Give A "Rare/Unique" Self Development Insight

[2ndComing]

Totally random and open thread, doesn't have to be traditional: read/workout/help others, but w.e you really found useful.

I know music is a massive thing for many of us during this journey, but what I found I loved even more than rock/rap/EDM/hard or strong songs/sad or weak songs is Islamic nasheeds, they give me such peace I cannot describe (not Muslim, actually orthodox Christian tbh), but yeah they give me massive peaceful "clean" energy
 

 

 

 

[2ndComing]

Oh and the guy who sings it is named Muhammad Al Muqit, you can check out the rest of his awesome albums here;

https://www.youtube.com/@MuhammadAlmuqit/playlists

[Emerald]

My biggest and most difficult to swallow self-development insight is that my interest in self-development originated from shame and a desire to fix myself.

And I was doing this to make myself acceptable enough to earn my own love.

I notice this pattern in a lot of personal development and self-help junkies.

And so, it’s very important to make self-love unconditional… and to not be something that we have to fix ourselves to earn.

Then, self-development just becomes fun and exciting… and we can do it for the enjoyability of the process.

[Bobby_2021]

 

[Gesundheit2]

Do not take anything personally, even if it's meant personally, especially if it's meant personally.

[Applegarden8]

You need to spend time by yourself.

[SamC]

Masculininity is femeninty on steroids

[Gesundheit2]

23 minutes ago, SamC said:

Masculininity is femeninty on steroids

LMAO! That's actually technically, medically true. Women with high levels of steroid hormones become hairy and more masculine generally.

Edited February 25, 2023 by Gesundheit2

[SamC]

1 hour ago, Gesundheit2 said:

LMAO! That's actually technically, medically true. Women with high levels of steroid hormones become hairy and more masculine generally.

It's metaphyscialy true aswell but thats hilarious 

[Zedman]

Brain sees no difference between fantasy and reality. I am never progressing because I have fullfilled my desires through movies, history, porn, thoughts and fantasy scenarios. Desire can get fulfilled by looking at the screen. Working on a solution right now. I still cant answer a spimple question whats the difference? Why should I go for one more than the other?