How to have the universe go in your way

[Romer02]

I’ve had these moments in my personal development journey where it feels like everything is going in my favor, because i suppose I was being very pure spiritually. 
 

I noticed when I did something degenerate that it would stop going in my favor in a sense. 
 

i would like to see others thoughts on the subject so I could get back on track currently been having a tough time with my life. 

[itsadistraction]

Hope this helps....

[Romer02]

@itsadistraction my friend this was very helpful thank you ?? 

[Yimpa]

By accepting when things don’t go your away 

[Zedman]

Your ambition/ life purpose is something you have to sell to the universe and keep doing it every day. Your body and mind is also part of that universe. Why should they buy it? How do you become the best salesman of your way? Is your sales pitch clear enough? As others pointed out perhaps you are too insistent or expecting things to be steady?

[Davino]

I get where you are coming from and the answers they have given you are very good, so let me try to give you this perspective.

All abrahamic cultures have this false belief rooted in the shadows of their societies: "Your will and the universal will are different. There is a qualitative difference between both." This is wrong. The difference is only quantity not in quality. The universal mind just wills it more but is not different from you personal wills and desires. The universe is desiring through you as you.

This is an abstract perspective that should be sobered up with the other answers to your question. But really think about it and discard that false belief, you will sudendly feel at ease with what you want and desire.

[LSD-Rumi]

@Romer02 When you stop caring whether things go your way or not, some strange things start happening.

[SeaMonster]

On 7/21/2023 at 4:12 AM, Romer02 said:

I’ve had these moments in my personal development journey where it feels like everything is going in my favor, because i suppose I was being very pure spiritually. 
 

I noticed when I did something degenerate that it would stop going in my favor in a sense. 
 

i would like to see others thoughts on the subject so I could get back on track currently been having a tough time with my life. 

The important thing is to understand the pattern.

What you're really talking about is, there are certain behaviors or habits that lead to bad outcomes and others that lead to good outcomes.

So even if you slip up occasionally, at least you know how to get back on track.  

At least you're not confused.  You can TAKE RESPONSIBILITY.

Most people are not even at that level of awareness.  They don't connect their vices with their failures.

So occasional weakness of will is always easier to manage than self-delusion and avoidance of personal responsibility.

[Yimpa]

6 hours ago, DefinitelyNotARobot said:

In fact, sometimes life will throw the worst shit imaginable at you just to shatter your ego, and it will do so again and again and again until you're laying on the floor begging for mercy.

That happened to me yesterday, except I was kneeling/squatting on the floor; not lying