Are Boobs Private Parts Or Not?

[Mesopotamian]

Sometimes they're out for anyone to see, sometimes they're not.. sometimes in between?

Are we supposed to admire them? are we supposed to look at them or not?

Are we supposed to ignore them? are we supposed to compliment them? 

Can somebody tell me the rules please? 

 

[Spiral]

Don’t look at them and don’t compliment them. If you are intimate with a girl you may(usually) touch and look at them.

Edited July 27, 2023 by Spiral

[Thought Art]

I think they are, in most contexts private 

[meta_male]

No girl I met has ever not appreciated a compliment about them when the timing is right. She'll let you know when it's ok by giving you hints.

[Danioover9000]

@Mesopotamian

38 minutes ago, Mesopotamian said:

Sometimes they're out for anyone to see, sometimes they're not.. sometimes in between?

Are we supposed to admire them? are we supposed to look at them or not?

Are we supposed to ignore them? are we supposed to compliment them? 

Can somebody tell me the rules please? 

 

   Yes, sometimes in between.

   Yes, let yourself admire boobs.

   Yes, but don't gawk at boobies, just look.

   Yes, you have the right to ignore boobs.

   If you want to start a fight, yes compliment the boobs.

   The rules are simple: don't be creepy or a pervert, and don't break your country's laws.

   In most contexts boobs are private, which is a sexist hypocrisy because most cases we see varying degrees of cleavages and under boobies with some beach bras and half nakedness, but most cases men's balls a not shown. Typical sexual objectification and suppression. #freemenballs.

[Mesopotamian]

18 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

 Yes, sometimes in between.

   Yes, let yourself admire boobs.

   Yes, but don't gawk at boobies, just look.

   Yes, you have the right to ignore boobs.

   If you want to start a fight, yes compliment the boobs.

   The rules are simple: don't be creepy or a pervert, and don't break your country's laws.

Those are good guidelines, Thank you.

18 hours ago, Danioover9000 said:

but most cases men's balls a not shown. Typical sexual objectification and suppression. #freemenballs.

This part I don't understand, the context looks like related to the social movement at your side of the world.

[Yimpa]

I mean, there’s plenty of people with a feet fetish. Should feet be considered a private part? Should we ban wearing flip flops in public?

[blackchair]

I'm gay and I admire nice boobs, but if I remember correctly you are from 3th world/muslim country so I'm afraid in real world for you can't look at boobs or you'll end up in jail or smith....only on internet for you......and you are still young and hormones and stuff so I understand the confusion.....

[Michael569]

You should mostly ignore them in polite conversation including dating, work, socialising etc

The only times when you can touch them is either when she is your girlfriend/wife/fling, when you are a medical professional examining the tissue or when specifically given permission (usually drunk scenario)

In all other scenarios assume that boobs are neither to be talked about nor touched nor looked at (when she is looking at you) or it will make you look like a pervert. Sure, you can take quick glances and everybody does just try not to get caught 

The fact that a lot of girls like to flash them around does not authorise you to touch or really pay them an excessive amount of attention, that usually turns into an awkward scenario pretty quickly. 

When complimenting (in a non-formal setting), at least in the West, you can compliment things like evident weight loss, dressing style or a particular piece of clothing, new hair, makeup etc. You should not compliment individual body parts unless you are very familiar with that girl and you know she appreciates it. As a guy that is - girls can generally compliment each other's body parts in a conversational scenario - this is also very country dependant and would probably be more likely in the Mediterranean region and less likely in the Northern and Western Europe where relationships tend to be a bit more professional. 

In a professional setting, you generally don;t compliment people on physical appearance, you compliment on professional achievement or personal achievements (family stuff, achieved education etc). Rarely you can compliment on stuff that is obvious and begs to be complimented on (e.g. long-hair girl comes into the office with short hair) - that should be acknowledged. But if you noticed she got a boob job, unless she opens that topic, you do not talk about it. 

When you are in a professional setting - work, corporate etc - you do not acknowledge any differences between gender and completely forget about people's bodies and looks. Forgetting this unwritten rule not only gets you fired but will get you labelled as a sexual harasser and can get you into a criminal register. The professional setting is dry, direct and formal communication only , with the exception of a colleague or a person with whom you're extremely familiar and comfortable. 

 

Edited August 1, 2023 by Michael569

[Schizophonia]

They're too hidden to be seen most of the time anyway. While the buttocks...

But just be discreet 

[blackchair]

19 minutes ago, Michael569 said:

You should mostly ignore them in polite conversation including dating, work, socialising etc

The only times when you can touch them is either when she is your girlfriend/wife/fling, when you are a medical professional examining the tissue or when specifically given permission (usually drunk scenario)

In all other scenarios assume that boobs are neither to be talked about nor touched nor looked at (when she is looking at you) or it will make you look like a pervert. Sure, you can take quick glances and everybody does just try not to get caught 

The fact that a lot of girls like to flash them around does not authorise you to touch or really pay them an excessive amount of attention, that usually turns into an awkward scenario pretty quickly. 

When complimenting (in a non-formal setting), at least in the West, you can compliment things like evident weight loss, dressing style or a particular piece of clothing, new hair, makeup etc. You should not compliment individual body parts unless you are very familiar with that girl and you know she appreciates it. As a guy that is - girls can generally compliment each other's body parts in a conversational scenario - this is also very country dependant and would probably be more likely in the Mediterranean region and less likely in the Northern and Western Europe where relationships tend to be a bit more professional. 

