Game fundamentals

[Butters]

What are the few fundamental things to remember for pickup? Mainly talking night game.

I think:

• Don't be boring 
• Escalate sexually
• Lead her (psychically) 

For me I really need to work on the boring part which is ironic cause I find myself interesting, just not sure how to put my personality out there. 

Edited July 25, 2023 by Butters

[something_else]

I would say you should frame it as "have fun" instead of "don't be boring".

"Don't be boring" is making it about trying to be entertaining for other people, which can be inauthentic sometimes. A lot of the time the most attractive mental states come from just doing what entertains you when you're out rather than trying to "not be boring" for other people.

Another one is learning not to take rejection personally, be detached, and just move on when things aren't going well. I noticed when I went out a lot that there were many guys who were super persistent with girls who were clearly not interested, or were using them for drinks.

 

Edited July 25, 2023 by something_else

[NoSelfSelf]

You need to have a marketing team in your game to know how to sell/pitch yourself to yourself ,so then you can do it to a woman ,you cant express it because you havent sold yourself to yourself first....

Before that you need to really know yourself ,so then you can stand on who you are ,so you not moved or influenced by the situation by her tests etc. 

You need to have a standard on everything and a structure to your game to lead her in that direction ,otherwise she will see you as someone that she can run her game on you ,aka friendzone that all starts long before you go outside...

Cant cheat the game famous saying

Edited July 25, 2023 by NoSelfSelf