How to finger and eat pussy without getting bored?

[Vrubel]

I am really grateful to the girls that satisfy me but when I want to lovingly return the favor I seem to lose a lot of my passion. Fingering is really tiring and boring. Also eating pussy is boring and sometimes upsets my sensitive stomach (when I swallow too much of those juices). I find it sexy to see her moan and have horny looks but can't help to feel a little empty and bored inside. I would also add that I eventually get really tired and sick of kissing too much during lovemaking as well.

Now these things are the opposite of exciting for me but how can these things become more enjoyable to me? 

Edited August 10, 2023 by Vrubel

[Spiral]

Don’t do if you don’t enjoy it. Preformative sex is not the way. I reckon they don’t ask you to do that either.

Arguably foreplay kinda requires that stuff,  I don’t know

Edited August 10, 2023 by Spiral

[NoSelfSelf]

@Vrubel how long?

@Spiral I agree with you on everything but sex ,since you giving her a service there and im quoting "who controls the bedroom controls the narrative".Many women that are nagging and complaining is because they are unsatisfied in the bedroom..

You can tell who is good in bed by how quiet and drama free space is ?

 

[Javfly33]

You probably are not that aroused/attracted for the girl. 

[Juan]

  I never had this issue unless maybe I’m not attracted by the person? But even in those times I try my best to give her a good time. If you’re not enjoying ANYTHING of that then I think you could consider try out with guys. 

[Schizophonia]

4 minutes ago, Juan said:

  I never had this issue unless maybe I’m not attracted by the person? But even in those times I try my best to give her a good time. If you’re not enjoying ANYTHING of that then I think you could consider try out with guys. 

You and the others satisfy yourselves by proxy.
In fact it's not pleasant, the only pleasant thing is the penetration.

Edited August 10, 2023 by Schizophonia

[Juan]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

In fact it's not pleasant, the only pleasant thing is the penetration.

  Haha wtf is wrong with you bro? If you’re not enjoying giving pleasure to your partner, male or woman, idk what to said man , do a double check on your sexuality I guess? 

Edited August 10, 2023 by Juan

[Michael569]

Have you ever questioned your sexual orientation? - serious question

 

Edited August 10, 2023 by Michael569

[Schizophonia]

12 minutes ago, Juan said:

  Haha wtf is wrong with you bro? If you’re not enjoying giving pleasure to your partner, male or woman, idk what to said man , do a double check on your sexuality I guess? 

It has nothing to do with sexual orientation, the only pleasure is rubbing your glans against something until orgasm.
Everything else is the masturbatory pleasure of contemplating your ability to make someone cum and therefore be important to him/her.
I think I have at least largely outgrown that need.

[Vrubel]

1 hour ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Vrubel how long?

How long what? I pretty much never really enjoyed it. 

 

1 hour ago, Javfly33 said:

You probably are not that aroused/attracted for the girl. 

I date very stunning girls. But yeah fingering does nothing for my arousal. 
 

34 minutes ago, Michael569 said:

Have you ever questioned your sexual orientation? - serious question

 

I am straight, I find it a bit better with girls that are highly feminine. I honestly try to only go for Eastern European (mostly Russian) women because they have that femininity that I crave and is extremely rare in Western girls. My last date was with a perfect-body Austrian girl but when she was naked it was just a body and a lot of that feminine energy I found lacking. I know it sounds a bit "unmasculine" but when the girl is actually naked a lot of the excitement and magic kinda disappears for me.

@Schizophonia I really hate to say this but the only thing that is pleasurable form is when I penetrate or receive head.  

Edited August 10, 2023 by Vrubel

[Princess Arabia]

5 hours ago, Vrubel said:

I am really grateful to the girls that satisfy me but when I want to lovingly return the favor I seem to lose a lot of my passion. Fingering is really tiring and boring. Also eating pussy is boring and sometimes upsets my sensitive stomach (when I swallow too much of those juices). I find it sexy to see her moan and have horny looks but can't help to feel a little empty and bored inside. I would also add that I eventually get really tired and sick of kissing too much during lovemaking as well.

Now these things are the opposite of exciting for me but how can these things become more enjoyable to me? 

If you do them together like when you're being satisfied, you're satisfying her at the same time. Also try not to wait till after you've cum to satisfy her. Maybe you have a fetish of some sort different than regular sex that you haven't realized yet, or maybe you're having sex out of boredom. Going down on a woman is one of the most satisfying acts for most men to do, a lot of men, especially Caucasian men, they enjoy doing that to where they can do it for hours. Idk, maybe it's been just with me because down there I smell and taste like roses and beautifully scented edible flowers. Don't mind me i'm kind of whacko. 

Edited August 10, 2023 by Princess Arabia

[Javfly33]

7 minutes ago, Vrubel said:

How long what? I pretty much never really enjoyed it. 

 

I date very stunning girls. But yeah fingering does nothing for my arousal. 
 

I am straight, I find it a bit better with girls that are highly feminine. I honestly try to only go for Eastern European (mostly Russian) women because they have that femininity that I crave and is extremely rare in Western girls. My last date was with a perfect-body Austrian girl but when she was naked it was just a body and a lot of that feminine energy I found lacking. I know it sounds a bit "unmasculine" but when the girl is actually naked a lot of the excitement and magic kinda disappears for me.

@Schizophonia I really hate to say this but the only thing that is pleasurable form is when I penetrate or receive head.  

I'm not saying they are not stunning, I'm saying are you actually attracted to them. 

On another hand, IME, much of the sex quality is actually focusing on the girls pleasure and arousal, not yours.

So when you say "but fingering does nothing for my arousal'! I think you are lacking an important point, and is that if you care about growing as a man, you should not care about your arousal or pleasure in sex so much.

 

[Phil King]

 

Edited August 10, 2023 by Phil King

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, Phil King said:

 

Lol, what was this a porn movie?

[Phil King]

Just now, Princess Arabia said:

Lol, what was this a porn movie?

Lmao. The video is called "How to make her orgasm in 10 seconds"

[Thought Art]

Get off on her getting off.

 

Don’t cum first. Remain horny and build up that sexual energy between you two and have fun.

Edited August 10, 2023 by Thought Art

[Princess Arabia]

14 minutes ago, Phil King said:

Lmao. The video is called "How to make her orgasm in 10 seconds"

Maybe they explain it in 10secs? But making a girl orgasm in 10 secs.......idk about that....not even me can make myself cum in 10secs, maybe in a competition where the prize is $1mil and then I could just fake it like they do in porn movies unless they have doctors on hand to examine you and test for that and by the time he's done testing to see if I've came for real, I've done made him cum like 10x over that he forgot what he was doing in the 1st place. 

I need to get off these sexual posts because I get carried away. You can tell who's not gettin' any from their sexual jokes and innuendos. I'm just being silly. I've been so cooped up moaning about my mom that I need to let loose for a bit. Not too much, tho or I'll get in trouble. I'm trying to behave.

Edited August 10, 2023 by Princess Arabia

[StarStruck]

It means you are a narcissist

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

It means you are a narcissist

It's the contrary 

As said above, I can please my companion with this kind of practice, but the only pleasure to derive from it is precisely to be important in her eyes.
Which is precisely a narcissistic satisfaction, even if it seems strange.

Altruism is basically an illusion.

[Jannes]

@Vrubel Do you have to work hard to get pussy?