Why is society letting women get away with their blatant misandry?

[The Redeemer]

7 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

As in bad and good version of you or? Or more different personas 

It's like I am aware of the internal operating system of the mind and I can't get out of it.

It's very weird.

Edited July 13, 2023 by The Redeemer

[Sugarcoat]

1 minute ago, The Redeemer said:

It's like I am aware of the internal operating system of the mind and I can't get out of it.

It is very weird and strange.

So you have a bunch of different potential vibes/personas of yourself in your mind or ?  

 

you might wanna check out “internal family systems”

 

 

 

[The Redeemer]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

So you have a bunch of different potential vibes/personas of yourself in your mind or ?  

 

you might wanna check out “internal family systems”

 

 

 

Yes

[Sugarcoat]

3 hours ago, The Redeemer said:

Yes

Yea so I would say from my experience. The many different facets of you don’t have to be problematic in themselves. Actually it’s positive imo to be able to access many different vibes. But trauma, health and other problems in life can affect how we experience this so the improvement lies in working with things around it, for in itself it’s not really a bad thing. And also not resisting these different facets of us/our mind, letting it flow by itself a little, that can be healing in itself. Just saying. When we heal in ourselves we become less bothered by what others think of us too 

Edited July 13, 2023 by Sugarcoat

[The Redeemer]

On 7/13/2023 at 9:54 AM, Sugarcoat said:

Yea so I would say from my experience. The many different facets of you don’t have to be problematic in themselves. Actually it’s positive imo to be able to access many different vibes. But trauma, health and other problems in life can affect how we experience this so the improvement lies in working with things around it, for in itself it’s not really a bad thing. And also not resisting these different facets of us/our mind, letting it flow by itself a little, that can be healing in itself. Just saying. When we heal in ourselves we become less bothered by what others think of us too 

What do I need to do with the part of myself which wishes to control others?

[mr_engineer]

To answer the title question - there is no shortage of simps in this world. Who will hang onto women's every word. 

It's easy to see the problems with the feminist ideology, that the women who espouse it are relationally traumatized and that's at the root of them becoming hardcore man-haters. What's hard to see through, is the self-righteous attitude of the 'male feminists' supporting them. It's harder to see why they're against masculinity and why they talk so much about 'toxic masculinity'. What's even more baffling is that there is some overlap between these individuals and PUAs. PUAs who brag about their success with women and are like 'you suck with women cuz you don't respect them' and you're like 'I don't respect women?! I love women! I don't know what you're talking about!!' Then, when you see the personal relationship-goals of these PUAs, they don't want relationships. They don't want to provide for women. Then it makes sense why they're for 'female independence'! 

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, The Redeemer said:

What do I need to do with the part of myself which wishes to control others?

That’s a hard question to answer

i believe this desire to control others comes from your own sense of helplessness in being able to get what you want regarding something

id say you can either when this control freak appears, notice your own sense of helplessness, get a little panicky about in the sense of “I need to get my shit together” and redirect  this control freak towards yourself and use the negativity as fuel 

 

or you could just go along with this desire to control and let it play itself out, all the frustration and the behaviors and it might reveal something to you 

Edited July 15, 2023 by Sugarcoat

[The Redeemer]

9 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

That’s a hard question to answer

i believe this desire to control others comes from your own sense of helplessness in being able to get what you want regarding something

id say you can either when this control freak appears, notice your own sense of helplessness, get a little panicky about in the sense of “I need to get my shit together” and redirect  this control freak towards yourself and use the negativity as fuel 

 

or you could just go along with this desire to control and let it play itself out, all the frustration and the behaviors and it might reveal something to you 

I think that control is possible. I think controlling my life is possible 

[Sugarcoat]

17 minutes ago, The Redeemer said:

I think that control is possible. I think controlling my life is possible 

Yea but what does controlling your life start with?