How to surrender

[Actualising]

How does one Surrender?

 

Is it relaxing the body, concerntrating on one thought or?

 

Thanks guys!

 

[Yimpa]

6 hours ago, Actualising said:

Is it relaxing the body

Allow your body to do whatever it needs to do in each moment without you needing it to be a particular way. Learn to first accept your body. Then you can gradually open yourself to new and exciting experiences.

[Javfly33]

9 hours ago, Actualising said:

How does one Surrender?

 

Is it relaxing the body, concerntrating on one thought or?

 

Thanks guys!

 

stay in the awareness of breathing constantly, that's one way. 

[The0Self]

First, let your intuition speak for itself.

It’s impossible to know whether you’re really asking such a thing, but here goes:

How to surrender:

Maintain the effort to relax any other form of effort, in other words relax effort to voluntarily control whatever could be relaxed (let go of control) voluntarily if you wanted to right now, for if it can’t, it isn’t under your control.

And then see the ramifications of that after doing it all the time and realizing it was in fact always already being done. 99% of the time this question is ego bluster and you won’t actually do this. And I’m not saying anyone should do this. It is literally the end of reality (from the perspective of the only possible candidate for one who could care about this).

Paradoxically nothing existed that could end, so it’s simultaneously the most and least consequential inquiry one could have.

Edited June 12, 2023 by The0Self

[Breakingthewall]

Vape 20 mg of 5meo DMT. You will realize that you have relaxed control for the first time in your life.

[Javfly33]

@Breakingthewall For sure I can imagine control will be long gone vaping 20mg ??

[Breakingthewall]

5 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

@Breakingthewall For sure I can imagine control will be long gone vaping 20mg ??

You become a bottomless hole, and all energy patterns disappear. nothing remains, only the infinite depth. in some unthinkable way, that is total existence, you. 

[Moksha]

Surrender occurs when you irrevocably realize that clinging to anything, people, possessions, pursuits, protections, passions, proclivities, professions, platitudes, philosophies, and yes even psychedelics, inevitably increases suffering.

Only then will you have the wisdom to loosen your grip, look within, and be free.

[Yimpa]

Surrender with the intention of connecting deeper with You Are Self

[Hojo]

When you fear something you find yourself struggling against like no i cannot do this this is bad I need it to stop. To surrender is to say ok im just going to sit here and listen watch and not do anything and just endure and accept all that comes. If you feel like screaming scream if you feel like crying cry if you feel like dying die. You get into a state where you are not the one doing the things you are watching them all happen.

I used to suffer from insane death anxiety and running from it my whole life the thought of non existence was terrifying to me because I had kicked my metaphysical self out of my awareness. I used to get fight or flight response to the fear of death and would have to physically run away from it. I never let it sit there because it was so shocking and horrifying to me that i couldnt.

Once my mind was freed from all these conditions I finally could actually sit in one place and not think it was absolute beauty to me that I could actually sit there and not think I did not know people had these luxuries. then I had a trip that taught me what surrender was. I felt like there was a black hole behind my pov and it felt like something evil was sneaking up behind me and I kept turning in a circle to realize it was always behind me . I had to recognize I cannot do anything and I just sat there and endured the fear and it went away.

Surrender is a skill and you can get better at it.

You can practice it whenever you want just like in your bed and tell yourself im going to die now and let all your muscles and everything just deflate further and further stop thinking and watch. Picture god is a fist closed tight forming your reality and then pretend god is loosening its grip on your awareness and let go. Also cross your eyes as that happens on death

Edited June 12, 2023 by Hojo

[gettoefl]

to raise the white flag is to entrust yourself into the victor's hand ... please don't kill me or torture me and in return i give you all i am and all i have

i am nothing except what you will have me be

i abandon my old life and i embrace being your subject with no expectations or demands

old me is dead, new me trusts what you provide for my life

i was lost and now i am found, was bruised and now i breathe, was blind and now i'm see