Survey for men and women here

[Someone here]

I'm just bored at college right now and have some time to kill between classes. So I figured why not survey the forum about this .

Feel free to add any details in the comments. 

Have at it ,guys and gals

[Schizophonia]

Your poll requires you to vote on both sides, in doubt I put "other" in the part for women.

Otherwise yes the ass excites me less and a small ass is actually easier to fuck.
A c cup is above all to be able to lick them and take them in hand when the girl is in cowgirl.
A little fat is good too, a little overweight girl is better than a skinny one.

Btw for a girlfriend, a thin ugly but nice/pleasant and relatively still better than a turkey that will break my balls, of course

Edited June 7, 2023 by Schizophonia

[Someone here]

3 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Your poll requires you to vote on both sides, in doubt I put "other" in the part for women.

Yes but you shouldn't vote for women. How do you know what attracts women anyways? Do you have any gay sexual desires? 

4 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Otherwise yes the ass excites me less and a small ass is actually easier to fuck.
A c cup is above all to be able to lick them and take them in hand when the girl is in cowgirl.
A little fat is good too, a little overweight girl is better than a skinny one.

Oh shit ..fat is a huge turn off for me. I only like a handful of tits .more than that it starts reminding me of my grandmother ? ?. 

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Btw for a girlfriend, a thin ugly but nice/pleasant and relatively still better than a turkey that will break my balls, of course 

[Schizophonia]

7 hours ago, Someone here said:

Yes but you shouldn't vote for women. How do you know what attracts women anyways? Do you have any gay sexual desires? 

I mean I literally can't click "Submit vote" if I don't choose an "as a female" option.

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Oh shit ..fat is a huge turn off for me. I only like a handful of tits .more than that it starts reminding me of my grandmother ? ?. 

Too much for you? I obviously censored the image, lol.

 

Edited June 8, 2023 by Roy

[Someone here]

7 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

I mean I literally can't click "Submit vote" if I don't choose an "as a female" option

My bad . How can I fix this? 

7 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Too much for you? I obviously censored the image, lol.

 

Lol. But why did you censor her face as well lol? 

Edited June 8, 2023 by Roy

[integral]

I used to be about her butt in my 20s, then it became about her emotional state. 

[Someone here]

20 minutes ago, integral said:

I used to be about her butt in my 20s, then it became about her emotional state. 

But we are talking about sexual attraction . Pure lust if you will .

So how can her "emotional state " be sexually attractive ?? 

[Schizophonia]

39 minutes ago, Someone here said:

My bad . How can I fix this? 

Lol. But why did you censor her face as well lol? 

The photo was already censored at the face level, for some reason.

[integral]

34 minutes ago, Someone here said:

But we are talking about sexual attraction . Pure lust if you will .

So how can her "emotional state " be sexually attractive ?? 

A depressed or angry woman is not very attractive, if she feels good and is smiling and playful she is more attractive, if she wants me and is turned on and is communicating it with her body and voice then it turns me on. 

In contrast if she doesnt want me there is 0 blood flow to the penis. 

Edited June 7, 2023 by integral

[Princess Arabia]

5 hours ago, Someone here said:

But we are talking about sexual attraction . Pure lust if you will .

So how can her "emotional state " be sexually attractive ?? 

Sexual attraction starts in the mind. Even if you're attracted to her butt, breasts, or some physical body part, there's a mental reason why. So it's not really her emotional state he's attracted to, it's how he perceives her emotional state in relation to his sexual attractions. There's a mental cause for all attractions. 

[Roy]

Her voice by far. I need to hear something feminine, soothing, sexy, cute when talking on the phone, or in person having intimate/deep conversations. Nothing turns me off more than a flat, monotone, or masculine voice in a woman. Yuck.

It's actually so important to my attraction I don't think I could sustain a relationship with a dime who has an amazing body, personality, and career. I simply wouldn't be able to tolerate being around her if I didn't want to hear her voice.

[WonderSeeker]

7 hours ago, integral said:

A depressed or angry woman is not very attractive, if she feels good and is smiling and playful she is more attractive, if she wants me and is turned on and is communicating it with her body and voice then it turns me on. 

In contrast if she doesnt want me there is 0 blood flow to the penis. 

Bro I'm the same way now, used to think there was something wrong with me 

[Someone here]

10 hours ago, integral said:

A depressed or angry woman is not very attractive, if she feels good and is smiling and playful she is more attractive, if she wants me and is turned on and is communicating it with her body and voice then it turns me on. 

In contrast if she doesnt want me there is 0 blood flow to the penis. 

Yes but all that is the psychological part of it . What about the Physiological part ? Like a specific body part that turns you on the most ? Maybe her boobs ?her cute smile etc 

[Someone here]

5 hours ago, Medhansh said:

@Someone here Can you please reply to my dm?

Well ..most of your questions were so personal ..I can't let you in about my private sexual life .

I can help you get laid if you want ..but I can't talk about where I live or about the privacy of my gf.

[Someone here]

5 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Sexual attraction starts in the mind. Even if you're attracted to her butt, breasts, or some physical body part, there's a mental reason why. So it's not really her emotional state he's attracted to, it's how he perceives her emotional state in relation to his sexual attractions. There's a mental cause for all attractions. 

What do you mean there is a mental reason behind being attract to certain body parts ?

I'm sorry to use this vulgar language with you ..but men think with their dic** ..not with their brain . Whatever gets the Don up is what's the man attracted to .

