Do you want the same partner in love

[Rishabh R]

@Yimpa ok thank you . So how do I overcome pain and suffering to get to other side ? Will reframing thoughts help me ? By the way you are right , it shows me the avoidance of truth mechanism .

Edited July 14, 2023 by Rishabh R

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, Rishabh R said:

@Yimpa ok thank you . So how do I overcome pain and suffering to get to other side ? Will reframing thoughts help me ? By the way you are right , it shows me the avoidance of truth mechanism .

Reframing helps, but it goes even deeper. You must discover the source of reframing itself. 

Feel free to continue or start experimenting with stuff like therapy, seeking more dates, learning about sexuality, etc. Truth can be discovered in all domains that you pour your whole heart in.

[Hibahere]

@manuel bon oh wow I'm glad that most people are open to this possibility. I personally have a hard time with this. I want my partner to be a great part of my life so if he was not interested in this stuff it would feel like he doesnt know me fully and id feel depressed.

[Hibahere]

@Rishabh R you will have to attract good experiences once or twice to really actually convince your mind that good people do exist. Been thwre done that. I know how u feel

[manuel bon]

@Hibahere

8 hours ago, Hibahere said:

I want my partner to be a great part of my life so if he was not interested in this stuff it would feel like he doesnt know me fully and id feel depressed.

I totally get it, and I know that it is hard. But if they're not interested in these things it doesn't mean that they are not willing to know you fully. This is part of who you are and they should accept all of these things.

But I know it is also difficult to find someone who is interested at least a little in spiritual things, or even only open to them; therefore it is always good to surround yourself with people who are similar to you and are more open mined.

[Rishabh R]

@Yimpa  Thank you very much . Could you give me more ways and how does hopefulness fit into the equation (even though attraction is not an equation ?).@Hibahere Thank you for understanding me. By the way what you are talking about is the key for me and first step to that is being hopeful and optimistic so that one can get the energy to socialise.

[Hibahere]

@manuel bon yesss exactly its hard. But I am open to the possibility that my partner doesn't have to be as aware as me or more than me. But at least around the same level.