Finding a God-realized girlfriend or teach her

[VictorB02]

On 6/1/2023 at 7:40 AM, Loveeee said:

Is that even a realistic hope ? I always think that I won't find such a person but that if she's relatively smart etc I could at least teach her, I have almost no experience trying to do that with other people irl but I fear that won't be possible, seems so fucking easy but people are just completely blind, as I was

All you have to do is live it. If you are actually embodying this stuff and actually perceive the world from a Unitive perspective, girls will be incredibly attracted to that - not only because it demonstrates intelligence and maturity but also simply because its so radical and outside the norm of everyone else's worldview that if the possibility of awakening is there in their heart, they will just genuinely be attracted and interested in it.

Don't force it.

Edited June 12, 2023 by VictorB02

[BlessedLion]

3 hours ago, Loveeee said:

How did you meet ? 

We met at a 10 day silent retreat, after of course. It was mind blowing

[BlessedLion]

58 minutes ago, VictorB02 said:

All you have to do is live it. If you are actually embodying this stuff and actually perceive the world from a Unitive perspective, girls will be incredibly attracted to that - not only because it demonstrates intelligence and maturity but also simply because its so radical and outside the norm of everyone else's worldview that if the possibility of awakening is there in their heart, they will just genuinely be attracted and interested in it.

Don't force it.

solid advice, i think this says it best.