How to accept the fact that girls who reject you and date other guys are not yours ?

[FourCrossedWands]

The reason they reject you is that you are better then them and they don't like it. You are probably too polite, or too good looking or something which makes them feel awkward in your presence. You should start treating them like shit and they will be all over you.

[meta_male]

On 4.6.2023 at 8:13 AM, Rishabh R said:

Am I making an assumption that good things won't come in my life ?

Yes, this is an illusion. The trick is to stay positive no matter what...it's your only shot long term.

[nhoktinvt]

be more positive everyday and you'll have a positive life !

[Princess Arabia]

18 hours ago, integral said:

Get a Girl Friend. Thats how you deal with it. 

And then if she dumps him, he's back to square one. Going outside yourself for fulfillment is not the answer. (were all guilty of this, or most of us, even myself) just saying. Working on himself on the inside while trying to find a gf is a better solution. 

[Princess Arabia]

6 hours ago, LSD-Rumi said:

Who cares? If she rejects you, it is her loss or at least not compatible with you. Don't get attached to one girl, try hitting on every girl you see. If you are bold and charismatic, there is no real problem with rejection. I take rejection like acceptance, don't take it personal, just move on. Be a Crocodile, desensitize yourself from negative emotions.

Try hitting on every girl you see is desensitizing also. I can always tell when a guy hits on me that he does it to every girl or a lot. Never appealed to me. Females can sense this. Desensitizing yourself from negative emotions will only hurt you in the end. Unprocessed emotions gets stored in the body and can be expressed as outward anger or illness or other negative expressions. Learning to feel them fully and letting go of them will allow for easier and better ways to deal with them in the future while allowing more baggage to flow through and removing blockages from the nervous system. IOW, the Universe will find it easier to live life through you without resistance. 

[integral]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

And then if she dumps him, he's back to square one. Going outside yourself for fulfillment is not the answer. (were all guilty of this, or most of us, even myself) just saying. Working on himself on the inside while trying to find a gf is a better solution. 

He never had a gf and has no life experience, healthy good experiences are the best way to heal from trauma.

For a virgin to overcome sex, love and connection with other things is spiritual bypassing.

Hes got virgin problems that are solved by not being a virgin. 

Edited June 5, 2023 by integral

[WonderSeeker]

@Rishabh R the second you get with a girl, you won't care that it took hundreds of rejections to get there.

It's all about emotions. There is no logic in dating. Maybe 5% just to steer the ship. 

[Rishabh R]

 

@integral Yeah I never had a gf but I attracted many girls . I said -I love you to 3 girls in my life and all those 3 girls are with somebody else . I approached many girls that is more than 50 girls in my college campus and in one case I was kicked out of campus abusingly by a girl whom was I was talking to . Once I remember that I was near to sex with a married maid of mine however , I said sorry to her  cause I knew that she was married and she said ok. By the way I don't want to have sex with a married or already committed person . Majority of girls in my college batch call me brother as they are committed. I also feel jealous of girls die to the fact that they are dating and I have nobody ( sorry to all the females present here).However, this is a good solution .

[Rishabh R]

@meta_male yeah thank you.

[Yimpa]

On 6/4/2023 at 2:30 AM, Leo Gura said:

Let 3000 girls reject you. Just stop thinking about it and get on with life.

I’ve had over 9000 girls reject me. 

But I finally found the 1 

[Roy]

She is never yours, it's just your turn.