Stuck with my health

[DIVINATOR]

Hello.

I'm stuck in my life because my health needs fixing. I'm sure that I need Chelation, because I have Asperger's. I can barely focus on anything without feeling like I'm going absolutely insane, because my brain function is utterly disturbed. Most people I meet say, that I just need to take small steps. However I have tried that, and everyone of my endeavors falls flat on their faces within a few days.

What keeps me stuck is that I know what treatments I need, and that I need them desperately. But simply can't afford them. I have no education, I'm 24 years old, nobody I know can pay for me. I can't get a job because I'm in such a bad condition. And I can't get a job, unless I get treated… which I need money for.

What do I do. How can I earn the money that I need?

 

P.S. I am not sure if this topic belongs in Health and nutrition, I'm just shootin' my shot here. ?

[Michael569]

You can choose to focus on the things that you have immediate control over and that aren't taxing your budget too much. 

1. exercising and being more active can literally cost you nothing - get yourself a skipping rope, some resistance bands on Facebook Market (ideally for free) and find the nearest calisthenic ground. Take 3 sessions per week and combine it with 2 joggs per week. - that alone might do wonders for your cognitive health. Maybe you could sign up at a council gym, those tend to be super cheap. If your body is physically weak, your mind will be the same. Give it a shot!
2. your diet does not have to be expensive either - who in your household does the cooking? - can you help? could you learn some healthy recipes ? How much money per week are you able to invest in food? Are you getting any pocket money? do you have any savings? 
3. educate yourself -these days you have unlimited access to (almost) free books - libraries, book exchanges, second-hand book stores. Sign up in your local library, borrow a bunch of  books and start educating yourself on the human body, on nutrition, on mindfulness, on relaxation practices, on productivity habits, personal finances and empower yourself with access to practical information - worst case scenario you'll pay some late return fees. People on Facebook Market are literally getting rid of millions of free books all the time. Look into that. 
4. try to socialise with people - do you have any friends? You only need one good friend, ideally someone who is also into developing themselves, you don't want a couch potato who plays video games all day for a friend. 

Maybe you don't need to chelate maybe the problem is that you haven't stuck to anything long enough because you've trained your mind to be uncomfortable with lack of immediate gratification. (hence why you said "most attempt fall on their face after few days) - anythingno healing modality can fix anythign in days. Even chelation may take 3 years. 

Healing takes time and the early results may take 6-9 months to become apparent in some cases. 

You might be surprised how much fixing your diet, lifestyle, sleep and stress management can improve your wellbeing. I've seen it happen over and over again where guys told me they need some radical detox therapy and all they needed was lifestyle adjustment. 

Grab the bull by the horns, accept 100% responsibility and start sorting yourself up. Don;t expect immediate results, you're likely looking at a long term journey but if you don;t do it, nobody will do it for you. 

in terms of the job, could you get some part-time offer such as delivery cyclist, driver, a part-time worker at a gas station, at a mall, library etc - check if there are job agencies in your town and apply for some part-time jobs. 

And finally, could you get access to some government support? Maybe you need a medical diagnosis for that. Either way, might be worth looking into. There are all sorts of support packages for people who struggle. 

Good luck! 

Edited August 4, 2023 by Michael569

[toasty7718]

@Michael569 This is why you have some of the most respect here on this forum my friend