How to get sexual and emotional needs met while single

[Chives99]

@Karmadhi he's a narcissist, has no respect for anyone, especially women, dupes desperate guys with his webcam business and entraps women into with his abusive business model, guy has multiple rape charges hanging over him, claims violence is always the answer and that you're not a man unless you're throwing your weight around bullying people. Guy acts like a toxic war lord,

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

@Karmadhi he's a narcissist, has no respect for anyone, especially women, dupes desperate guys with his webcam business and entraps women into with his abusive business model, guy has multiple rape charges hanging over him, claims violence is always the answer and that you're not a man unless you're throwing your weight around bullying people. Guy acts like a toxic war lord,

Wasting your time explaining this. It's the same as telling a Trump supporter about his toxic ways. They'll defend him t their death and justify his toxicity by giving you all the reasons why he's the way he is and saying..." yes, but...."

14 minutes ago, Karmadhi said:

@somegirl We wouldnt work out then  

 

[somegirl]

21 minutes ago, Karmadhi said:

Why so much hate towards him?

Human trafficking.

[StarStruck]

35 minutes ago, somegirl said:

Oh I won't speak to guys who reveal to me that they follow Andrew Tate. It's an instant "Goodbye" for me ?

We know why you won’t be speaking ?

[somegirl]

9 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

We know why you won’t be speaking ?

?

[Princess Arabia]

43 minutes ago, somegirl said:

Oh I won't speak to guys who reveal to me that they follow Andrew Tate. It's an instant "Goodbye" for me ?

You can almost tell the guys on here who follow Andrew Tate. Its kinda obvious from their remarks. Thats another way you can tell the negative effect he has on some. Lost in their own bubble without thinking for themselves and analyzing and following their own inner guru. What may work for A. T. may not work for all men because of where each person is at in their own development and the resources available to them and the environment they are in. 

[something_else]

37 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

@Karmadhi he's a narcissist, has no respect for anyone, especially women, dupes desperate guys with his webcam business and entraps women into with his abusive business model, guy has multiple rape charges hanging over him, claims violence is always the answer and that you're not a man unless you're throwing your weight around bullying people. Guy acts like a toxic war lord,

There's a video of him proudly admitting how badly he scammed men. I can't find the full clip but here's some annoying YT news bro covering the gist of it. I timestamped it to the main part where Tate is talking. Whenever I see people defend Tate, this is my go to clip to show them.

 

Edited June 12, 2023 by something_else

[Rishabh R]

@SoMe @somegirl I also have this problem at the back of my mind . By the way sorry for tagging @SoMe.

[StarStruck]

11 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

You can almost tell the guys on here who follow Andrew Tate. Its kinda obvious from their remarks. Thats another way you can tell the negative effect he has on some. Lost in their own bubble without thinking for themselves and analyzing and following their own inner guru. What may work for A. T. may not work for all men because of where each person is at in their own development and the resources available to them and the environment they are in. 

Andrew Tate doesn’t follow anybody. In the same way he wouldn’t want people to follow him like a guru. Obviously there are people who do but those guys don’t understand his high teachings. 

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Andrew Tate doesn’t follow anybody. In the same way he wouldn’t want people to follow him like a guru. Obviously there are people who do but those guys don’t understand his high teachings. 

You are probably right by saying some of his followers doesn't understand his teachings in respect to how it can work for him by successfully manipulating his way through society to gain financial success. Through direct experience, I have witnessed some guys going down hill by listening to him and trying to mimic his behavioral patterns not recognizing you can only get away with certain behavior after you've established a certain way of life. E.g guys with $$ can get away with certain behavior a broke ass man wouldn't be able to pull off. 

[Sincerity]

Please don't change the topic to Andrew Tate guys. Stay on point 

[Federico del pueblo]

@somegirl masturbation maybe?

On 10.6.2023 at 2:21 AM, somegirl said:

P.s. Not into one night stands or having f buddies. 

 

On 10.6.2023 at 2:21 AM, somegirl said:

So I am right now still single

 

On 10.6.2023 at 2:21 AM, somegirl said:

but I basically NEED someone to fullfill my sexual needs.

Those 3 don't go together too well, you see?

