Neediness comes from the belief I'm not good enough

[Chives99]

Due to low self worth I had this belief if i try hard enough i'll be good enough, i'll be a high quality human being if i do something to attract her if i make her fall for me. Happiness needs to come from the inside by loving yourself and feeling like you have a lot to give and by appreciating your strengths whatever they may be. When you go into a relationship you are creating something, thats bigger than yourself, only when you love yourself unconditionally can you truly love other people. When you are relaxed, happy, carefree and not concerned whether you get into a relationship or get sex you will communicate that you care about creating something high quality and amazing between you and another person thats not about yourself. You will know you are ready for a relationship when you no longer need one. Love yourself regardless , even if you feel like a virgin socially awkward guy, i mean you got to work with what you've got, dont let it define you, you are an amazing beautiful person with lots to give where ever you are at right now. Go out there and socialise get to know some people and see if you can create something amazing. Being loving means giving up on yourself 

[integral]

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Edited May 20, 2023 by integral

[cjoseph90]

great post, need this as a constant reminder. wish i could save/ like it