Age and cold approach

[krockerman]

I am 22 I already start to feel insecure about my age in cold approach

Especially in daygame

Some girls that I find attractive I fear that I am gonna be to old to approach

My biggest fear is that I am gonna be persivced as a creep if I approach a girl that is too young

And even talking about it

In the context of hook ups/causal dating what at what age difference does it start to become immoral to have sex with a girl that is too young?

I am attracted to 18 year olds but I have gotten alot of shame for that 

I live in sweden and even if we have a pretty damn low legal age of consent the Cultural age is a whole other thing

It's painful to approach for this reason and this has been nagging me for years

@Leo Gura what age difference do you think is appropriate for causal hoop ups and dating?

 

[Kksd74628]

@krockerman

Learn a principle that you do whatever you need in order to have the life you want. When there's correct intention and you're sure of what you do, you can't be shamed from it, because you simply don't care. Who told you that it would be immoral to have sex with 18 yo girl or even have relationship with them. It is well known fact that girls prefer older boys anyways. Only way you could be a creep is if you'd somehow be a creep. It depends on how good you socially are and not from the age you have. Being too direct in wrong way in the beginning is what makes it creep and that is what older men don't seem to get, because they start to talk about sex in the first sentence with new people.

[Schizophonia]

It's weird when you're attracted to women who seem pre-pubescent.

[Sugarcoat]

In Sweden men get away with rape so you should be fine being a little creepy ??

Edited July 29, 2023 by Sugarcoat

[pablo_aka_god]

As long as they are sexually developed and are attracted to you there is no shame. I would date a 16 year old If I could(i'm 28 years old) 

[pablo_aka_god]

of course nowadays society punishes dating underaged people. as long as they are 18 it's fine

[Raze]

Right when you approach ask how old they are 

Stop caring what everyone else thinks. If you listen to mainstream opinions you will get mainstream results.

Or just bump up your required age to 19 and tell people you are 21

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wW8yzTUFcts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YHBylCxJSY

 

Edited July 29, 2023 by Raze

[Raze]

4 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

It's weird when you're attracted to women who seem pre-pubescent.

That’s not true. Puberty ends at 14-16 for girls.

[krockerman]

3 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

It's weird when you're attracted to women who seem pre-pubescent.

I am not attracted to 12 year olds

[krockerman]

3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

In Sweden men get away with rape so you should be fine being a little creepy ??

In this case it's matter of legality rather my conscience and self esteem 

[Roy]

4 hours ago, krockerman said:

Some girls that I find attractive I fear that I am gonna be to old to approach

You need to completely delete this from your mind. Girls like guys that are older than them. The majority of relationships around the world the men are older by various age ranges.

[Emotionalmosquito]

4 hours ago, Kksd74628 said:

Being too direct in wrong way in the beginning is what makes it creep

Based on the feedback I’ve been getting, it is in fact much much easier to creep a girl out than simply talking about sex too early, although that would be the most obvious way to do it. If that was true I’d never have any problems in pickup.

[Emotionalmosquito]