[somegirl]

3 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

Those 3 don't go together too well, you see?

Yeah...

I hate that I have to depend on someone to fullfill some of my needs. Like I can't love myself out of it.

I guess I should just put focus on something I can control right now, instead of being frustrated

[Federico del pueblo]

4 minutes ago, somegirl said:

Yeah...

I hate that I have to depend on someone to fullfill some of my needs. Like I can't love myself out of it.

I guess I should just put focus on something I can control right now, instead of being frustrated

Maybe if you get some of that infinite love that Leo talks about you'll then need a bit less of the physical satisfaction and worldly love?

=> somespiritualgirl  ?

[somegirl]

3 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

Maybe if you get some of that infinite love that Leo talks about you'll then need a bit less of the physical satisfaction and worldly love?

That is why I am open to psychedelics ?

3 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

somespiritualgirl

Hahahah that's an involved version of me from the future

Edited June 12, 2023 by somegirl

[cjoseph90]

5 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Just because someone thinks they need sex, doesn't mean they are disrespecting themselves. What is pathetic here is you putting down this woman because she enjoys doing something that can be perfectly healthy and saying she's glamorizing it because she enjoys it with the right partner. Your tone was very harsh and throughout this whole thread she has been nothing but responsive and respectful in all her responses even to you. We don't need food or water to survive either, it's called breatharianism, but we eat anyway. You don't need clothes to survive but you wear them anyway. The only thing we really need is air. Doesn't matter what we think we need or don't need, calling a situation pathetic because of your opinions and comparing their likes to others that may or may not see it necessary for their survival is out of line. You sound like a domineering psychopath, telling her she can do better and giving her permission how you see fit for when she can or cannot have sex. And ending your remark with a "duh" is so condescending. Maybe you can do better than this.

@Princess ArabiaI love this answer. I couldnt have said it better myself . Thank u for your input

[Federico del pueblo]

32 minutes ago, somegirl said:

That is why I am open to psychedelics ?

I just recently started with them...so let me just tell you that before you'll get to the part with the Infinite love you may first go through some episodes of "lot's of awkwardness and past pain" if you are remotely as affected by emotional stuff as I am (during a single psychedelic experience but also overall, getting a bit closer to this love with each trip).

36 minutes ago, somegirl said:

Hahahah that's an involved version of me from the future

Yep, you need a vision for the future!

[BlessedLion]

20 hours ago, somegirl said:

Kinda counting on that. Cause I always go out, but places I go to don't really have guys I am into. 

I think guys I like are all online, in other towns or something ? 

Kinda answered that one in another comment but basically... Handsome guy, who is adventurous, plays an instument and is ambitious and open-minded ?

These kind of guys can only be found in some kind of nature camps or something, I would assume. 

Or in the gym. Or on music festivals. 

Gotcha. I'm trying to put myself in your shoes. 

Here's how I do it, when I want to meet a spiritual woman, I go to yoga classes or something like that. When I want more of a young party girl, I go out to clubs. 

It depends on where you live but if you want a musical guy, got to concerts, and they don't have to be like crazy concerts, you find cooler people in like hole in the wall type venues. Usually if he's at a concert place like that he'll be adventureous and open-minded, ambition...meh .

If you're in like NYC or somewhere similar there are tons of guys like this out and about. 

 

Festivals is also a good option. Maybe parks too, but it's not really social there, you'd have to be active about meeting people.

When you say all the guys you like are online, be careful of that, most of those online guys are presenting false images and this skews women's perception of what is out there.

[BlessedLion]

3 hours ago, Karmadhi said:

@somegirl We wouldnt work out then  

Smart girl

 

Don't listen to most of the guys here, they know little about sexuality and masculinity. Their advice will only confuse you or make you insecure. Your drive for a sexual partner is totally natural and actually beautiful. I think you are better off talking to your friends or mentors about this. It's tough though because if i was a woman i wouldn't it be interested in probably 99% of guys out there, lots of lame-os.

Read some David Deida and study Tantra, but like real Tantra, not the bullshit Youtube douchebag stuff. Get offline, I don't think it helps anything. And go to places where your kinda guys hang and put yourself out there.

[somegirl]

21 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

I just recently started with them...

Well now I am curious... ?