How To Approach A Woman If She Has Boyfriend?

[r0ckyreed]

8 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Can you imagine? Weaseling your way into a girl's pussy with magic tricks!

Lol. Oh God, you guys are killing me.

You haven’t seen my magic tricks. I can make her boyfriend disappear. JK ?

I’ve had women hit on me for my magic and charisma. One woman told me her panties were wet and that I was really good with my hands. It was weird because I wasn’t expecting that. 

Also Leo, I got my first kiss from doing magic tricks. She told me “If you get my card right, I will put my tongue down your throat.” Then, she did and we made out. She said I could touch her breasts, but I didn’t do that because it was my first kiss and I didn’t know how drunk she was. If I had more game to me, I could’ve had sex with her in the bathroom. So you are right, magic tricks alone won’t do it. I didn’t have the balls then and still don’t.

I do crazy magic tricks like making a card appear in her brah, shoe, as well as mind reading, mentalism, you name it, etc. They have worked in building attraction more than you think. But I’m at the point where I want to focus on having my charisma without needing to perform magic for it. I want her to get attracted to my personality. I want to blow her mind with my personality and communication alone rather than through magic.

 

Edited July 24, 2023 by r0ckyreed

[Princess Arabia]

14 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

You haven’t seen my magic tricks. I can make her boyfriend disappear. JK ?

I’ve had women hit on me for my magic and charisma. One woman told me her panties were wet and that I was really good with my hands. It was weird because I wasn’t expecting that. 

Also Leo, I got my first kiss from doing magic tricks. She told me “If you get my card right, I will put my tongue down your throat.” Then, she did and we made out. She said I could touch her breasts, but I didn’t do that because it was my first kiss and I didn’t know how drunk she was. If I had more game to me, I could’ve had sex with her in the bathroom. So you are right, magic tricks alone won’t do it. I didn’t have the balls then and still don’t.

I do crazy magic tricks like making a card appear in her brah, shoe, as well as mind reading, mentalism, you name it, etc. They have worked in building attraction more than you think. But I’m at the point where I want to focus on having my charisma without needing to perform magic for it. I want her to get attracted to my personality. I want to blow her mind with my personality and communication alone rather than through magic.

 

Everybody usually has a point of attraction. Whether it be looks, charm, charisma, status physique etc. Very rarely, unless they've known you for a bit, is the initial attraction based on personality or even communication style. That's usually how you keep them for the most part. I don't see why your magical skills needs to be an exception. 

But I do understand your point, you don't want it to be your crutch because you can't work magic 24/7. From what I've seen of you here on this forum, I think you'll do just fine, even with your communication skills. The energy I'm getting from you is, you respect women a lot and don't want to do anything out of place to offend them, so you hold back, which is very admirable; and believe it or not, IMO, I don't think you personally need much game to get laid. 

Some guys really have to work on their gaming skills, but my intuition tells me you don't. If you get a girl through your magic skills, my advice to you is just don't keep doing it or talking about it too frequently when you're with her, just focus on her or talk about other things. Should become easier the more you relax and try to be yourself, whatever that means, since you really cannot be anything other, so that's kinda cliché. But you get the drift. Just don't forget to kiss and tell, 'cause I'd surely love to hear about it and all the clumsy stuff you had to endure like maybe she turned out to be a man. Just kidding!

[r0ckyreed]

@Princess Arabia Thanks! I appreciate you.

I know that I need to work on my confidence in going out there and approaching. It is hard to do night game solo.

I also want to get involved in more social circles and social activities. I have always been focused on my goals and life purpose that I have neglected my social life. I don’t really have any close friends. I sometimes can be socially awkward because all I really wanna talk about is cool stuff like philosophy, meditation, spirituality, etc. I don’t care about topics like football and fashion. I gotta work on small talk.

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

@Princess Arabia Thanks! I appreciate you.

I know that I need to work on my confidence in going out there and approaching. It is hard to do night game solo.

I also want to get involved in more social circles and social activities. I have always been focused on my goals and life purpose that I have neglected my social life. I don’t really have any close friends. I sometimes can be socially awkward because all I really wanna talk about is cool stuff like philosophy, meditation, spirituality, etc. I don’t care about topics like football and fashion. I gotta work on small talk.