In a professional setting, you generally don;t compliment people on physical appearance, you compliment on professional achievement or personal achievements (family stuff, achieved education etc). Rarely you can compliment on stuff that is obvious and begs to be complimented on (e.g. long-hair girl comes into the office with short hair) - that should be acknowledged. But if you noticed she got a boob job, unless she opens that topic, you do not talk about it. 

When you are in a professional setting - work, corporate etc - you do not acknowledge any differences between gender and completely forget about people's bodies and looks. Forgetting this unwritten rule not only gets you fired but will get you labelled as a sexual harasser and can get you into a criminal register. The professional setting is dry, direct and formal communication only , with the exception of a colleague or a person with whom you're extremely familiar and comfortable. 

 

we are at the most awakens forum on the planet and we have step by step for "boobs" , gotta love the irony and the God.....and my blessings for being minority and lots of and lots of "free out of jail cars" for me.

[Michael569]

1 minute ago, blackchair said:

we are at the most awakens forum on the planet and we have step by step for "boobs" , gotta love the irony and the God.....and my blessings for being minority and lots of and lots of "free out of jail cars" for me.

 nice sum up. I've probably spent too much time in corporate glass houses - I'm sure the topic could be approached in a more chill way. Or not if you don't mind an occasional knee in the balls

[blackchair]

1 hour ago, 001 said:

bro, it's not about Islam and third-world countries, in the 50s and 60s until the 80s women and people (all over the world) were decent with clothes and behaviours today in a world full of only fan girls and nudity it's considered normal now but it wasn't any time in the history of mankind lol 

 

if you did that in the past in the West you would face the same consequences 

go follow AT pls leave me alone in piece. thanks! 

[integral]

A boob becomes private if and only if a woman feel she and a select few have the right to see them.

A boob achieve absolute privacy if even she doesnt not feel she has the right to see them. 

Edited August 1, 2023 by integral

[Schizophonia]

The more women are covered up the better (as long as it doesn't get stupidly bulky like a burqua).
This protects them (but also men) from silly and sometimes ultimately disastrous interactions based on the "burning d*** syndrome".

And obviously that sublimates the pleasure of the man to see his wife naked.

Edited August 1, 2023 by Schizophonia

[Mesopotamian]

@Michael569 Thank you for the nice explanation sir..

 

@blackchair Yes Iraq, where they tell  you not to look at woman's bodies and not to make eye contact.. etc.. you're right

[blackchair]

12 hours ago, Mesopotamian said:

@Michael569

@blackchair Yes Iraq, where they tell  you not to look at woman's bodies and not to make eye contact.. etc.. you're right

I'm on my phone so I don't know how to quote, pls be careful!!!! you are living in Iraq! I know you are you young and full of hormones but some teen girls got arrested and (I think) got beaten for listening on Selena Gomez.....

[blackchair]

13 hours ago, 001 said:

ask your mom she will tell you what sort of post is this why you acting like a 4-year-old kid who doesn't know women's private parts

idk what people are doing on this forum anymore?

avoiding AT and triggering incels p.s and I will report you just cause this is Leo's house....

p.s you know whats my BIGGEST problem now? how to define/Integrate coral from my perspective and soul and even BIGGEST datebase of human knowledge (a.k.a google) can't help me there I need data goddamn! 

[Danioover9000]

@Michael569

On 2023-08-01 at 11:57 AM, Michael569 said:

You should mostly ignore them in polite conversation including dating, work, socialising etc

The only times when you can touch them is either when she is your girlfriend/wife/fling, when you are a medical professional examining the tissue or when specifically given permission (usually drunk scenario)

In all other scenarios assume that boobs are neither to be talked about nor touched nor looked at (when she is looking at you) or it will make you look like a pervert. Sure, you can take quick glances and everybody does just try not to get caught 

The fact that a lot of girls like to flash them around does not authorise you to touch or really pay them an excessive amount of attention, that usually turns into an awkward scenario pretty quickly. 

When complimenting (in a non-formal setting), at least in the West, you can compliment things like evident weight loss, dressing style or a particular piece of clothing, new hair, makeup etc. You should not compliment individual body parts unless you are very familiar with that girl and you know she appreciates it. As a guy that is - girls can generally compliment each other's body parts in a conversational scenario - this is also very country dependant and would probably be more likely in the Mediterranean region and less likely in the Northern and Western Europe where relationships tend to be a bit more professional. 

In a professional setting, you generally don;t compliment people on physical appearance, you compliment on professional achievement or personal achievements (family stuff, achieved education etc). Rarely you can compliment on stuff that is obvious and begs to be complimented on (e.g. long-hair girl comes into the office with short hair) - that should be acknowledged. But if you noticed she got a boob job, unless she opens that topic, you do not talk about it. 

When you are in a professional setting - work, corporate etc - you do not acknowledge any differences between gender and completely forget about people's bodies and looks. Forgetting this unwritten rule not only gets you fired but will get you labelled as a sexual harasser and can get you into a criminal register. The professional setting is dry, direct and formal communication only , with the exception of a colleague or a person with whom you're extremely familiar and comfortable. 

 

   You are actually the most underrated mod in this website, like you can give a serious step by step for something as simple as what to do when seeing boobs, up to health and even some psychological or spiritual topics.

[Michael569]

16 minutes ago, Danioover9000 said:

You are actually the most underrated mod in this website, like you can give a serious step by step for something as simple as what to do when seeing boobs, up to health and even some psychological or spiritual topics.

 thanks...i guess