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poor results with social media

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I've been trying to meet women through instagram and tinder but my results are poor.  I am noticing that the girls that are in my following list are quite unresponsive especially if they never seen me in person. They either respond to my messeges but very slowly and lazy or just seen and the girls that seem intersted are an unnatractive or below average ones. I would rate my profile like average one not too good not too bad. So bassicaly the effort that i put in social media is not worht it.

I am 28 yo and have some experience with women but all the women that i was able to be with were from social circles or instagram (but very rarely when we talk about above average looking girls). 

I want to be able to meet new women without being dependend on social circles.

I guess i should start trying to meet them in person?

I forget to mention that i have social anexiety i am not some weirdo but its very hard for me to talk to strangers especialy women..

 

 

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I advise you to avoid all forms of social media. Regardless of whether you want to get in contact with girls.

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why wouldn’t you want to first and foremost resolve that social anxiety? 

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online dating is useless unless you are above average in physical attraction, since 83% of communication is non verbal , pictures are literally the only thing people have to go on in online dating so your bio is literally useless it makes no difference than if u have no bio at all, not only that but men vastly out number women on online dating. Delete the apps meet people in person. meeting people in person is magical when you flirt with them and you recognise that you are both attracted to each other, its really quite beautiful .


"You have to allow yourself to not know"- Peter Ralston

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  On 6/21/2023 at 8:11 PM, evgn said:

I've been trying to meet women through instagram and tinder but my results are poor.  I am noticing that the girls that are in my following list are quite unresponsive especially if they never seen me in person. They either respond to my messeges but very slowly and lazy or just seen and the girls that seem intersted are an unnatractive or below average ones. I would rate my profile like average one not too good not too bad. So bassicaly the effort that i put in social media is not worht it.

I am 28 yo and have some experience with women but all the women that i was able to be with were from social circles or instagram (but very rarely when we talk about above average looking girls). 

I want to be able to meet new women without being dependend on social circles.

I guess i should start trying to meet them in person?

I forget to mention that i have social anexiety i am not some weirdo but its very hard for me to talk to strangers especialy women..

 

 

The problem is social media, not you or them. Go find a way to meet new people in person. Maybe uni might be your best option.

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