Women are different imo. They don't care much about physical appearance. They just want that one dream guy . But society nowadays has emasculated most of men . So its actually difficult to find a high quality man to date nowadays. 

 

[Someone here]

4 hours ago, Roy said:

Her voice by far. I need to hear something feminine, soothing, sexy, cute when talking on the phone, or in person having intimate/deep conversations. Nothing turns me off more than a flat, monotone, or masculine voice in a woman. Yuck.

It's actually so important to my attraction I don't think I could sustain a relationship with a dime who has an amazing body, personality, and career. I simply wouldn't be able to tolerate being around her if I didn't want to hear her voice.

Lol .totally with you.  I like soft lovely cute voice as well.  Huge turn on.

Just saying.. this might have something to do with pedophile..because youger girls have more of that kind of voice .

I'm not judging you .I just noticed that one time I was watching anime porn. You know those young looking hentai porn girls..? They always give em that childish voice .Well I guess it should be illegal as supposedly child porn is illegal. 

Anyways...

[integral]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

Yes but all that is the psychological part of it . What about the Physiological part ? Like a specific body part that turns you on the most ? Maybe her boobs ?her cute smile etc 

Nothing at all physical turns me on anymore. 

An ass is just an ass, tits are just tits, the sexual vision disappeared, its like looking at the nipples of a cow.

Watching porn I can only get off if the girl is having orgasms and she is communicating her mental state.

When I was younger it was 100% physical appearance. I had sex entirely from my point of view and for my pleasure. Now I have sex from her point of view and for her pleasure because that gets me off.

^^^^

A sexy girl showing off her butt in yoga pants is still very attractive and i always check out a girls butt when they turn around, don't get me wrong, im a man lol. But when it comes down to having sex more then once its not the important part.

The inner dialogue a man has during sex "she is so hot, what a perfect ass when she bends over, I love the sound of her voice as i pound her" no longer interests me to think this way during sex so im not using that frame of mind to have sex anymore. All of this is having sex from my point of view and inner monologue and fantasy and very similar to watching porn. I can still use it as a last resort to get an erection but it doesn't come naturally anymore. I much ratter be connected with her mind and experience her point of view.

Dude when i was younger if in the middle of sex she said "it hurts stop" or for any reason she didnt want to continue i would be left there sexually frustrated and unhappy trying to figure out how to convince her to continue and fix the problem. It was purely me having sex with myself and she was a physical feature that exited me.

Now i crave the intimacy with her not the sex. 

Edited June 8, 2023 by integral

[Schizophonia]

30 minutes ago, integral said:

Nothing at all physical turns me on anymore. 

An ass is just an ass, tits are just tits, the sexual vision disappeared, its like looking at the nipples of a cow.

Watching porn I can only get off if the girl is having orgasms and she is communicating her mental state.

When I was younger it was 100% physical appearance. I had sex entirely from my point of view and for my pleasure. Now I have sex from her point of view and for her pleasure because that gets me off.

^^^^

A sexy girl showing off her butt in yoga pants is still very attractive, don't get me wrong. But when it comes down to having sex more then once its not the important part. 

What you are essentially explaining, without watering down, is that your ability to be sexually excited has become overly dependent on narcissistic drive.

It's a sign of excess serotonin/cortisol, not an evolution of consciousness, and it's actually the breeding ground (on a collective scale) for authoritarianism.

 

What is your diet?

Edited June 8, 2023 by Schizophonia

[integral]

20 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

What you are essentially explaining, without watering down, is that your ability to be sexually excited has become overly dependent on narcissistic drive.

It's a sign of excess serotonin/cortisol, not an evolution of consciousness, and it's actually the breeding ground (on a collective scale) for authoritarianism.

What is your diet?

Lmfao this is what stage green sex looks like, when the man is more shifted to there feminine energy. When not having sex for a week ill still get exited by her "features" + physical touch but this is not why im having sex.

Its possibly high serotonin/cortisol, but I have no idea why "narcissistic and authoritarianism" is included in this conversation. ???

I like her body but I cant go 2 hours having sex only from "porn frame", it gets boring. 30 minutes into sex her body gets boring, I need to be there for something more. 

Edited June 8, 2023 by integral

[Schizophonia]

24 minutes ago, integral said:

Lmfao this is what stage green sex looks like, when the man is more shifted to there feminine energy. When not having sex for a week ill still get exited by her "features" + physical touch but this is not why im having sex. 

It's at the biological level, you can be as green as you want if your endocrine profile is ok you will fantasize about a woman's body like a child likes to play with some toy.

You do and think what you want but it seems quite obviously a problem for your well being if your ability to be exiting depends on some form of servitude to the point where it totally eclipses your ability to take advantage of women as an object of satisfaction in itself.

I asked for your diet because a diet high in certain immunogenic fibers, starches, or proteins or with opioid moieties, can cronically send your serotonin (and prolactin) through the roof and sharply lower dopamine if you're sensitive enough. .

I remember when I was vegan, I had a lot of gas, bad concentration, and especially aggressive behavior and typical ADHD, I liked to be sexually submissive if I abused porn and even when abstinence I I often fantasized about things that included a "diminishment to..." dimension, I instinctively fantasized about ugly or Asian women because I imagined that it was easier for them to have fun with them. Me.
On the contrary, when I did a carnivorous diet, then rather "ray peat style", I became much more stable and focused on work, but above all, I had one erection per day (very strong) and for the first time I instinctively took quality porn videos with very pretty girls.
Just my two cents.

Edited June 8, 2023 by Schizophonia