Nofap and porn

[Carl-Richard]

3 hours ago, Roy said:

You've made like 48 posts about masturbation since you joined this forum. Just jerk off if you feel like it and stop overthinking it omfg.

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[Danioover9000]

@Someone here

On 2023-07-28 at 1:47 PM, Someone here said:

Don't get me wrong ..I myself was buying into this whole nofap thing just few months ago ..but honestly..now I understand my body and my sexuality better ..all because I started masturbating again just recently. 

Here's the thing ..if you guys want to know if masturbation is beneficial or harmful for you  ..just try the following experiment:

Don't masturbate for a week and see how you feel.  If you feel good then masturbating isn't for you and you ought to be a celibate nofap monk .if you feel sexually frustrated and irritated and uncontrollably horny ..then you should start masturbating. 

Then take another week and masturbate 2-3 times .and see how you feel . If you feel low energy and depleted then you shouldn't be masturbating .

So it depends on the person  . There is no black and white formula that works for everyone .

Now..let's talk about porn . Honestly..I love porn ..but I gotta saty the truth ..where porn industry is at today is really troublesome.  I have seen some fucked up scenes recently.  Porn can be extremely addictive and toxic to the mind.  And also what you see in porn has nothing to do with real sex . It's all fake . Fake boobs . Fake moans .Fake orgasms etc 

Recently  ..I stopped watching porn clips ..the shit you find on Pornhub and other such sites ..and started purchasing porn "movies ". The movie lasts about 1-2 hours . It's pretty hot and not like the 99% shitty Fake porn sites .

The bottom line is..porn is mostly unhealthy for everyone unless you find quality porn. And masturbation depends on the person's genetics .

   I've never seen a post that is literally 50/50 right and wrong at the same time. ?

   You're right on the points that sexual problems are to each individual's needs, whether or not Nofap is good for them, whether some need more celibacy or more sexual releases, also correlated to many other developmental factors like SD stages of development, cognitive and moral development, personality types/traits, ego development, states of consciousness, life experiences, other lines of development, ideological indoctrination from upbringing, self biases and preferences. That is, until you start address pornography you then become wrong. You become wrong here because pyrography is one of the few safety nets for most women against younger men, as pornography functions as a collective sexual depleting system to further pacify and make younger men more docile. Yes, there are psychological tradeoffs like objectifying women sexually, and men too, however I'd rather have pornography as it is today to 10-20 years ago, than to abolish all of pyrography in society and risk many more face to face real life sexual encounters to many times more.

   Literally, if you prohibit digital and internet pornography videos/magazines/comics/erotica completely, or strongly regulate, then you'll popularize and increase demand for sex workers and brothels in the real world. Like you'll increase horny young men approaching women to 100x up to 1,000x, and increase creepy interactions slightly more. Counter intuitively, collectively, you'll increase more horny men approaching and hassling women for numbers and booby jobs. Your individual wish of the world will invoke the mass pillaging and groping of many women by younger horny men.

[Danioover9000]

@Someone here

4 hours ago, Someone here said:

@Roy It's mostly because I'm so obsessed with sex in general. 

I need to talk to a therapist. 

   Well, you're in luck, because Mr. Girl(also has experiences being a therapist himself, having a dad as a therapist too) has a sex hotline that you can talk to him about at Mr.Girl.tv.?

[Roy]

18 minutes ago, Danioover9000 said:

Well, you're in luck, because Mr. Girl(also has experiences being a therapist himself, having a dad as a therapist too) has a sex hotline that you can talk to him about at Mr.Girl.tv.?

I was on the hotline at the start of last year. I feel I resolved most of a weird experience and Mr.Girl just told me I should feel angry about it instead