Question for the men of actualized org

[Schizophonia]

@Devin @Something Funny @something_else

lmao, I don't even have a big libido and I don't necessarily "want to cheat".
I'm just defending a pragmatic and vain worldview, and trolling a little along the way.

It is also in this kind of discussion that I realize cultural differences, I come from the south of France and the majority of people I have met have a similar vision.

The biggest clashes I've had are actually on the internet, against people from northern/central Europe, or Anglo-Saxon countries with a much more romantic vision.

16 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

 

No, I am a man, and I would rather cut my balls off than cheat on my partner.

This sentence seems incredibly strange to me

[Devin]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

@Devin @Something Funny @something_else

lmao, I don't even have a big libido and I don't necessarily "want to cheat".
I'm just defending a pragmatic and vain worldview, and trolling a little along the way.

It is also in this kind of discussion that I realize cultural differences, I come from the south of France and the majority of people I have met have a similar vision.

The biggest clashes I've had are actually on the internet, against people from northern/central Europe, or Anglo-Saxon countries with a much more romantic vision.

This sentence seems incredibly strange to me

Cheating is accepted in southern france or polygamy? Big difference.

 

We know you're a troll.

[Something Funny]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

This sentence seems incredibly strange to me

Wait till you learn what I would do with your balls if you cheated for real 

[PurpleTree]

Wrong topic

Edited March 27, 2023 by PurpleTree

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Devin said:

Cheating is accepted in southern france or polygamy? Big difference.

 

We know you're a troll.

No, there is the whole nuance.

I mean that men from the south of france (and from southern europe as a rule) had less problems committing actions punishable by law and considered by a certain number of people to be "immoral", including deceiving his wife.

Cheating on your wife is not "moral", the French are not polygamous, it's just that I observe that the French and even more from other European countries around the Mediterranean attach importance to respect for the government and cultic norms ("morale") in a much more conditional way.

I don't understand why cheating makes me bad, because I don't hurt my wife, especially obviously if she doesn't know about it (logic of omerta, indeed).
I said I was trolling in the sense that I was having fun teasing you, but my question is sincere.

18 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

Wait till you learn what I would do with your balls if you cheated for real 

1) Trying to hurt me will be the last thing you do in your life.
2) More seriously, why are you so interested in what I could possibly do and which concerns only my private life?

[Jodistrict]

It's one of these things where you think you can get away with it.   But you will pay for it.  It's guaranteed.   

[Something Funny]

4 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

1) Trying to hurt me will be the last thing you do in your life.
2) More seriously, why are you so interested in what I could possibly do and which concerns only my private life?

Idk, it's kind of fun.

I've watched a bunch of serial killer documentaries lately. Maybe I could become one as well. Maybe it's my life purpose to be a vigilante serial killer, haha

And if I was contemplating my choice of victims, cheaters would be at the top of the list.

But don't worry, I am just trolling 

[Hibahere]

1 hour ago, Something Funny said:

Because you behave like one.

You could honestly let a woman who you are dating know that you plan to sleep with other people even after marriying her because that's just who you are and because you have a very primal libido, and blah, blah, blah.

That would be a strong move. But you know that if you did this no woman would decide to build a relationship with you so instead you decide to use sneaky tactics and manipulations.

You would be a loser because you can't get the amount of sex that you want  while being upfront and honest. For example by building a polyamourous relationship or by staying single and having casual sex with different women. That would require some skills, effort and character on your part, and you have none, which is a definition of a looser.

On top of that you decide to compensate your lack of skills, effort, and character with petty lies and manipulation. Which turns you into a little, sneaky looser.

If you have sex with another woman while being in a committed monogamous relationship and hide this from your wife because you are fully aware that she would be hurt by it and wouldn't like it, then you don't love your wife in the first place. And probably also have no idea what it means to love someone at all.

So the notion of you "not loving your wife less" after it is irrelevant since there was no love to begin with.

No, I am a man, and I would rather cut my balls off than cheat on my partner.

This is gold

[Devin]

1 hour ago, Schizophonia said:

No, there is the whole nuance.

I mean that men from the south of france (and from southern europe as a rule) had less problems committing actions punishable by law and considered by a certain number of people to be "immoral", including deceiving his wife.

Cheating on your wife is not "moral", the French are not polygamous, it's just that I observe that the French and even more from other European countries around the Mediterranean attach importance to respect for the government and cultic norms ("morale") in a much more conditional way.

I don't understand why cheating makes me bad, because I don't hurt my wife, especially obviously if she doesn't know about it (logic of omerta, indeed).
I said I was trolling in the sense that I was having fun teasing you, but my question is sincere.

