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Should you hot approach women if you're broke?

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Can actually attractive women sleep with broke men

Is it possible to attract a 7 + woman as a broke man who only has personality and masculinity. 

Is it even worth trying Or should I just masturbate to porn and build a business first

TDLR, I am broke, should I even bother with 7+ girls or go monk mode until I have money

 

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Could you? Yes. Should you? Well, that depends on your character. Will it help you get where you want? Or will it distract you and delay your goals.

No one can answer those questions but you.


What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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getting good with girls is a skill you can build and market it to make money and u can have fun while doing so 
i see it is an absolute win win, you should have some money for condom and dates tho

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12 minutes ago, nhoktinvt said:


i see it is an absolute win win, you should have some money for condom and dates tho

Haha, this put a funny image in my head. Imagine begging in the street for quarters to buy some condoms from the vending machine. Oh man, I got a good laugh.


What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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@Optimized Life Ridiculous question, you know the answer to this all you have to do is open your eyes you've seen attractive women with broke men before, what you really want to do is avoid talking to women and cope by going "monk mode" which in reality means having pointless discussions about bs ideas, ask higher quality questions if you want to see progress

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1 hour ago, Optimized Life said:

Can actually attractive women sleep with broke men

Is it possible to attract a 7 + woman as a broke man who only has personality and masculinity. 

Is it even worth trying Or should I just masturbate to porn and build a business first

TDLR, I am broke, should I even bother with 7+ girls or go monk mode until I have money

 

I won't address if you can sleep with a woman with no money or not because that depends on the woman; but I will say to stop saying you're broke and all you have is personality and masculinity. Saying "I am broke" will keep you in the "broke" state. You don't understand the power of the I AM. What you say after the words I AM you become. You are claiming that state and will never get out of it if you don't change your mindset. You are only broke because that is the state you have claimed. You're underestimating your power.


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Certainly possible; Good personality is incredibly OP 

I think its more of a logistical question, like what's more important to you 

 

 

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You could but you would need a shift in mindset and self-image that you can't fake. I know a solicitor dating a low level corner drug dealer.

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16 hours ago, Bando said:

@Optimized Life Ridiculous question, you know the answer to this all you have to do is open your eyes you've seen attractive women with broke men before, what you really want to do is avoid talking to women and cope by going "monk mode" which in reality means having pointless discussions about bs ideas, ask higher quality questions if you want to see progress

It's really not ridiculous at all. 

Why would attractive woman go for a broke man when she has so many options? 

Being broke isn't just the lack of status, it means you don't live in the cool place, don't have great logistics. 

It means no white teeth. And just OK clothes. 

I'm not some modal or gigachad either like a 6 in looks and i'd be a 7 if i had more money (grooming clothes hair etC..)

Its just what is there to offer girls dongt care about funny guys or macho guys it doesn'g work

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Homeless Millennial Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night

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How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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22 minutes ago, integral said:

Homeless Millennial Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night

Haha haha ? Now, THAT is rich. Magical being indeed. Thanks for sharing.


What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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3 hours ago, integral said:

Homeless Millennial Survives By Picking Up Women Every Night

What's the point in sharing this video on a post where a guy is asking if he can sleep with hot girls while broke. What is the message. I don't get it. Are you telling him its possible because this guy did it. If that is the reason you shared it, that's not helping him. 


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3 hours ago, Ajax said:

Haha haha ? Now, THAT is rich. Magical being indeed. Thanks for sharing.

Where's the magic.


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Lol, that will require some back story. I used to be fascinated with the story of Ches McCartney, the goatman. I took a motorcycle ride across the country, when I was young, while collecting stories and investigating the man by any means I could conceive. It turned a simple drive into one of my most amazing adventures, following the crumbs of the goatman. The stories I could tell. A real American legend and mystical being.  So that was an inside joke ?

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What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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5 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

What's the point in sharing this video on a post where a guy is asking if he can sleep with hot girls while broke. What is the message. I don't get it. Are you telling him its possible because this guy did it. If that is the reason you shared it, that's not helping him. 

? He asked if a broke person can pick up girls, the video demonstrates that yes its possible and woman have no idea if your broke or not.

Do you dislike the man in the video?

Should the guy work on his business? Obviously what else is there to do. 

Edited by integral

How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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37 minutes ago, integral said:

? He asked if a broke person can pick up girls, the video demonstrates that yes its possible and woman have no idea if your broke or not.

Do you dislike the man in the video?

Should the guy work on his business? Obviously what else is there to do. 

