Fear Of Commitment Because Of Expectation?

[ZX_man]

Hey all. I've been becoming more aware of a behavior of mine. I'm an attractive and confident man (19 yrs old) and I would have no trouble getting in a relationship. However, I've noticed that I avoid asking girls out because I am fearful of expectations that I have about myself and my actions in a relationship. 

Any tips?

Thanks!

[Shin]

Explain more, because this

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I'm an attractive and confident man (19 yrs old)

and this

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I avoid asking girls out because I am fearful

Doesn't make any sense.

[ajasatya]

@ZX_man i think you've got distorted concepts about what it means for a man to be attractive and confident. such a man is admired even by other men as an example of conduct and consistence. is your life awesome enough to inspire people around you? what would you be missing?

[Spiral]

On 2017-03-24 at 0:14 AM, ZX_man said:

Expectations that I have about myself and my actions in a relationship. 

 

What expectations do you put of yourself?

Edited March 25, 2017 by Spiral

[Toby]

On 24.3.2017 at 0:34 PM, ajasatya said:

@ZX_man i think you've got distorted concepts about what it means for a man to be attractive and confident. such a man is admired even by other men as an example of conduct and consistence. is your life awesome enough to inspire people around you? what would you be missing?

I never admired Eckhart Tolle for his attractiveness though.