Women were the first in history to learn the art of seduction

[Hardkill]

According to Robert Greene, who is the author of the book, The Art of Seduction, it was actually women who were the first in all of history who first learned how to seduce men before men learned how to seduce women. Cleopatra of course is prime example of a woman in history who used her great ability to seduce men to rise to power herself. Other well known examples of women who use their seduction to rise to the top including Anne Boleyn, the 2nd wife of Henry VIII, Agrippina, the Powerful Roman Empress, Harriette Wilson, Agnès Sorel, etc. They weren't just physically beautiful, they also learned how to sexually appeal to men by learning game.

 

Furthermore, many of the sexiest female celebrities, most successful female strippers, and top female pornstars out there since the 1900s didn't just become rich and famous simply because of how hot they look. They also learned the skills to seduce tons and tons of men. Listen to female dating coach, Kezia Noble, talk about how they have been some female strippers who look somewhat above average actually but were able to hook men much better than the other female strippers who were the 9s and 10s but didn't have the sexual charisma:

 

If that was true then why haven't there been a lot of women these days in our modern era, especially with the current rise of feminism in every developed country around the world, who approach, make the first moves, and flirt hard with the men they talk to?

Edited April 27, 2023 by Hardkill

[Something Funny]

@Hardkill @Lila9 it's not like Cleopatra did cold approach though...

I think women still behave in the same way as they did, they just do it in their own way. Which is more subtle than being explicitly sexual or making a first move (unless they are a stripper or pornstar, etc., as in the example above).

I don't see why would anything change significantly with time if those things are supposed to be wired deep inside of us.

Also, what you probably imagine is a bunch of girls fighting for some noble born prince, trying to get his attention. Which wpuld be the equivalent of girls chasing male celebrities nowadays.

There were no hoards of girls trying to seduce some peasant boy, lol. Which was like the 99% of the population.

And if you read some old books about common people lives, the dating dynamics were pretty much the same as they are now, with the guy making the first move (excluding arranged marriage situations).

So, all that is to say: I don't think that things are much different today .

[Something Funny]

@Lila9 dating in the 19th century be like:

Sorry, couldn't hold myself back 

[Hardkill]

@Lila9 It's true that the waves of feminism in developed have really given women such power over men sexually.

@Something Funny Ah, okay. I see your point. 

However, if women want to attract and keep the kind of men they want for a LTR, then they are also going to need to learn how to seduce men and learn the skills needed to behave and talk in a feminine manner. Unfortunately, most girls/women in first world countries don't know how to be compliant and supportive to a man they are attracted to:

 

Edited April 28, 2023 by Hardkill