Anything is possible. I dont know him why would I dislike him. What do you mean what else is there to do. The only thing there's to do is to stay homeless, drink and do drugs and to pick up unsuspecting women if you're young and seemingly healthy? I guess that's a message to share. Not judging the guy, because i empathize with his position but the message isn't good for someone who claims he's broke and wondering if he can still sleep with women. Maybe he will not get ambitious to wanna get out his broke situation if he emulates this guy's situation. I'm just saying this in response to the OPs post. Nothing wrong with the video per se to each is own. I guess I wish when I was younger I was taught the power of the mind. The power of thought, how we're creating our own reality and how to get out of victim mindset and all the things they don't teach you in school about how Reality works in respect to practical day-to-day living. Now people have to struggle in life to try to survive and turn to drugs and deceive people in order to maintain their survival strategy. I'm probably, as usual, taking this to heart and just see no point in sharing this under this post's heading. The guy needs to get out of his "broke" mentality and not stay in it by realizing its possible to still pick up women. He probably needs a better incentive to try to achieve better for himself. Especially on a forum where the Admin teaches differently. 


Know thyself....

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Yes


You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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57 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Anything is possible. I dont know him why would I dislike him. What do you mean what else is there to do. The only thing there's to do is to stay homeless, drink and do drugs and to pick up unsuspecting women if you're young and seemingly healthy? I guess that's a message to share. Not judging the guy, because i empathize with his position but the message isn't good for someone who claims he's broke and wondering if he can still sleep with women. Maybe he will not get ambitious to wanna get out his broke situation if he emulates this guy's situation. I'm just saying this in response to the OPs post. Nothing wrong with the video per se to each is own. I guess I wish when I was younger I was taught the power of the mind. The power of thought, how we're creating our own reality and how to get out of victim mindset and all the things they don't teach you in school about how Reality works in respect to practical day-to-day living. Now people have to struggle in life to try to survive and turn to drugs and deceive people in order to maintain their survival strategy. I'm probably, as usual, taking this to heart and just see no point in sharing this under this post's heading. The guy needs to get out of his "broke" mentality and not stay in it by realizing its possible to still pick up women. He probably needs a better incentive to try to achieve better for himself. Especially on a forum where the Admin teaches differently. 

I agree that guy is definitely not a role model lmao, I thought it was interesting to show an extreme case and how even being homeless you can pick up girls. Its an extreme so it answers the questions with a YES that cant be argued with. Its like a culture shock YES, like what where you even thinking to begin with? How did you not know the answer was a obvious YES!

Kids are broke and find themselves in relationships, the question is one that does not think deeply about why relationships happen.


How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Where's the magic.

Really? Princess... Really?

The magic is that you don't see the magic right in front of your very eyes. How are you pulling that off?

Common Male (Archetype): God! it is so hard to get laid or get a girlfriend. I am going to stay this girl's friend for years so she can fall in love with me. I am going to spend hundreds of hours reading about how to attract women. I am going to spend hundreds to thousands of dollars to buy drinks for ladies so that they can see I have value. After years, nothing is working. Let me try pick up. Let me spend thousands of dollars on pick up. Let me endure the pain of thousands of rejections. Finally found a girl. Oh God, she's crazy. THIS B**** has fucked up my life!!! I hate women! I F#$%ing hate women! I gotta spread the good word, women are evil, let me scream it from every mountain top! Modern Women are EVIL! EVIL I SAY!!!#RP #MGTOW

Joe: Oh, God... A storm is coming. Guess I gotta lay the pipe extra good tonight... #HolyJoe!:o

Answer in a nutshell: Everywhere! If you can't laugh your ass off, then you can't see the magic. 

#really#reallyxD

Edited by Ajax

What you resist, persists and less of you exists. There is a part of you that never leaves. You are not in; you have never been. You know. You put it there and time stretches. 

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2 hours ago, Ajax said:

Really? Princess... Really?

The magic is that you don't see the magic right in front of your very eyes. How are you pulling that off?

Common Male (Archetype): God! it is so hard to get laid or get a girlfriend. I am going to stay this girl's friend for years so she can fall in love with me. I am going to spend hundreds of hours reading about how to attract women. I am going to spend hundreds to thousands of dollars to buy drinks for ladies so that they can see I have value. After years, nothing is working. Let me try pick up. Let me spend thousands of dollars on pick up. Let me endure the pain of thousands of rejections. Finally found a girl. Oh God, she's crazy. THIS B**** has fucked up my life!!! I hate women! I F#$%ing hate women! I gotta spread the good word, women are evil, let me scream it from every mountain top! Modern Women are EVIL! EVIL I SAY!!!#RP #MGTOW

Joe: Oh, God... A storm is coming. Guess I gotta lay the pipe extra good tonight... #HolyJoe!:o

Answer in a nutshell: Everywhere! If you can't laugh your ass off, then you can't see the magic. 

#really#reallyxD

Lol


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