What is your guy's opinion on loyalty?

[The Redeemer]

When should you become loyal to a girl? Is it safe? 

How do I test for her loyalty? 

[Phil King]

13 minutes ago, The Redeemer said:

When should you become loyal to a girl?

When you become official boyfriend and girlfriend

 

13 minutes ago, The Redeemer said:

How do I test for her loyalty? 

When I went to an RSD seminar, there was this guy who spoke and said that a way to test for loyalty is to pretend to get really sick or have a depressive episode. Also possibly pretend you lost a lot of money. If she stays loyal at your lowest, you can probably bet that shes not just an opportunist

Edited August 6, 2023 by Phil King

[NoSelfSelf]

You are looking to control her because you cant control yourself, be ready to lose her in any moment, then you dont need to worry about what she is doing, because she is entitled to do what she wants and you dont change her ,just move on to the next when she doesnt meet your expectations, no fighting no drama, peace at last...

Edited August 6, 2023 by NoSelfSelf

[Buck Edwards]

Love should not be about testing one another but about cultivating trust. If you cannot trust you cannot love. If you cannot love, you cannot be loyal. 

[manuel bon]

@NoSelfSelf Totally agree on that one.

@The Redeemer Also, my opinion is that loyalty has to start from the moment you both understand or decide that you're exclusively dating each other. 

You can't test her loyalty: a relationship is based on trust, and even though you might not know her\him properly at the beginning, you have to let go of that overthinking. If she breaks your trust, then let her go. Of course, when emotions get involved it's not that easy.

[ZenAlex]

Sure if you promise loyalty you should give it? This is why communication is important.

[gettoefl]

sit down and define the rules and the consequences, no need for loyalty, just follow the agreed on rules

[Davino]

On 6/8/2023 at 10:23 PM, The Redeemer said:

How do I test for her loyalty? 

The actitude of testing is very femenine in nature. Girls unconsciously test man all the time to see if they are a good option to have children with, survival wired them like this. A man does not need to test her woman, he is powerful and has plenty of options to choose from.

This is a very masculine perspective but your question asked for a man's perspective, there you have it. Other perspective could enrich and contrast this answer. 

[The Redeemer]

4 hours ago, Davino said:

The actitude of testing is very femenine in nature. Girls unconsciously test man all the time to see if they are a good option to have children with, survival wired them like this. A man does not need to test her woman, he is powerful and has plenty of options to choose from.

This is a very masculine perspective but your question asked for a man's perspective, there you have it. Other perspective could enrich and contrast this answer. 

I want people reaching out to me and offering an opportunity to date me. Not sure if this makes me masculine or feminine.

Edited August 14, 2023 by The Redeemer