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Another daygame session. nothing remarkable. I didn't feel in the mood but went anyways and one of the direct openings was a super hot girl and even though I wasn't expecting her to hook because I wasn't in the mood I pushed through it until she left me. did at least 5 openings. at the end hanged out with 2 wings apolo and turi and did some shit talk while walking. I liked the idea of meeting with wings, do shit talk while walking and opening. ie: enjoy the time with wings and learn to do shit talk with people. I took that idea from Leo's video on pickup.

 

take aways:

- wings help me enjoy the process

- shit talk is good, game is the ability to do shit talk in some sense

- even If I don't feel in the right mood after work, good to push through it a little bit so I expand my comfort zone little by little

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another daygame session. did 5 openings in total. opening number 3 girl responded with a bad attitude I think because I was a little incongruent w her. that left me feeling bad did 2 more openings and last girl hooked w went for an instant date at a cafe after went for a walk to the park then to a bar for a drink and finally to my house, we had dinner and had sex!

Third time I meet a girl doing daygame and have sex w her in the same day! 

I can't believe it, I wasn't expecting this at all

 

it was key to not leave the last set and push it to see how far it could go, couple times thought about phone closing and leaving cause talk was a little boring but good that I pushed it to the end in a calibrated/scalated way

 

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another daygame session. was tired and went anyways to maintain streak. 3 openings. 2 indirect. last one was direct and was a very good openings, girl didn't hook, could have pushed it a little more but was tired so didn't do it.

when was going back to my house a beautiful girl stared at me on the street. I kept walking and then decided to open her so waited for her to come but she never came to where I was. I should have gone back to open her. still good that I at least waited for her but it was a very good opportunity to leave it to chance. I got some approach anxiety cause didn't want her to see me go back just to open her, who cares? if girl was attracted she would probably love such a display of interest.

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today did 3 indirect openings.

 

when was going back to my house a girl I would love to fuck walked by, follower her, she walked very fast so I tried to catch her up and as soon as I get ahead of her she takes out a key and enters a building. I still feel horrible for missing that girl. hottest girls dont last on the street much, they walk fast! and don't walk long distances gotta be ready to catch them fast

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went back and did 4 more openings to clean the bad state of not opening the love of my life.

 

I take note of the fact that when I started I was very tired and was only thinking about going home but after doing 5¡7 openings in total today I felt energized, all my tiredness and social brain fog went away

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another daygame session. 3 indirect openings. and one direct opening. girl hooked and we had an insta date. I really liked her a lot!

ended the date cause I had another date with a girl I opened last week on daygame.

phone closed the first girl and told her to go out another night for a drink.

went on the date with the other girl. date went pretty well, she was a mom and lived in survival mode so I think we somewhat connected and she was attracted but I only liked her body, her personality was something I didnt really liked. ended in my home drinking wine, we kissed but she wasnt very comfortable and left we won't see each other again.

 

This was my best week of game of all times. had 3 dates all with girls of a quality much higher than the ones I was getting through tinder.

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another daygame session, 3 openings, first was direct and 2 quick indirect ones.

 

first approach ended in a 40 min insta date at a park with a tea we got at a cafe nearby, I had to leave to open the door to my maid which was waiting in my house. also girl was attractive but a little crazy and not my personality type at all so I didn't even phone close her when I left the date. she asked my IG and sent me a DM but I won't invest time in this girl. still had fun!

 

Also when we went for the teas I asked the bartender we would pay them separate, so I didn't invite her stuff, she got a tea and a croissant. It was a great choice to not do it,  I didn't feel like it.

Feels nice to meet different types of people!

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daygame session, in downtown BA. bussy place. pleople are nervous and in a hurry, but high volume and I met a wing there. did at least 6 openings in total. 3 of which were direct. had fun! Wasn't expecting much cause everyone there is in a hurry going somewhere but it's good to train due to volume.

 

I saw myself avoiding a blonde girl just because she was blonde and seemed too "well off" to my taste. this is an assumption. I realized sometimes I made these assumptions about girls that are pretty and too white or blonde and avoid opening. Will work on giving the benefit of the doubt to these girls. Unless I opened enough of them I'm not qualified to make those assumptions based on maybe 5 or 10 bad experiences I had in the past. Yesterday I had an insta date with a blonde girl of these types and even though she turned out to be crazy it was in informative and fun experience

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daygame session, bare minimum, 3 indirect openings.

 

I feel like shit, the girl I arranged a date with for today dumped me, I opened her on daygame last saturday, we went for coffee that day as insta date. I really liked her and was already fantasying her she would be my girlfriend. she didn't even cancel the date properly, just stopped answering my messages, life is so paradoxical and crazy, the girl you think will be your girlfriend can turn out to be a heartless bitch really quickly. so assumptions don't work.

