is porn like real sex ?

[Spiral]

@Majed probably yeah.

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

On 6/21/2023 at 7:56 PM, Majed said:

i've never had sex before, however people say porn isn't like real sex, and i don't get it because porn seem like very real. any advice on this ? 

plus i think a lot of people focus on mainstream porn, but there are feminist/ethical porn which are better quality and more realistic. 

plus how the fuck are you gonna know how 8 billion people have sex on the planet. lmao

1. Porn isn't like real sex in the sense that we predominantly know how to pleasure ourselves better than the partner we are having intercourse with.

2. Porn and sex are 100% the same. Sex positions are sex positions. Porn is "fake" in the sense that there is no actual connection between the two people having sex. It's for money(unless it's user generated e.g: onlyfans, personal intimate sex tapes).

3. Fools enjoy mainstream. I only watch real porn tailored to my niches. 

4. Having actual sex is far better I.M.O. Pixelated porn is more site oriented. Most women won't stimulate you visually when they have sex(doesn't mean that that won't. if she could then there is no difference between porn and sex excluding physical contact).

5. Try watching your porn more like television. Don't edge or touch yourself. Notice this state. Go out, engage and notice that state.

Edited June 25, 2023 by MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI
Added an exercise.

[Myagooshki]

Nubile Films creates porn videos that are more similar to the real thing. I stopped watching as much porn as I used to because these days the porn is getting all hardcore and goofy.

[Israfil]

It's the same thing as playing Fifa and playing soccer. Guitar Hero and playing a song. 

If you can 100% cliffs of dover in guitar hero, you're a video game addict. If you can nail it down in the guitar, you're a hell of a guitarist.

If you can orgasm watching porn, you're just a dude that knows how to touch his worm. If you can make a woman orgasm 5 times, you know how to have sex. Two different categories of similarly related things. 

[Ajax]

To me, sex is intimate communication with a partner it is a special way to get to know someone I really care about.

I have never done porn an I have no idea if it is the same way. But why don't you do some porn and have sex and let us know what you find out. That is really the only way to know for sure.

[Yimpa]

Porn with the Apple Vision Pro will be a very interesting experience…

I bet you someone is going to make an app for that.

[D2sage]

is a picture of a burger like real burger?

[meta_male]

No, you will forget about porn.

[Reciprocality]

Yup and wemen are like pixels

[Tenebroso]

It can be. It depends on who you are, the women you attract and the layers of desire you are able arouse in the women involved with you.

[Jordan]

I lost my virginity at age 23 and thought I knew exactly what sex would be like but it really was much different than I thought. It is a bit hard to describe but the physical sensations are much different and you won't be able to just watch porn and imagine the sensations in the same way. I can get stronger orgasms from porn but I have a much better overall experience having sex. The emotions from being intimate and connecting with someone else that come up are different than you will experience from porn.

Ohh I think you asked if what you see in porn is how people actually have sex. I am not sure how people have sex but for the sex I have, it is much different. It looks really stupid to me how people have sex in porn but it shows an angle that makes the girl look good. The sex I have is much better than the sex pornstars are having and I don't do anything crazy. It is about the connection you have with your partner.

Edited June 29, 2023 by Jordan