Joining a sexual community

[Eternal Unity]

Tantra practitioners.

Anyone has experimented with this? I have one near my home but I was too shameful to register... From my understanding they help with porn addiction, channeling true sexual energy (horniness) and heal emotional trauma.

[Daoguy]

@Eternal Unity For the background I am a heterosexual male which informs my experience in this work. I don't know what works for a woman because I am not one or have personal experience of a same-sex dynamic. I have experience with Tantric sexual practices so I could have non-ejaculatory orgasms (valley orgasms) and learned from a Tantrika Guru. I personally prefer Daoist sexual practices because they are easier and more grounded. 

9 hours ago, Eternal Unity said:

From my understanding they help with porn addiction, channeling true sexual energy (horniness) and heal emotional trauma.

If those are the problems you have here are my suggestions for helping with them but if you have other questions I would love to help.     

Porn addiction: I was addicted to porn and what helped me quit that addiction was the Easypeassy method for porn hack book. It is based on the Allen Carre method for quitting smoking and drinking. The method is to explain to you why the "reasons" you use porn are all bullshit. Link to the book: https://easypeasymethod.org/ 

Channeling Sexual energy: The Tantric method is moving aroused sexual energy out of your genitals and up your spine. It's basic sure, but you can't store that kind of energy in your brain safely so you either lose it or get really bad headaches. You can store energy in your lower dan tian to use it effectively without headaches. 

The microcosmic orbit is a better way to move energy through more of your body. There are practices to open this pathway (The Wudang orbit meditation is the best I know). You can practice testicle breathing to move unaroused sexual energy through your microcosmic orbit to get used to using it over time. Then practice using aroused sexual energy so it becomes normal for you to do it when you masturbate. If you do that it will become habitual like creating lots of tension and friction on your dick until you ejaculate habit you currently have now. It will even be easy to do when having sex.    

Emotional Trauma: I personally use the 6 healing sounds practice and Inner smile meditation to deal with negative emotions and trauma you can find guided videos for those on youtube. I don't know of any Tantric practices for that problem.

Horniness: I get where you're coming from (pun intended). I have a really high sex drive, I'm talking used to masturbating 8-12 times a day and once I got decent game have sex as often as possible with as many women as I could because it's that high. 

I found doing the six healing sounds and inner smile helped reduce it a little. The testicle breathing helped and so did having sex or masturbating to have valley orgasms. What I found the best though are the Kan and Li practices.

I am not saying that Tantric sexual practices are bad or anything I just found the Daoist ones tend to be better. I did like the partner practices for Tantra like Yab Yum and eye gazing but you could learn those from a book like Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas (a book recommended a lot by LGBTQIA+ folks) or Tantric secrets for men by Kerry Riley. 

This person that you have thought about seeing could be really cool and help you explore some cool stuff. The things to look out for are:

1. Price gouging: They will try to make you pay a lot of money for this stuff because it used to be secret knowledge. While this was the case until the 20th century in the west it isn't a secret anymore there are a lot of books and courses on this stuff.  
2. Spiritual or happy ending: Some prostitutes or happy-ending massage providers call themselves Tantric, especially in countries where those things are illegal but are just about those things. Try to make sure your teacher is focused on spiritual or sexual teaching. 
3. Their Personality: If something feels off about the person or other people warn you about them don't go see them there are many different teachers out there. While you are in a session with a teacher and they do bad shit or make you feel uncomfortable either wait for the session to finish and never see them again or get the fuck out of there as soon as possible. There have unfortunately been some shady rapists who abuse people sexually so be warned.  

[Eternal Unity]

@Daoguy

Thank you so much, my friend! That really helps

[Daoguy]

@Eternal Unity Your welcome man.

The best resource I found is Jothan White's stuff. His Youtube channel explains a lot of the theory about this stuff and some guided practices. His multi-orgasmic man course is hands down the best for this stuff. 

His channel: 

 

His website: https://www.johnathanwhitelifestyle.com/

[flowboy]

@Eternal Unity  Yep, I've done many workshops with thenewtantra.com

De-armouring, releasing trauma, non-ejaculatory sex, group experiences, the whole thing.

What is it specifically you want to know?

Just sign up if you're curious.

It's awesome.