Texting game: tit for tat?

[StarStruck]

If she waits like 3 days to respond they say you should wait that same amount or more and not text immediately, do you guys agree which playing such games? I believe posturing both on text and in life is a big part of game. If she gets the sense she can get you easily, there is no game. It is just part of human nature. In my opinion it should not be even called game. As a guy you should value yourself at least 2x more than her. That is how to deal with hotties. And this girl I’m talking about is 9,5/10. They are very different than 7-8 ish girls.  

[Chives99]

not replying for 3 days is just rude, she can't respect you that much if she waits that long, sometimes i forget my phone and reply like 12 hours later, but i'll apoligise and say i left my phone at home. I wouldn't be so hung up on someone that waited that long to reply. Respect yourself, you are valuable.

[StarStruck]

30 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

not replying for 3 days is just rude, she can't respect you that much if she waits that long, sometimes i forget my phone and reply like 12 hours later, but i'll apoligise and say i left my phone at home. I wouldn't be so hung up on someone that waited that long to reply. Respect yourself, you are valuable.

I was not going to respond to her for at least a week. This is game. 

[Chives99]

fucking bullshit more like, treat people with respect. Dont understand people that play games, grow up!!!!! i mean sure dont text her like the same night or at 3 am have some common sense but playing games is stupid

[integral]

13 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

I was not going to respond to her for at least a week. This is game. 

That's probably the right move, but on the other hand do you really want to date someone like that? Sound exhausting. 

13 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

fucking bullshit more like, treat people with respect. Dont understand people that play games, grow up!!!!! i mean sure dont text her like the same night or at 3 am have some common sense but playing games is stupid

Girls like her get 100x message a day from guys constantly, its not the same situation. 

[NoSelfSelf]

Waiting game=weak game

[StarStruck]

@integral for me this is a learning experience. Rarely I meet girls as hot as her during night game so why wouldn’t I try to get with her.

She doesn’t go out that much and I feel like she doesn’t accept anybody in her life that easy. 
 

 @Chives99 you never dated top shelf hot girls. If you want to get with hot girls you need to deal with hot girl shit and prove you value yourself more than her  

 

 

 

[Chives99]

@StarStruck your right i dont feel the need to date a model, i get on better with the girl next door type

[meta_male]

1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

If she waits like 3 days to respond they say you should wait that same amount or more and not text immediately

It's not about waiting a certain amount of hours or days but about moving her down on your list of priorities. With that said you can still text back whenever you get some spare time (hopefully you're not glued to your phone 24/7). Keep it natural without reading too much into it, there's hundreds of reasons someone doesn't respond for three days.

[StarStruck]

2 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

@StarStruck your right i dont feel the need to date a model, i get on better with the girl next door type

Every experience makes you richer. 

[Chives99]

@RebornConsciousness neediness is a state of being, if you feel it, you are it

[museumoftrees]

If my phone is in my hand the moment i get a text from a girl i'll usually respond right away to see if she mirrors it, many will. Otherwise just mirror her texting pattern or stop giving a fuck about it altogether

[StarStruck]

If a girl hates you but respects you she will fuck you, if she likes you but doesn't respect you, it is not going to happen. Not supplicating to her is so key in game. 

[Realms of Wonder]

Its been pointed out that she may be busy, she may have life stuff causing her to not respond, which could be true, AND it takes very little effort and time to text someone back.

 

So my thinking goes more like this. "if she isn't enthusiastic about texting, seeing, or being with me, its a waste of time."

 

and big picture, it helps to build a life you love so much that not being texted back is not a priority (as pointed out by others in this thread.)