority to other humans and then when we get depressed and project our own insecurities unto others we wonder why. I'm not saying don't work your "regular job" or work for others, because I've had plenty of regular jobs, what I'm saying is don't be so proud of it because most of it is wage slavery and/or promoting a toxic environment for us to live in. 

I could keep going on and on about this, but I'll end it here by saying be careful of your judgements and assumptions in life because, until you have been in someone's shoes, you have no idea what their personal Reality is like, you can only guess, and that is where we can fuck up in our own lives because we are comparing each other to each other, not seeing the person for who they truly are and then basing our choices from that, leaving us to miss out on a lot of opportunities that came our way but neglected to see because of our judgements, biases and assumptions. I am not defending the sex industry neither am I damning it, there are problems in just about every industry in life and just about every aspects in life, why constantly pick on this one. I could be starting threads about the food industry and how it's contributing to the destruction of humanity's health by providing toxic waste to feed us and our children, matter of fact I probably will do that someday, since that's an interest of mine. Maybe I should start a thread to enlighten you of all the toxic products you're putting in your body and how that can affect your mental health. That's more important than who's getting pounded by randoms or not. 


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4 hours ago, Swarnim said:

There's something inherently fucked up with mass-producing sexual fantasies as if it's some sort of work. It would take a bad toll on the actors even if they weren't being exploited. Sex in its healthy form is when both the recipient have deep respect and emotional connection with each other, which is not present, and can't be, in most porn. A lot of it is perverted and you'll find way too much that's simply twisted.

I understand if you are very horny teenager who can't control their hormones watching this shit but you must leave this at some point. It's not about you contributing to this industry, it's about why you feel the need to watch this shit at all.

I love you dearly, and you're a sweetheart, you provide a lot of wisdom on this forum and your YT channel is great. But what you just said just sounds mechanical with no indepth meaning and sounds moralistic. You didn't really think this through and just sounds like the right thing to say. Sex is just sex. It was invented so our selfish asses would have an incentive to reproduce. If it weren't for the feel good aspect there would only be one person in creation, all alone waiting to get screwed.

Outside of porn many people are having unhealthy sex which lacks deep connection and bonding. What is twisted is relative to you and your agenda in life. You only find it twisted because it doesn't suit your taste. There are a lot of sexual perversions happening outside of porn and it's not just horny teenagers that consume it. There are lots of things people find the need to do that isn't moral or ethical. Porn isn't the culprit, it's just a means to an end. I could probably list a dozen more twisted things people are doing to fullfil their need for love other than porn. People are ashamed of their own sexual fantasies so they demonize porn as a way to compensate. The same way they like to demonize gays. And just to make it clear, I'm aware of the sex-trafficking involved, but that's not the issue I'm addressing here.

Feeling the need to 'watch that shit' is equivalent to feeling the need to finding love outside of you in whatever way, shape or form you have chosen. We are the ones collectively creating this so-called "shitty world" then criticizing our own creation. Showing people love and compassion goes a lot further than judging and criticizing. Love you


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Man, sex is one of the best parts of being alive. Enjoy your sexual energy. Not everyone who makes porn sees it in the same way. However, I personally think watching less porn is better. Go meet women.

You can make any product or service in a high quality legal way, or an exploitive disgusting way.

There are people who love sex, and enjoy making porn. Everyone is different. 

But, it is obvious that Porn and sex industries have a lot of corruption and abuse.


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