Do You Love Women With ALL Your Heart?

[Tenebroso]

@CARDOZZO Ok, we are not going to see eye to eye. I don't like the assumptions you made about my point of view but I enjoyed the discussion with you, I am going to leave it alone for now.

[CARDOZZO]

@Tenebroso I appreciate your POV.

Thanks for the discussion.

Be open to new mental models ❤️

[CARDOZZO]

@Lila9 ?

 

[Roy]

22 hours ago, The Redeemer said:

I'm tired of everything being about women

Yea honestly it's annoying af. Ironically you will get results with women when you stop treating them as important and trying so hard. They end up coming to you because it's attractive when someone doesn't give a fuck. "This guy must be busy and important since he barely spares any attention for me." That is what they are subconsciously thinking.

Edited July 17, 2023 by Roy

[CARDOZZO]

12 hours ago, Roy said:

Yea honestly it's annoying af.

It doesn't need to be all about women at all.

You can choose to be a monk, romance artist, pickup artist or whatever.

It's just a perspective  

Edited July 17, 2023 by CARDOZZO

[supremeyingyang]

15 hours ago, Roy said:

Yea honestly it's annoying af. Ironically you will get results with women when you stop treating them as important and trying so hard. They end up coming to you because it's attractive when someone doesn't give a fuck. "This guy must be busy and important since he barely spares any attention for me." That is what they are subconsciously thinking.

You read this "wisdom" in a Pickup Forum from the early 2000s?

Instruction unclear, I ignore 99.9% of women, but get no results. Please give more Insights.

[CARDOZZO]

You can buy another book called The Atlas of Beauty.

It's a photographic book displaying female beauty all around the world.

Just WOW!  

Celebrate it with all your heart.

[Roy]

4 hours ago, supremeyingyang said:

You read this "wisdom" in a Pickup Forum from the early 2000s?

Instruction unclear, I ignore 99.9% of women, but get no results. Please give more Insights.

I should have specified my post was about women you see (semi) regularly in your day to day life.

Not random women you will only see once and will only have 1 chance to talk to.

And no I've never read or studied any pick-up material in my life, I've never needed it personally.

Edited July 18, 2023 by Roy

[NoSelfSelf]

7 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

You can buy another book called The Atlas of Beauty.

It's a photographic book displaying female beauty all around the world.

Just WOW!  

Celebrate it with all your heart.

?????

[CARDOZZO]

@NoSelfSelf ❤️

[CARDOZZO]

Great interview:

 

[Tenebroso]

@CARDOZZO Watched the whole thing, it was pretty lame and I won't be reading the book. His so called insights were predictable and don't explain much. If what he said was true the dating game would look very different already, women already give themselves to men who don't embody any of these qualities. Take the average 20-35 year old man off the street and make him spend a year learning to truly love women and it would barely move the needle. These conversations are useless until there is an honest conversation about what really attracts women.

My instincts for people are pretty sharp, I don't get a scammer vibe from him but I don't really buy that he even believes the message he is putting across.

It is pretty easy to get women to nod their head and agree, just say things that make women look complex and virtuous, so I was not impressed with the woman again very predictable. I don't get the impression these are people who have done any real inner work or have the ability to observe their environment clearly, I could predict the whole arch of the conversation after the first five minutes. Disappointing but not surprised.

[CARDOZZO]

@Tenebroso I appreciate your insights on the interview.

What I get from Zan is this:

• He’s speaking about a spirit/vibration that you’re coming from regarding women/life. (As woo-woo as it seems)
• He’s not teaching it just to men get laid, it’s different, it’s about loving women/feminine energy without agenda at first place.
  If you get laid, enter relationships because of the spirit he’s talking about, great! It will just amplify your love.

And to be honest, it’s not a book just about dating, relationships and women.

It’s a book about aliveness, love, creativity, metaphysical relating, poetry, appreciation.

It’s a book about healing and to the end, you will end up loving reality entirely.

So, it’s a spiritual way of living, appreciating yourself and women, beautiful communion, authentic communication and relating.

 

 

[CARDOZZO]

I also get that if you want to resonate with Zan, you'll need to transcend all that you know, think, believe about women/relationships.

I get that he will even be delighted about being silly and innocent.

I'll bring a spiritual scale of consciousness to talk about why the majority of guys MAYBE won't get it:

All paradigms regarding women is at 400 (Reason).

Zan's paradigm is at 500 (Love).

But don't assume that 500 (Love) is better than 400 (Reason). No, it's not my point. 

I'm just saying that his teachings is on a different paradigm.

[CARDOZZO]

Ok but do you love ALL them?

Edited November 19, 2023 by CARDOZZO

[CARDOZZO]

You should love every atom of her body, mind and soul.

[Spiral]

One should be careful conflating romantic love and actual love. Very different things.

[CARDOZZO]

@Spiral 😉

[Twentyfirst]

On 7/19/2023 at 2:39 AM, CARDOZZO said:

@Tenebroso I appreciate your insights on the interview.

What I get from Zan is this:

• He’s speaking about a spirit/vibration that you’re coming from regarding women/life. (As woo-woo as it seems)
• He’s not teaching it just to men get laid, it’s different, it’s about loving women/feminine energy without agenda at first place.
  If you get laid, enter relationships because of the spirit he’s talking about, great! It will just amplify your love.

And to be honest, it’s not a book just about dating, relationships and women.

It’s a book about aliveness, love, creativity, metaphysical relating, poetry, appreciation.

It’s a book about healing and to the end, you will end up loving reality entirely.

So, it’s a spiritual way of living, appreciating yourself and women, beautiful communion, authentic communication and relating.

 

 

The problem is that when it comes to women there are what we call "naturals". The naturals never needed to learn and always got women easily. This confused everyone else who was trying to get women but would get rejected. Those who got rejected tried to imitate the naturals through game or studying or practicing talking to women. 

The naturals didn't have to do a lifetime of study like Zan did. So how can Zan organically get women and teach us to do the same?

[CARDOZZO]

21 minutes ago, Twentyfirst said:

The problem is that when it comes to women there are what we call "naturals". The naturals never needed to learn and always got women easily. This confused everyone else who was trying to get women but would get rejected. Those who got rejected tried to imitate the naturals through game or studying or practicing talking to women. 

The naturals didn't have to do a lifetime of study like Zan did. So how can Zan organically get women and teach us to do the same?

Read the book and try it for yourself.

Girls will beg your unique love.