People who talk „too“ much

[PurpleTree]

the person i hang the most with at the moment. Who prooved himself to be reliable, trustworthy, honest, not stingy. But he talks too much for me and superficial stuff that doesn‘t interest me like fashion brands, sports etc. Also he‘s braggadocios and the way he talks about women etc i find so lame. There‘s rarelly a deep subject, basically never. And i even tell him that doesn‘t interest me but he keeps on talking. I often try to look at it as a exercise to listen to this dumb stuff. But it just makes me tired and dizzy.

I also met a more spiritual buddy but also he talked too much for me. I think it‘s also a me problem because i do get annoyed quite easily at people and the boring ssuperficial stuff they talk. I wish i wouldn‘t.

 

but some buddies or women i really don‘t get bored or annoyed about what they have to say.

 

thoughts?

[PurpleTree]

It probably also has to do with ADD if people tell me long winded unfunny stories i just zone out

 

i wish i was more like sweet baby jesus who just loved everybody and listened to everything

 

silence is better ?

[puporing]

Dude, that's not a you problem, that's your consciousness growing and yeah it's inevitable you'll lose interest in superficial stuff. There's not much point in pretending to be interested.

Edited July 7, 2023 by puporing

[Sugarcoat]

12 hours ago, PurpleTree said:

And i even tell him that doesn‘t interest me but he keeps on talking.

How does he react when u point this out 

 

I’ve also been dealing w stuff like this. In a way it’s a challenge to grow how one deals w people 

[Dauntment]

Talking is a human mechanic, and if you explicitly said it doesn't interest you and he still kept talking... I'd say respect your standards and move on/forward with your life. The more time you spend shallowly with those whose company you hardly enjoy are less moments from deep intimate moments with those you can create irreplaceable memories with. Go with your instinct