Unconditional love from a human

[StarStruck]

Is this even possible? Especially if you are a guy you are subjected to so many conditions. I’m starting to meet these conditions but I have a double feeling about it because these females didn’t accept me when I was a rough crystal and the more I’m getting refined the more they show interest but I don’t want it anymore. 

[ivankiss]

No. It's not possible. Not because you're a guy, or not attractive enough or whatever, but because unconditional love exists only as singularity. If there are two that are in a relationship, there are inevitably going to be terms and conditions. Expectations. Standards. Values. Etc.

That is far from "unconditional". Which doesn't mean that "romantic love" cannot be pure, beautiful and strong... But true, unconditional love knows no other. No relation between this and that. It is one. It is whole. 

[Tenebroso]

@ivankiss I like this, worded better than I ever could.

[Ulax]

@StarStruck I'd distinguish between love and sexual attraction

Edited July 17, 2023 by Ulax

[NoSelfSelf]

What does being loved do exactly?

What does accepted do exactly?