If you don‘t feel like partying. Do you push yourself ayway?

[PurpleTree]

To socialise, meet new people etc

 

i try sometimes (for exmple tonight) but it‘s really hard if i don‘t feel social to trying to be social. Or trying to get into another mood. Sometimes it works but usually not.

[Jwayne]

It won't work obviously because women will read your energy. Do something more productive when you're in introverted mood, like reading.

Edited April 1, 2023 by Jwayne

[Leo Gura]

It's an acquired taste. I never liked partying but as I pushed myself to learn game I started having more fun and learned to enjoy myself.

But I still don't enjoy myself every time. Sometimes I'm in a serious mood and not in a mood to socialize or party.

Having a set of good friends/wings is crucial for making your nights fun. It's hard to get in a party mood all alone.

But if you are taking on this journey to learn game, you can't just do it based on mood. You have to discipline yourself to go out even when you don't feel like it. Most of the times I went out I was not in the mood to be out. Your mood will also change as you start socializing and meeting interesting people.

Edited April 1, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Karmadhi]

5 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It's an acquired taste. I never liked partying but as I pushed myself to learn game I started having more fun and learned to enjoy myself.

But I still don't enjoy myself every time. Sometimes I'm in a serious mood and not in a mood to socialize or party.

Having a set of good friends/wings is crucial for making your nights fun. It's hard to get in a party mood all alone.

But if you are taking on this journey to learn game, you can't just do it based on mood. You have to discipline yourself to go out even when you don't feel like it. Most of the times I went out I was not in the mood to be out. Your mood will also change as you start socializing and meeting interesting people.

Why dont you do daygame if nightgame is not your natural thing? You have said yourself it suits you more.

Is Vegas that bad for daygame? In videos online I see it has plenty of busy streets filled with people. 

Daygame can also be done with a wing, in my city it is mostly daygame and you have 2 or 3 guys meeting and doing it and pushing each other.

Now that you have the skills you can do 10 daygame approach per session and probably get a few numbers from each.

[mr_engineer]

Having been there, done that, I think it's kinda frivolous. I get the sense that the world needs me to focus on more important things than just partying. 

And, as far as meeting women goes, find your Life-Purpose. Through that, you will meet people who are on your wavelength and who resonate with you, cuz you're being authentic in your own life. 

Our parents were right all along, honestly. It truly is a waste of time! Unless you want to do it. 

[John Paul]

If you are looking for friends- look for your life purpose/careerpath or go to church. If you are looking for a good woman- go to church. If you are looking for a fuck- go ahead, party… 

[corvusx]

I wouldn't force yourself if you're not feeling it. Pretty simple imo.

[M A J I]

If you don't listen to your being, you will lose yourself in the reflections of others.

You always come first, being Alone is the surest way to get to Know and Embrace the Self.

Once you have done that you will be Energized and ready to express your truth/medicine to the world.

And when you have done that you again retreat back with Self. Its all about balance.

And you do not push yourself away, you simply attest to your being, by doing so you actually help them by being more in touch with yourself, thus when you do come out and socialize, you represent a greater and deeper reflection of Self, that they may and will benefit from far more. But if you do not attend to your own being you can only give them as much of your fullness as you have the energy for, so why give them a drained and disinterested reflection? When you could give them a energized and passionate one instead?

Somethings to ponder about

[PurpleTree]

On 5.4.2023 at 9:29 PM, John Paul said:

If you are looking for friends- look for your life purpose/careerpath or go to church. If you are looking for a good woman- go to church. If you are looking for a fuck- go ahead, party… 

I’m not a Christian though

can i also go to a hindu temple or satanic temple?