Getting death threat text messages from a girl I just met

[Buck Edwards]

I don't know the big deal. If you don't like weird people just block them. It doesn't have to be extremely abusive or bad. People routinely block others for the simplest excuses. 

You can't find other girls who are cute, funny and never abnormal? I'm sure there are plenty. 

You don't need big reasons to drop a person. Your own boundaries. And how you manage them. Softer or stronger is on you. 

She'll probably find someone just as weird as her. You can move on. 

[charlie cho]

@Enlightement confirmed, i just texted her "fucking why did you do that?" 

Then she just now proceeded to text me 15 times the same text "dont anger me in the morning."

And gave 30 emojis.

Fuck it was scary just now again.

Wtf  

It really is the girl who is giving me those text. Not her friend.

 

Edited July 28, 2023 by charlie cho

[Butters]

She is both weird and she's playing with you. Block and move on. 2 new dates and you've forgotten all about it. 

[Buck Edwards]

@charlie cho she probably has issues. You want a mad girlfriend who is hot? On you bro.

Relationships need nurturing. She is not compatible with you since her behavior is obviously frustrating you. Find someone who you get along with. Someone who isn't being a headache. 

You can find girls who are average in looks yet decent in character and personality. Don't put up with low standards in behavior. 

[PlayOnWords]

3 hours ago, charlie cho said:

 By the way, this all occured because I called her 'weird'.

1) You validated her feelings about herself which is that she's a weirdo. And invalidated her at the same time so her dysfunction sought your approval.

3 hours ago, charlie cho said:

She kept telling me whenever I replied slowly (as if I was with another woman or person),  and not immediately to her, so when I called her 'weird', she felt aroused for violence.

2) Yeah, total dysfunction. She thinks this behaviour will get her a reward or validation. Must've worked for her in the past, she clearly has some trauma going on.

3 hours ago, charlie cho said:

Telling me she misses her pasttime in jail, she said she wants to cook me, (which sounded comical to me at first, but probably it shouldn't), of course, I blocked her. 

3) Again, seeking your validation, or purposely trying to trigger you to get you to treat her like a weirdo which will further affirm her belief that she herself is a weirdo - which she's obviously been indoctrinated with. I wouldn't be surprised if her parents are super religious.

Poor girl.

 

Edit: OR, she just doesn't like you and was fucking with you.

Edited July 28, 2023 by PlayOnWords

[The Redeemer]

3 hours ago, charlie cho said:

@The Redeemer lol delete this from my memory. I think i already did. The problem is, she quite nice to look at.

Delete that from your memory.

[charlie cho]

5 hours ago, PlayOnWords said:

 Edit: OR, she just doesn't like you and was fucking with you.

No no, she definitely likes me. Every girl loves me. You never seen how cute I am. Dont you assume that presumptuously.

Edited July 29, 2023 by charlie cho

[charlie cho]

3 hours ago, The Redeemer said:

Delete that from your memory.

I just told you, I already did. I just said it to you. 

[charlie cho]

7 hours ago, Enlightement said:

I don't know the big deal. If you don't like weird people just block them. It doesn't have to be extremely abusive or bad. People routinely block others for the simplest excuses. 

You can't find other girls who are cute, funny and never abnormal? I'm sure there are plenty. 

You don't need big reasons to drop a person. Your own boundaries. And how you manage them. Softer or stronger is on you. 

She'll probably find someone just as weird as her. You can move on. 

You don't get the point then. 

I'm not here to talk about "pick up" advice as you want to talk about with me. 

I actually didn't want to block her, even now I don't want to block her now. Because I was interested as to why she acted that way. 

Believe you me, I don't think you realize I've gotten many F you texts myself. But she was a bit different because it was integrated and natural the way it was written. I was primarily interested in what her state and understanding of the world was. I didn't want to fuck her. What on Earth makes you think of that?

If somebody shows you their dark side genuinely. I have a degree of curiosity and I know many people who does too, while you may not have the curiosity, consider others too. 

[charlie cho]

Although, I do get the point, I can be provocative with words. But that doesnt mean I must be unprovocative. That is like telling someone to not use free speech. 

The best speakers were always provocative.

Also, whether someone believes my words to be untrue or true, does not give the right to that person to say I dont have my freedom to speak. 

Even with trying to understand a person's dark side, without provocational freedom, without free ideas and speech, exploration of that dark side is impossible. 

Then there would be no communication. And the consequences of miscommunication will fall mostly on the person who has limited those free ideas and rights to speak. 

Edited July 29, 2023 by charlie cho

[charlie cho]

8 hours ago, integral said:

lmaooo man you missed out on some wild sex and brutal break up

How are you so sure it would wild sex,, lol 

[Buck Edwards]

16 minutes ago, charlie cho said:

even now I don't want to block her now.

I'm curious, what makes you not want to block her, despite her being so toxic to you. 

I'd be stressed as hell if someone sent me a barrage of texts and 30 emojis in a row. 

Most people block once you receive the 5th text in a row. There's simply no time or patience to handle that. It seems like you are needy for this girl's attention and live off of it. If you really felt threatened, you would have blocked her already. It's a toxic dynamic and there's nothing to gain. Except maybe just endless arguments and provoking each other. 

[charlie cho]

1 hour ago, Enlightement said:

Most people block once you receive the 5th text in a row. There's simply no time or patience to handle that.