Most guys are usually talking about themselves on dates, so it will probably be refreshing to her if you ask her questions about herself, without sounding like an interview and expand on that. I was shy growing up; and it wasn't until my latter years because of modelling and being an exotic dancer when I became more extroverted, which happened naturally because of experience. Now I can't shut up. Lol. I find when I go out, Spiritual stuff is a hit or miss and I try to feel them out first before going there too deep. It all depends. If they're catholic, I don't even bother.

Since you don't drink, I suggest just imagine them naked, everybody around you naked and that'll do it, just don't get carried away and start to undress yourself, cause that small talk will turn into a huge conversation in court. 

Seriously though, confidence comes with practice; so, the more you go out, the better you'll get and just remember most people are also concerned with how they're coming across to you the same way you're concerned about coming across to them, so it kinda cancels out. Small talk can lead to "big talk", so don't shy away from that if that's what's appropriate at the time. Just use your discretion. As long as you're not a jerk, you'll be fine. 

[The Redeemer]

On 7/23/2023 at 8:40 AM, CARDOZZO said:

@r0ckyreed You'll grow a lot doing daygame.

If you are doing solo sober daygame, you're a God.

I must be a God then. I feel like the police is always watching me ?

[CARDOZZO]

@The Redeemer Spotlight Effect

[r0ckyreed]

How do you guys approach women during day game?

What I did was go up to a woman and said something like: “Wow! This is a cool store. Have you been here before?”

Also, it feels awkward to night game solo. The only thing I can think of is offering to do magic tricks lol. Any tips on how to approach without it being weird?

Edited July 24, 2023 by r0ckyreed

[CARDOZZO]

@r0ckyreed Daygame is a lot harder for me.

Nightgame is fucking easy when you’re on a bar or club, because the frame is already “there”. 

Daygame = I tend to be direct. Compliment + Vibe + Instant Date or Phone Number.

Nightgame = I enjoy the vibe/club, tell some jokes/teasing and the rest will follow.

 

[r0ckyreed]

1 hour ago, CARDOZZO said:

@r0ckyreed Daygame is a lot harder for me.

Nightgame is fucking easy when you’re on a bar or club, because the frame is already “there”. 

Daygame = I tend to be direct. Compliment + Vibe + Instant Date or Phone Number.

Nightgame = I enjoy the vibe/club, tell some jokes/teasing and the rest will follow.

 

Do you nightgame solo? It just seems intimidating to walk up to a group of people to approach the woman. I know I’m just making this more complicated than it is. For some reason, I just feel weird going into bars and clubs alone. It’s like I’m a predator or something idk.

[CARDOZZO]

@r0ckyreed Solo nightgame is hard at the beginning.

You need to learn to “warm up” alone.

But you’ll get to a point where you‘re free to go out alone, talk to a lot of people, flirt and have fun.

Solo nightgame can teach you a lot about spirituality, emotions, being present, dealing w/ difficult emotions/thoughts.

[CARDOZZO]

26 minutes ago, r0ckyreed said:

It’s like I’m a predator

No, letting go of that thought.

Don’t hide your intentions, be open and honest with yourself.

A girl feels your sexual energy, don’t hide it.

Use it to help yourself.

[r0ckyreed]

46 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

No, letting go of that thought.

Don’t hide your intentions, be open and honest with yourself.

A girl feels your sexual energy, don’t hide it.

Use it to help yourself.

Thanks! I appreciate you! I don’t drink alcohol at all. But I could have a water or root beer and play pool by myself until I see a woman I want to approach. Then, when I approach her, I can go to another bar and repeat.

I live in a college town, so I will have opportunities in meeting people when school starts in a few weeks. I think I could do a lot of day game by going on the college campus and by going to shops around town.

Do you have any tips on going solo night and day game that you found helpful for you?

Edited July 24, 2023 by r0ckyreed

[CARDOZZO]

@r0ckyreed Amazing.

Go all in, you’ll develop powerful skills doing daygame/nightgame.

Funny enough, your pickup skills will help you build a business, make friends and enjoy life more and more.

 

[r0ckyreed]

Part of my issue is that when I go up to a group of people to approach, I really don’t know what to talk about. I run out of things to say. I think what I will try to do is to express more curiosity into people.

Thats one of the reasons why I did magic tricks because it was a way of interaction that I could do and rely on and connect with people without needing to fill conversation.

I guess how do I not run out of things to say? I thought about Leo’s feedback on his video on taking note of the most recent thing on the news media.

