I want to record the sex I have with my girlfriend

[Someone here]

Honestly, I'm having some mind blowing sex with my gf recently . To the point I masturbate after it for few Days when she ain't around. I introduced her to the idea that we should film or record our intercourse but she refused and got angry at me. Of course I explained to her that I ain't gonna upload it on Pornhub or anything like that lol.. But she insisted that I don't ever think about it again. 

Honestly, those moments when we have sex are the highlight of my life (it's really so fucking good) and I want to record it on video to view it in the future. It's like I want to save those moments or "document" it for the purpose of creating good memories. 

What do you guys think? Am I a freaking weirdo ?? 

 

[Eyowey]

You're already recording it with your memory. That's the best recording you're ever going to get. Videos or audios will not be satisfying. They might even make you sad when you look at them because you want the 3D experience. Find techniques for sharpening your memory.

[Buck Edwards]

I don't think it's honorable to do that to your girlfriend especially if she is not okay with it. If you are enjoying the experience, that should be more than enough. 

You're being immature here. 

 

[integral]

@Someone here No idea how to answer that question but im more intersted to know the details of that sex. That exactly is going on that makes you feel so good or that makes it so good or better then before?

[Someone here]

22 minutes ago, Eyowey said:

You're already recording it with your memory. That's the best recording you're ever going to get. Videos or audios will not be satisfying. They might even make you sad when you look at them because you want the 3D experience. Find techniques for sharpening your memory.

I mean I can have the 3D experience almost twice a month. I just feel a new level of satisfaction that I don't want those moments to be gone forever. And memories will fade away sooner or later. Is there any specific reason why would a girl refuse that because she is concerned for her privacy? 

22 minutes ago, Enlightement said:

You're being immature here

Thanks for your honest opinion 

10 minutes ago, integral said:

@Someone here No idea how to answer that question but im more intersted to know the details of that sex. That exactly is going on that makes you feel so good or that makes it so good or better then before?

Everything. The eye contact, The dirty language we use, The intimacy, The kinky stuff we try.

We almost tried 30 different positions. And the orgasms are earth shattering. 

[integral]

@Someone here So you experience very strong orgasms as a male? Theres a specturm there, not sure why some guys get stronger orgasms then others. 

Edited April 29, 2023 by integral

[Someone here]

4 minutes ago, integral said:

@Someone here So you experience very strong orgasms as a male? Theres a specturm there, not sure why some guys get stronger orgasms then others. 

Yup. 

You have different feelings depending on the position, but I think by far she  being on top is the best because of the angle.

There is also this  feeling of "please don't stop" because of how powerfully good it feels. A good, strong orgasm is like waves of tingling. It happens whenever she Is riding me "being on top". Oh man even when I fap to that memory it feels otherworldly ?

[M A J I]

Don't attach yourself to the pleasures or they will haunt you and control your mind and life. Enjoy the moment more fully and be more present with the sex and you will gain more out of it and more satisfaction that the need to record or prolong will become obsolete. It is really only our minds that can get perverted and deluded to seek more and more and this drains the soul and feeds the ego/mind more, depleting your spiritual essence over time.

Try and not always ejaculate, make love for the joy and pleasure of making love but not reaching or releasing, because the more you release your semen the more you feed the demon

[BlessedLion]

Don't be a fucking creep. Wtf kinda post is this?

[Bando]

Back at it again, my favorite poster asking the questions that matter 

[LordFall]

On 4/29/2023 at 3:34 PM, Someone here said:

I mean I can have the 3D experience almost twice a month. I just feel a new level of satisfaction that I don't want those moments to be gone forever. And memories will fade away sooner or later. Is there any specific reason why would a girl refuse that because she is concerned for her privacy? 

Everything. The eye contact, The dirty language we use, The intimacy, The kinky stuff we try.

We almost tried 30 different positions. And the orgasms are earth shattering. 

Why do you guys only have sex twice a month? I'd say fixing that is more important than getting a video of it so you can masturbate in between sex sessions.

Her concerns for privacy are very fair, it's pretty shitty to have a video of you getting fucked leak online and it happens so often. 

[integral]

On 4/29/2023 at 3:47 PM, Someone here said:

There is also this  feeling of "please don't stop" because of how powerfully good it feels. A good, strong orgasm is like waves of tingling. It happens whenever she Is riding me "being on top". 

Its a gift to be able to relax like that, breath into the orgasm and let it do its thing to make it deeper. I don't even think you know why its happening for you, your naturally good at it with out needing to learn how to. Its a very real skill.  

[TheNovice]

If you don't have her consent it's rape.

Also even if you have consent I still think it's a stupid thing to do if both of you are not very mature, these things go sideways all the time.
Just watch porn.
It will be sweeter that way too when you actually meet her.

[Roy]

On 4/29/2023 at 11:50 AM, Someone here said:

But she insisted that I don't ever think about it again. 

And she is right. This is one of those "relationship killer" things. Do not play around. When she says she doesn't want to be recorded she means it.

Don't bring it up again, push her, or try to convince her otherwise. Get over it.

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, Roy said:

And she is right. This is one of those "relationship killer" things. Do not play around. When she says she doesn't want to be recorded she means it.

Don't bring it up again, push her, or try to convince her otherwise. Get over it.

Yes 100%, pushing people's hard boundaries is not cool. But the guy said something about only being able to have sex with his girl twice a month. That's why I asked if it was about that and not the recording. If the guy just wants to be with his girl and if they lived together this would never come up again then that's one thing.

If OP just wants to record and express his sexuality uninhibited then he should not be with this girl and he should instead date a sexually open or onlyfans girl type which would have no issues with recording their sex all the time. 

[Leo Gura]

Homemade porn is so bad. Why would anyone want it?

Edited May 4, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Juan]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Homemade porn is so bad. Why would anyone want it?

I like it depending the relationship, there is more chemistry and attraction going on on the scene compared to people/actors who work on the industry, is more “real” to me at times so I like it, ofc there is some shitty recorded ones, but there are good ones too. This might sound weird but during their act of sex, you can see and feel how much are they into each other, ofc the high budget and acted ones could reach such levels.

Answering to @Someone here, I don’t comment a lot on your threads but answering here specifically, I feel like you waste a lot of your time. I’ve seen you on another forum, you what I’m talking about. So yeah, I recommend really that you focus yourself on getting better and become your greatest self, really. 

[Leo Gura]

If there is chemistry, filming it will only detract from it.

[Juan]

12 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

If there is chemistry, filming it will only detract from it.

Fair point

[kylan11]

13 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Homemade porn is so bad. Why would anyone want it?

I disagree. "Pro" porn is so fake it almost makes me cringe. Personally, knowing that they are all paid actors pretending to be having the best sex of their lives all the time spoils the excitement for me.

Amateur, homemade couple porn is raw, genuine unfiltered sexual passion. You can tell there's actual chemistry and enjoyment.

12 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

If there is chemistry, filming it will only detract from it.

Not in my experience, we both love recording ourselves and knowing that we'll masturbate to it later when one of us isn't home is an exciting thought. You leave the camera somewhere where you'll be in the shot and after a while you even forget you're recording.