Dating

[Thought Art]

So, it’s very obvious to me pick up and dating is becoming a main focus for me right now. I’m going to invest into building up my wardrobe, and getting more experience simply speaking to women. Especially, I need to speak to beautiful women. Not so much I am afraid it’s just… they are so beautiful it takes strength to handle it! I think I’m lucky in terms of my looks. Even at Toast masters there is a girl who is obviously a 10. She has been very flirtatious. I will not try to pick her up or date her simply as I want to keep that container platonic. 
 

I need more experience with women. I want to enjoy spending time with them, dancing with them, speaking, eating and sleeping with them. I think it’s going to be a lot of fun but also challenging. 
 

How are you guys doing? How are your experiences?

[CARDOZZO]

Female energy and intimacy is one of the best things in reality.

Enjoy it.

[Raze]

You are nuts for ignoring a 10 flirting with you if you don’t have experience

[CARDOZZO]

Yeah, go for the girl and forget about this rating thing.

Never rate girls anymore, just talk to all of them.

[PlayOnWords]

2 hours ago, Thought Art said:

I want to enjoy spending time with them, dancing with them, speaking, eating and sleeping with them. I think it’s going to be a lot of fun but also challenging. 

Once hooked, adopting some feminine energy yourself will open the door for this stuff.

I'm not doing too bad. I'm kind of indisposed at the moment but I spent the night with an older woman last month, met her at a pub. I did an approach a few weeks ago, girl working at the train station cafe. Turned out that the guy, who I thought was just a customer or maybe her friend, was her boyfriend. On the sidelines for now but looking to get back in soon.

[NoSelfSelf]

You are worshiping women ,it will be like going with a stick on a tank ,but good luck alot of growth awaits!

[Yimpa]

I used to be really needy and want things from the girl I talk to, but she caught up to my antics and kicked my ass (metaphorically). I’ve had to most utmost respect for her ever since.

[Thought Art]

@Raze I’m not ignoring her, and I DO have experience. My last girl was a 10. 
 

It’s just that, she’s more valuable as a friend at this time in that context. 
 

@NoSelfSelf I have no idea what you mean haha

 

@PlayOnWords Interesting!

 @CARDOZZO I do think the rating is a little silly but also, I have to have standards. At this point in my game journey it’s more about GOING OUT AND TALKING TO WOMEN. Which I still suck at. So, I am just starting with easy things like Salsa which is tonight as a way of practicing going up them to ask to dance during the social dance. From there it should get easier. 
 

Lots of hot girls go to my Yoga studio, but it’s surprisingly not a very social environment so far. Idk 

I need to improve my wardrobe because i don’t feel that confident with my current clothing. 
 

Also, even though I have my own apartment I and doubting it’s nice enough. I will need to upgrade. 

Edited July 27, 2023 by Thought Art

[CARDOZZO]

@Thought Art You will have standards ?

Btw, salsa and tango are amazing dances ?

Edited July 27, 2023 by CARDOZZO

[Rishabh R]

@Thought Art I am single but have approached many girls and faced threats rejections etc. Right now I am just talking to the girls of my class. What my problem is that I get jealous when someone else gets into a relationship. However I must face the truth is that I cannot control what other's say or do. What I can control is what I can say or do. Much love to love you @Thought Art and hope that you will do well in this domain .

[Thought Art]

 

[Thought Art]

@Rishabh R Don’t give up, keep talking to girls outside of class. 
 

I honestly think going for girls who are in your class, work, etc that you see often in platonic containers is both distracting and dangerous. People date, break up, fight, jealousy, etc
 

Focus on meeting girls outside of class and work. 
 

 

Edited July 27, 2023 by Thought Art

[NoSelfSelf]

@Thought Art Worship=seeing someone as special ,seeing someone as special=reaction, reaction=nervous,doubt, lets get wasted to talk to someone...

Edited July 27, 2023 by NoSelfSelf

[Thought Art]

@NoSelfSelf When did I say that?

[NoSelfSelf]

@Thought Art "they are so beautiful" "dont feel confident with my clothes" 

You dont have game so everything is reaction by default...

[Thought Art]

@NoSelfSelf Recognizing beautiful women is important! ?

But yeah, I gotta get better at handling it. Not gonna be ashamed of it, it’s just a fact. Going to work on it. It’s not a worshipping thing… but, how my body feels etc. Gotta get used to it. You have points, but idk.

Edited July 27, 2023 by Thought Art

[NoSelfSelf]

@Thought Art How your body feels is because you worship them,but ill let you do your thing ,i just said it just in case good luck!

[Thought Art]

@NoSelfSelf Well, have you seen one? Felt one? Wow!

I want to look and feel good ? 

Edited July 27, 2023 by Thought Art

[Thought Art]

@NoSelfSelf I want to worship the booty

Edited July 27, 2023 by Thought Art

[Rishabh R]

@Thought Art but I think that talking to girls outside of class is dangerous cause I live in India and cold approach is intolerable to many people. Once I was threatened by a girl's boyfriend whom I approached.