Is Nofap useful?

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Sometimes it can almost be the opposite where love feels too open it’s almost icky how open it can be

It’s simply because you are not used to it yet.  Don’t take it personally. 

You learn to fly by falling many times. 

[Yimpa]

My girlfriend just forgave me since I treated her like an asshole earlier.

This feeling of love is greater than any fap you can imagine. 

[Sugarcoat]

38 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

It’s simply because you are not used to it yet.  Don’t take it personally. 

You learn to fly by falling many times. 

That’s a nice analogy 

[The0Self]

No-Fap in the end just makes you even more animalistic. So still be very careful with your porn consumption (most preferably no porn), but don't stop masturbation and especially sex. If you're not having sex, get your butt in gear and get that need met, whatever it takes -- Your best self depends on it, unless you're asexual, which you're clearly not if you have a high libido.

Eventually, once you at least have the ability to get laid, you can get by on sex as little as once a month or two, or even less depending on your disposition, once you've gotten in out of your system (if there was a major lack).

Edited June 28, 2023 by The0Self

[Ajax]

People like fapping more than fooding (unless starving). You are just asking to fail. You do not need to screw around with your integrity (which I define actually following through with your commitments). I rather have less "sexual energy" than less willpower because I failed to be impeccable with my word.

Edited June 28, 2023 by Ajax

[Huegeleisen]

You can try it out if you want for 90 days for yourself. If you find that it works for you then keep it, if not try to masturbate healthily.

I did it for 30 days and it did not work for me at all as I have a high sex drive. It literally had the opposite effects of what every Nofap guru was telling.

(Edit: I quit after day 21 since it had bad effects on my performance at school and never went back to it)

Edited July 3, 2023 by Huegeleisen