 

I really feel like shit. I wish I could cry. I dated 4 girls in last 2 weeks which on paper seems nice, but nothing that lasted came from that, not even a friend. all those girls dumped me, with the exception of one which was mutual

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I will keep going but man this shit is hard. Also today was very hard, that girl didn't even cancel the date properly, what a lack of respect of someone else's time. Girls can be pieces of shit as much as guys sometimes. Thank god she texted me after the time of the date and I could tell her I lost my interest and deleted her from my contacts, at least I kept my spine while falling

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I don't know wether my girlfriend is going to come from daygame, even if she doesn't its highly likely she comes thanks to daygame.

Improving my game is helping me forge the character I want in life in social/casual situations. A funny guy that enjoys chatting new people and fears not expressing his sexuality and desires.

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another daygame session. 3 openings. 2 direct, one indirect.

Last indirect was w a girl which ass I liked, so opened her because of height and ass but was dubious about age. My last date w a 38 year old made me thinkg I dont wanna date women above 30 anymore unless they are extremely hot or which have an oustanding personality.

the first thing I asked the girl was the age and she said 35 so I immediately lost interest. she was hooked I had a 2 min fun interaction w her talking some shit about age and her brackets and stuff that came to mind and said bye! had fun but I wasn't very attracted so decided to end it.

 

note: also age is mostly about personality, if a girl is above 30 but feels younger thats nice but I don't enjoy 30 somethings who feel like 30 somethings or more. so I can only make an exception if they are in their 30s but have a vibe of a 20 something

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yesterday night did one direct opening, was with a friend(lawrence) goind to a bar and saw a beautiful girl, did a direct opening. went fine. but short interaction no big deal. she added me to IG but didn't accept my request to follow her after 3 hours so I cancelled the request. won't open her on IG. interaction was too short and I don't feel like it makes sense to pursue it

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daygame session, 4 indirect openings. went out around 6 pm was getting darke and cold so not many pretty girls on the street

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daygame session. with wings had fun since after the session we went to a cafe and chatted about shit. did like 3 indirect openings + 4 direct openings and all got rejected quickly I thought a day like this I had to keep going to train my brain to overcome it, clearly something was off in my energy since other days I do the same stuff and girls respond much different. I was feeling uneasy because street was full of street vendors who are very pushy and disrespectful and that got me into a bad mood. then I thought about empathy for the fact of all the things I have and they never will. after feeling empathy I opened another girl and this one hooked. she was super hot and we had a 5 min convo on the street. she was hot but I didn't feel the desire to get to know her more. she said bye and I didn't even phone close her. when we were going to kiss in the chick to say bye I kissed her very close to the lip because the way she moved her head her lips ended very close to my lips, that got me horny and thinking what happened? I wonder whether she did that on purpose or because she was attracted or simply was a mistake. I choose to think she wanted to kiss me.

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daygame session w my wing zen, did 3 indirect openings + 2 direct openings. 

something to note first girl I asked for a coffee seemed receptive and I ended the interaction, could have continued talking but blocked the energy. I feel like 90% of game is about not blocking things from happening by either not escalating or by getting into my head and getting disconnected from the moment

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daygame session. 2 indirect openings + 2 direct.

 

second one was with a blonde girl taller than myself w a big ass and which worked as doctor. we talked for 5 mins convo was good. at the end I told her we should go for a coffee another day and she refused and interaction ended there but ended w good vibe. not sure wether she miss understood me and thought I was inviting her to go for a coffee at that moment, since she told me we could go if we bumped into each other another day. 

I'm having nice short convos w hot girls almost daily, this is awesome since I'm normalizing talking w hot girls. also I'm enjoying it and I'm becoming better at it! this feels way more rewarding than manipulating ugly girls to sleep with me even if I succeed

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daygame session, at least 6 openings. had a hard time all rejections. last one I had emphaty and realized girl was very tired and in a hurry and girl said  thanks and she liked it. I realized emphaty is very important all those girls were in a hurry.

 

also a street vendor came begging me to buy his shit and I laughed in his face, and realized how absurd it is for me to be laughing at a poor and desperate person's face which is begging me for money. I will try to have more empathy and not laugh at their faces again. 

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daygame session.

1 direct opening w phone close, girl is called flor, I almost don't close her since wasnt sure whether she was interested or wanted to get rid of me, let's see how she responds on whatsapp.

1 compliment I gave to a woman about her dog, she just laughed and didn't reply but felt nice. I wasn't sure wether to do a direct opening or not so did the compliment to see her face closer and how she reacts. I liked it because I felt like a highly confident and social individual whoo sees the world as his friend.

1 ask for a coffee

1 direct opening w instant rejection

1 direct opening walked a block and had a decent conversion w girl but we didn't hook and parted ways.

 

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daygame session. 4 direct openings. last girl was the hottest one I've seen in a long time, interaction lasted 2 min. I tried to phone close her and she said no.

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