Edited July 24, 2023 by r0ckyreed

[r0ckyreed]

Thank you all for your support. Much appreciated! I know what to do now. I will be on family vacation in Oregon, so I will be away for a bit. But I will post any results when I get back. I just gotta get into the Not give a crap state/playful state.

Edited July 25, 2023 by r0ckyreed

[Ulax]

On 7/24/2023 at 4:17 AM, Leo Gura said:

Can you imagine? Weaseling your way into a girl's pussy with magic tricks!

Lol. Oh God, you guys are killing me.

@Leo Gura Wdym dude? Magic trick game is the most high conscious game there is

 

[Ulax]

6 hours ago, r0ckyreed said:

Part of my issue is that when I go up to a group of people to approach, I really don’t know what to talk about. I run out of things to say. I think what I will try to do is to express more curiosity into people.

Thats one of the reasons why I did magic tricks because it was a way of interaction that I could do and rely on and connect with people without needing to fill conversation.

I guess how do I not run out of things to say? I thought about Leo’s feedback on his video on taking note of the most recent thing on the news media.

@r0ckyreed Free association baby!

I think this vid could be helpful:

 

[r0ckyreed]

PROGRESS UPDATE (8/4/23):

I wanted to share my progress tonight:

I went and danced with two women tonight. 

It was a loud club. I immediately walked in, and I saw someone I recognized. A woman grabbed my arm as I was walking away. I introduced myself and so did she. It was loud in there. I was not really physically attracted to her. But I thought I would practice building up my confidence and approach. I asked her if she wanted to dance and led her to the dance floor. We danced for quite some time. I was dancing really hardcore. I have a lot of energy and was breaking up a sweat. I danced with some other young girls around me and made some jokes. Some of them were college students and I said something witty like: "I bet everyone here is a major in drinking and is making an A in that." That got some giggles.

I then took a break, and I saw this young woman that looked attractive. I was about to leave, but I said "screw it" in my mind and went over and approached her.  I did not recognize her at first, but I was surprised when she said my name. I found out that I performed magic tricks to her the week before but forgot. I asked her to dance, and she said agreed. We danced and 2 stepped, but she was not dancing close to me. I spun her around a bit. But I saw her glancing around. I said "You are a great dancer. Are you having fun?" She said "Yes." I said to her something really dumb. It was something like, "You seem like you are from the midwest. Are you a play-it-safe kind of girl?" I really don't know why I said that lol. But after I said that she was like "What is that supposed to me?" (with a smile on her face) and then she stopped dancing and walked over to her friend. I just asked her where she was from and then I said "Thanks for dancing with me. Have a nice night."

In my analysis after the fact, I could sense during the time that she was not interested because she was not asking me questions, she was not dancing close to me, and was looking around and not always at me.

I want to count my success that I was able to get one girl to hook point, but I was not attracted to her. I eventually, left her and went dancing with other women around the dance floor. I was able to have the confidence with her and in talking to other women. The club was really loud, so that was against me in talking to women. Also, in the future, I plan on not dancing like I am on drugs. I have ADHD, and I went hardcore on the dance floor to where I was break dancing. It got people's attention, but I realize that all it does is makes me seem needy maybe. I don't know. I was really just being myself and having fun. But I can also see that from the energy I exude off may come across as too much for some people. 

Also, in the future, I missed an opportunity where I was talking to some women I was dancing with. And one of them said, "You should go dance with her (the girl I danced with initially). She seems to enjoy dancing with you." I should've said something like, "I bet you would too."

I missed an opportunity there. But I am learning by writing it here. If you have any other feedback, I would greatly appreciate it. 

My goal is to go out again the next night and try again.

EDIT: I also missed an opportunity where there were girls sitting at a table and there as an empty seat. I did not approach them because I was nervous. They were on their phones. But I was nervous as to whether they had boyfriends around. I walked away and saw a guy bringing one of the girls a drink. So, I am not sure. I find it easier to socialize and flirt when there is some activity going on like on the dance floor because usually if women are out there dancing together and not with some other guy, then they probably don't have a boyfriend.

 

Edited August 5, 2023 by r0ckyreed

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

Daygame is boot-camp. 

[ZenAlex]

Amusing that so called "enlightened" folk on here think it's ok and cool to go and flirt with other people's spouses.

I hope one of you gets punched in the face so you realise why that's not ok.