That's because you never had a decent conversation on text in your life. Blocking on the 5th text? Haha. You must have blocked and insulted some good people along your way who could've been good to you. That's not how you do that my dear friend. It's called being attentive. In real life interactions, when someone starts a rhetoric of his own, instead of a dialogue, a good friend will listen and proceed to be attentive, not block his friend from his ramblings. I hope you understand this. Be more attentive to people next time my dear friend. Based on my observations, people who can't listen in real life, can't be attentive virtually either.

1 hour ago, Enlightement said:

I'm curious, what makes you not want to block her, despite her being so toxic to you. 

I'd be stressed as hell if someone sent me a barrage of texts and 30 emojis in a row.

It's called 'getting in touch with your own darkness'

1 hour ago, Enlightement said:

It seems like you are needy for this girl's attention and live off of it. If you really felt threatened, you would have blocked her already. It's a toxic dynamic and there's nothing to gain. Except maybe just endless arguments and provoking each other. 

 I just told you, I care to learn about people's darkness. Stop thinking everyone just wants attention, by your own projection. Some people do just want to learn. By the way, please don't get offended by this. Don't block me either, like how you would block the person when he texts the 5th text, haha. I am enjoying this conversation with you. But good luck being attentive to others with living with your advice suggested to me.. I write and speak in a way that will seem like an idiot speaking, or just like I am being a provocateur, but really, I'm just trying to have a deep debate with you. Don't block me. Haha.

I do notice, I can be very very offensive in my way of speech, at least in the eyes of the perceiver.

But you have to understand, I'm not trying to attack, I just enjoy deep conversations and debates, both.

Edited July 29, 2023 by charlie cho

[charlie cho]

@Enlightement although I had fun with making jokes about your points, I do see your point of 'unequivocable empathy' with people I know less to be good advice. I'll probably use it.

Edited July 29, 2023 by charlie cho

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

15 hours ago, charlie cho said:

Anybody get an experience like this? Got on a date with her. Totally normal. Wanted to fuck her but only kissed, but she was going somewhere. A few days later

With some miscommunication with calling and text.... with all the texting

This woman gave me serial killer vibes. I get it if she was truly angry wanting to kill me or (cook me) as she said it... What chilled me was that she was laughing and enjoying the process of saying these things. Posting messages to me of clowns, and even homicidal women in my country.

I know this sounds very comical. What was scary was that the woman wasn't angry, but she was laughing while posting websites of news articles, pictures, and weird texts. 

I actually posted this just a few hours ago with detailed explainations, but I just thought this was much simpler, and I wanted your taste in this. 

By the way, this all occured because I called her 'weird'. I didn't even say anything profane to her. The reason I was concerned about her body language in text was because in my country and the neighbor, japan, doesn't allow our messaging apps to turn off read receipts, so I have to assume the pictures and websites she sent me was already stored in her fucking phone. She kept telling me whenever I replied slowly (as if I was with another woman or person),  and not immediately to her, so when I called her 'weird', she felt aroused for violence. 

Which was fucking weird if you ask me. So essentially, my calling her that may have been rude, but it's not uncalled for. 

Telling me she misses her pasttime in jail, she said she wants to cook me, (which sounded comical to me at first, but probably it shouldn't), of course, I blocked her. TF, I would expect a person to call me a cu** or a fuckin asshole on text if I was being rude, but these posts websites, clown pictures and the way she spoke scared the fuck out of me. 

Add her to your block list. 

[charlie cho]

29 minutes ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

Add her to your block list. 

I did. It was a quick decision. 

[integral]

7 hours ago, charlie cho said:

How are you so sure it would wild sex,, lol 

Emotionally unstable, aka crazy babes with guns = be best sex of your life.

Its a proven mathematical formula.

They alllllways have kinks. 

What makes sex good is emotions and women with stronger then average emotions make it really really good and if they have mood swings it makes it more likely for them to peak emotionally during sex. = best sex

Edited July 29, 2023 by integral

[charlie cho]

16 minutes ago, integral said:

Emotionally unstable, aka crazy babes with guns = be best sex of your life.

Its a proven mathematical formula.

They alllllways have kinks. 

What makes sex good is emotions and women with stronger then average emotions make it really really good and if they have mood swings it makes it more likely for them to peak emotionally during sex. = best sex

.. I did get that sense from the girl. Perhaps that's why I didn't want to block her. 

Edited July 29, 2023 by charlie cho

[Sugarcoat]

On 2023-07-28 at 11:21 PM, charlie cho said:

@Sugarcoat thats exactly my question sherlock. But again, attractive people tend to be.. u know.

I heard jordan peterson recommend people to watch how pyschopaths work

Watch this 

But indeed she was a very good kisser. I like how she wore clothes and how she did her nails and toe nails white. Mind I tell you, she was very very socially calibrated too!

Which was hilarious when I gradually gotten to see her go insane through text. 

But if Im honest, i myself have shown tremendous different dark sides when I wrote to people. 

Like how in our diaries we write the most haenouss things without our being conscious, its the same things in writing to someone. 

So maybe its not so strange she had written such gore messages to me. Perhaps, it was to be expected!

I heard a police officer say, its often the most attractive people who actually so the crimes, but we are so easily happy to blame the unattractive men to be doing the crimes. Perhaps it was to be expected that she would write such things or even be a pyscho! A real one.

I need those masking skills ? inspirational . Maybe I have been right all this time when I’ve felt that hotness is the key to anything in life as a woman . Oh no now I’m spilling my own guts out  through text..