Any guy here planning to get married?

[Someone here]

Or are you just a player and you wanna "taste " the maximum amount of girls you can ?

Also..having kids is a huge responsibility. I couldn't even take good care of myself..let alone taking care of a bunch of crying babies ? 

[Recursoinominado]

1 minute ago, Someone here said:

Or are you just a player and you wanna "taste " the maximum amount of girls you can ?

 

Both.

Not jost quantity but quality also.

Probably will marry and have kids in my 40's.

Maybe save my sperm in my 30's.

[Raze]

No, unless very specific circumstances are met. Getting married in a western country as a guy is pretty dumb at this point.

Edited June 23, 2023 by Raze

[Someone here]

22 minutes ago, Recursoinominado said:

Both.

Not jost quantity but quality also.

Probably will marry and have kids in my 40's.

Maybe save my sperm in my 30's.

How old are you now ?(If you don't mind me asking ).

[Someone here]

20 minutes ago, Raze said:

No, unless very specific circumstances are met. Getting married in a western country as a guy is pretty dumb at this point.

Why ? From which country are you? 

 

[Recursoinominado]

20 minutes ago, Someone here said:

How old are you now ?(If you don't mind me asking ).

31.

I have had a few successes here and there, my lay count is around 70, had threesomes but not with the high-quality women i want.

More like a bucketlist.

Also, high-quality women can really push you to be a high-quality man.

[mr_engineer]

I want to have a kid before age 40. That's my target. 

[Butters]

Nope, not at all. The older I get as a single man, the more I enjoy myself. Sometimes I think about settling but it always makes me less authentic / more of a bitch and I end up accepting myself again and being happy on my own. 

[Ajax]

Marriage. Been There, Done That, Over it... for over 10 years. Great for the experience. Would be willing to do again if circumstances present themselves. I find that lasting happiness is cultivating meaningful relationships with people. That is where I spend most of my time and energy. I would rather have a good friend than a lover who is not a good friend, if that makes sense.

[vindicated erudite]

4 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

Both.

Not jost quantity but quality also.

Probably will marry and have kids in my 40's.

Maybe save my sperm in my 30's.

Save your sperm as early as possible, Ideally in your 20s. 

[Spiral]

You can have kids and a lasting relationship without marriage.

[Dauntment]

On 6/23/2023 at 11:54 AM, Recursoinominado said:

31.

I have had a few successes here and there, my lay count is around 70, had threesomes but not with the high-quality women i want.

More like a bucketlist.

Also, high-quality women can really push you to be a high-quality man.

"high-quality women can really push you to be a high-quality man."  

+1

[Dauntment]

On 6/28/2023 at 5:01 AM, Spiral said:

You can have kids and a lasting relationship without marriage.

"Rationally", sure..but Marriage/The Family Unit is certainly the best environment to raise kids and the actuality of "We are together but I don't want to MARRY you because of the risk I would endure"......well....one could imagine how something like that would end up.

[Phil King]

I would be open to having a lifelong partner but I dont like the actual institution of marriage. If I really love a woman, I dont need any government certification or religious ceremony to prove it. Also I wouldnt consider entering a lifelong partnership until im 35+. I would be open to having kids, but only if I am set up very well financially. I wouldnt want to bring a child into this world if I couldnt give them an amazing life, like if I had Elon Musk money I would also probably have like 5+ kids.

Edited July 1, 2023 by Phil King

[Schizophonia]

On 23/06/2023 at 5:54 PM, Recursoinominado said:

 

Also, high-quality women can really push you to be a high-quality man.

What is a "quality" person? Where does it come from?

[Schizophonia]

I could get married and have children even at 20/25, no problem. 

Edited July 1, 2023 by Schizophonia

[Recursoinominado]

5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

What is a "quality" person? Where does it come from?

By my standards.

I imagine a woman that is highly developed and balanced. Stage green/yellow with a good foundation on lower stages.

Or, at least, someone who are in constant development so she will reach those stages eventually.

High self-esteem, open minded, ambitious, healthy lifestyle, adventurous, loyal, fit, complex thinker, conscious of social problems, authentic etc.

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Recursoinominado said:

By my standards.

I imagine a woman that is highly developed and balanced. Stage green/yellow with a good foundation on lower stages.

Or, at least, someone who are in constant development so she will reach those stages eventually.

High self-esteem, open minded, ambitious, healthy lifestyle, adventurous, loyal, fit, complex thinker, conscious of social problems, authentic etc.

There's more?

[Recursoinominado]

4 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

There's more?

Yes but i have to think.

Let me see...

Humorous and light-hearted is a must.

The sexual chemisty have to be really good.

Bonus if she is disciplined and organized.

Extra bonus if she has experience with Tantra.

 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Recursoinominado said:

Yes but i have to think.

Let me see...

Humorous and light-hearted is a must.

The sexual chemisty have to be really good.

Bonus if she is disciplined and organized.

Extra bonus if she has experience with Tantra.

 

Wow..sounds like a Goddess.