[nofap] How To Use Your Relapse Efficiently

[Shin]

So, one of the main problem with relapse, is you feel shitty because you weren't able to control yourself.
What if, you use every relapse as a tool to improve your sex performance ?

What I mean by that is, instead of simply fapping in 5-15 minutes, why not using your imagination to visualize the girl you like the most/is the most attractive in your eyes right now, as a masturbation practice ?

You'll basically just think of her, and imagining real sex with her.
Don't start directly with hard and fast penetration, start gently to masturbate by thinking of her sucking your dick, then you can slowly raise the pace.
Of course there will be time where you won't be able to take it anymore, then stop and think of your grandma or your mom, or anything repulsive in that moment, then start again, and again, and again !

The goal is to last at least 30 minutes, ideally 45, because when you have a real warm and wet pussy between your legs, it will obviously not gonna be that easy to stop.
When you pass the 1 hour treshold, now do it with real movements, it will train your body for the real deal !

No, I'm not joking, and yes, it feels extremely satisfying to relapse when you know you're actually using it to improve your sex life.
I didn't have sex since I started this, but I can already control my urge way easier, so it's already worth it for me

 

Edited March 23, 2017 by Shin

[Toby]

You could also take a "tantric" approach. "Fap" and be present with it (without porn or fantasies). You might enjoy it or loose the taste of it. Going into fantasies only fuels the addiction imo.

[Shin]

23 hours ago, Toby said:

You could also take a "tantric" approach. "Fap" and be present with it (without porn or fantasies). You might enjoy it or loose the taste of it. Going into fantasies only fuels the addiction imo.

That's what I was planning to do next

@Toby Ok, I tried it, let's just say that porn and traditional masturbation seems silly now

INFINITE PLEASURE HOLY SHIT !!!

Edited March 25, 2017 by Shin

[Shin]

Seriously guys, this is just so fucking good, and you learn to control yourself so much !

http://www.allabouttantra.info/en/english/42-solo-practise-for-men 

 

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It is very important that you take your time and enjoy the sensations that come along and remain focused in order to prevent ejaculation. Modern studies about masturbation indicated the fact that if a man can resist 15-30 minutes of self-pleasing, he will be able to resist ejaculation during lovemaking for as long as he wants.
It seems that this period of 15-30 minutes is critical. Once this interval passes, you made it! You have control over your sexual energy. For the beginning, this may seem as a long period, especially if you got used to "finishing" in 2-3 minutes.

You know what you have to do boys

EDIT: Ok, just finished my 30 minutes sessions without ejaculation, this is DEFINITELY a habit to have in place.

So hyped to train this shit with a girlfriend now, this is gonna be AM-A-ZING !

Edited March 26, 2017 by Shin