Loosing Control In Order To Gain Some

[Mesopotamian]

When we come to do self-development work, we are giving up control and listening to the guru, trying to absorb what we can, however in real life, we feel reluctant to walk in into various situations, and we always want to have a good degree of control over things, decisions. 

Sometimes though, it's better to give up control and not be closed-minded or hold on to dogmas. 

It's OK to walk into a situation that's less than ideal. Because have you ever noticed? everything is less than ideal in this life, and the image of perfection lies only in your imagination.

It's a bad idea to say yes to everyone, cuz that can get you raped, killed or both in a short amount of time, yet it's fine to expand your tolerance for life situations..

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