Logic doesnt work for dating and socialising

[Chives99]

With logic you are trying to control and manipulate and get people to do what you want, It took me a lot of years to realise this is what i was doing, i thought if i could control the situation I could make it work, but you cant tell what someones intentions are and you cant tell what the other person is thinking , you dont know what is going on for them, instead what is required is a letting go, act on intution, let people come to you, dont try to make something happen, observe body language and non verbal communication as to how you should respond to them, not logic and rules.

[Butters]

It's just young guy stuff. In my early 20s when I had just learned about pickup I really needed those techniques and theory. 

After sometime you move past it and just do what you do. The whole game is sex, and what ruins sex more than over thinking? Pickup is just foreplay to sex

[Chives99]

@Butters how about just see if u vibe with someone and then ask them out, no logic or rules , vibe is a felt thing , foreplay is so natural to me I don't even need to think about it , I love getting warmed up , maybe I'm like a woman in that regard lol but I just love getting hot and heavy