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Chives99

Believe in yourself

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You are more capable than you've ever imagined, look at what the intelligence in you as done, its learn to walk and talk and build up massive amounts of knowledge through schooling and got qualifications, no idiot can do this, look at your achievements, whether that be work, maintaining family relationships, making friends learning social skills, excelling in hobbies and interests, winning competitions, etc, why couldn't you get good with dating? The mind might be identified as being a hopeless socially awkward , socially inept, clumsy, unattractive whatever, but those are all just stories, the mind loves to identify stories and thats why you dont grow. When u failed a test once, you got better results the second time round. The first time I took my driving test i failed within the first 2 mins and had to do the rest of the test knowing i failed, but i got it the second time. I used to be clueless with women I would ask women on apps there phone numbers straight away and scare them off, but thats because my ruled based mind must have grabbed that rule from somewhere and tried to apply it across the board to everything. Forget the past it doesnt exist, dont think about the future, go and talk to women at social events or in nightclubs or whatever, I believe in you, you can do it, you may fail 100s of times but you'll get there. I just figured theres litterally no point in doubting yourself because all doubting is just STORIES IN THE MIND. 


"You have to allow yourself to not know"- Peter Ralston

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