How Can I Stop Being Indecisive About Life?

[Oso]

To put it simply, I've been indecisive about my purpose, direction, values, vision/s, goals, and more for over a year now. Even since gaining insights and slowly awakening to things, my life has been shattered from certain realms of ignorance, leaving me naked in unknowing. I feel like I'm stuck here with too many decisions. 

 

The point is that I'm very purposeful towards uncovering/creating a purpose in life. However, I cannot help but wallow in my own bullshit because of fear or something of that nature and I seemingly have gotten nowhere at the end of the day. I'm tired of being directionless and I really wish a flame could be lit under my ass so I could start going after something. Something in me wants to create and give and it cannot be otherwise. A life wasted on turning away from being purposeful seems extremely foolish at this time. 

 

So, in other words, how can I stop being indecisive about life? What is it I must actually do to get direction and go towards that direction? I don't mind if it changes overtime, I just want to get in alignment with my core direction and pursue it fully as it becomes whatever it becomes. 

[LSD-Rumi]

@Oso Like all negative emotions, the solution is simple but hard which is to let go of that feeling whenever it comes, you must prevent the idea of self doubt when it comes from generating doubt in you. This can be hard and it takes months to see any real progress. Leo has some very good video about Letting go, go watch it, it is one of his finest.

Also,You must learn to remove your trust from the feeling of self doubt, and give yourself back that trust and authority, Leo also have a video about this topic.

[Thought Art]

@Oso First, start taking action. 
 

Basically, you gain clarity and confidence in your decisions by making them. 

Being confused, unsure etc IS going to be a common occurrence even for those with lots of clarity 

 

Best Resources: 

1. Leo’s life purpose course

2. The Success Principles by Jack Canfield 

3. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelo 

There are chapters is Jacks book where he gets you to begin making it explicit to yourself what it is you want in life. 
 

Clarity, life purpose etc are something developed by regular action, practice and doing the work. It will come if you just trust in the process.

Don’t let a feeling of being uncertain lead you to feeling helpless. It takes time. Enjoy the process.
 

You are creating your own life! It’s supposed to be challenging. You’ll get there and I will to. I have more clarity than ever. But, only because I have decided to persist until I succeed.

Find time to read, to contemplate. Cut out distractions and get you know your own mind

Edited April 18, 2023 by Thought Art