        People don't cheat for sex, they cheat for the relationship or opportunity for a relationship. Do you think it is okay for your wife to have sex and fall in love with another man and leave you?     *Porn is fake, you don't understand human relationships.

Edited March 27, 2023 by Devin

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, Devin said:

        People don't cheat for sex, they cheat for the relationship or opportunity for a relationship. Do you think it is okay for your wife to have sex and fall in love with another man and leave you?     *Porn is fake, you don't understand human relationships.

Are you a woman or a man?

The only reason that would push me to cheat is sex, and it's precisely because I don't have a big libido that I don't consider it.

+ why are you talking about pornography?

[Devin]

Just now, Schizophonia said:

Are you a woman or a man?

The only reason that would push me to cheat is sex, and it's precisely because I don't have a big libido that I don't consider it.

+ why are you talking about pornography?

      I'm a guy, and I have a big libido, which is MORE of a reason not to cheat, I can have sex as much as I want with my girlfriend. If you have a good relationship it's always open season, if you're on the prowl then you won't have a good relationship and will always be slobbering over some floozy at the bar or whatever hoping to get some, I just kiss my girlfriend on the neck and it's on.

[Roy]

16 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

Imagine that you end up with a girl with a good ass and big tits.  You can sleep with her and neither your wife nor anyone will ever know.  What is the problem ?

Such blatant corruption of basic logic doesn't even merit a response.

[Schizophonia]

9 hours ago, Roy said:

Such blatant corruption of basic logic doesn't even merit a response.

why ? i don't understand.

Edited March 28, 2023 by Schizophonia

[supremeyingyang]

9 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

why ? i don't understand.

YES!!

You FINALLY came to the conclusion everyone wanted you to have have. No work on understanding, everyones cool,  and we can all move on.

EDIT.

BTW if you keep going ALONG this lines I block you and I would IN THAT CASE anyone reading advice to do it as well. I am just one person, but maybe others already came to the same conclusion while never saying it. Think about it.

Or we call it a day and we remain in ever growing respect to each other.

Choose your path.

Edited March 28, 2023 by supremeyingyang
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[Schizophonia]

27 minutes ago, supremeyingyang said:

YES!!

You FINALLY came to the conclusion everyone wanted you to have have. No work on understanding, everyones cool,  and we can all move on.

EDIT.

BTW if you keep going ALONG this lines I block you and I would IN THAT CASE anyone reading advice to do it as well. I am just one person, but maybe others already came to the same conclusion while never saying it. Think about it.

Or we call it a day and we remain in ever growing respect to each other.

Choose your path.

You don't have to answer me on this topic, no one has to answer me.

I'm not a spammer so I'm not getting any replies I'll stop and that's it.

I just ask, in a polite and simple way, to have it explained to me why my nihilistic "ideas" are wrong, but all I get in return seems fuzzy and irrational, and if I dig I get surprisingly hostile reactions or calls for silence, whether here, at the university, etc.

 

Edited March 28, 2023 by Schizophonia

[supremeyingyang]

@Schizophonia go figure, but not with me

*blocked*

[Devin]

32 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

You don't have to answer me on this topic, no one has to answer me.

I'm not a spammer so I'm not getting any replies I'll stop and that's it.

I just ask, in a polite and simple way, to have it explained to me why my nihilistic "ideas" are wrong, but all I get in return seems fuzzy and irrational, and if I dig I get surprisingly hostile reactions or calls for silence, whether here, at the university, etc.

 

The reason nihilism is nill is because you don't enjoy it.

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Devin said:

The reason nihilism is nill is because you don't enjoy it.

I'd rather be a nihilist than a romantic, which induces a form of idealism.

Edited March 28, 2023 by Schizophonia

[Devin]

4 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I'd rather be a nihilist than a romantic, which induces a form of idealism.

No ones talking about romance, and no one would want to be a nihilist, that's why they all kill themselves.

[Schizophonia]

6 minutes ago, Devin said:

No ones talking about romance, and no one would want to be a nihilist, that's why they all kill themselves.

I may have misunderstood your answer, but I meant romantic in the philosophical (and artistic) sense of the term.

"Idealist if you will"

 

Nihilists do not commit suicide, they are idealists in cognitive dissonance who do.
This idea of suicidal nihilists in the collective unconscious comes from a sociological bias, the majority are (even unconsciously) idealists, both by attavism and by cultural background, and are ultimately confronted with nihilist ideas only in troubled situations see dramatic.

You are nihilistic if you embrace, accept, this vision of life and of the world.
Although obviously the worldview is more complicated and subtle than these terms.