if you find the right person it should feel easy and effortless

[Chives99]

Think about how a close friendship developed, did you act needy and insecure with them or did it just naturally blossom? You shouldn't need to care whether they like you or not because the right one will, then you can just relax and be your authentic self. People are drawn to people they feel they can resonate with so if someone likes you they'll make it easy for you.