Why Would Any Man Choose To Be Cucked? - Dr David Ley | Modern Wisdom Podcast 588

[Epikur]

 

[Jannes]

I watched the first 26 min of it. 
I think there are many men who unconsciously feel weak/inferior to other men. They think that they are basically outcompeted. So their strategy is to become a cuck because in this way they at least have a chance that one of the children of their women is from them. Or they find at least a social position where they are accepted and so have a chance of climbing up the latter later. I think it’s a great example of the intelligence of survival. 

[Emerald]

My suspicion is that cuckold fantasies come from shame and feelings of unworthiness and undesirability.

So, if a guy feels such extreme shame that he can’t imagine the woman being attracted to him… or if he gets disgusted by his own presence in his own sexual fantasies….

Then cuckold fantasies are a way for him to participate in the sexual fantasies and to see the woman having a good time with another man… because he can’t imagine the woman having a good time with him.

And also because he has trouble getting aroused by the thought of himself engaging in sex. So, inserting another man who he sees as more desirable to the woman, helps him experience the pleasure of the situation vicariously.

And it also activates his shame, so it is a way for him to simultaneously wallow in the shame… which is a kind of self-harm type of release where he gets to surrender to and be overwhelmed by his shame.

That’s what I suspect.

[Bando]

@Emerald Hmmm im not into the idea of being cucked, but what if its just a fetish, like women who roleplay in bdsm or other kinks, I think your take is a little judgmental and narrow minded

[Emerald]

Just now, Bando said:

@Emerald Hmmm im not into the idea of being cucked, but what if its just a fetish, like women who roleplay in bdsm or other kinks, I think your take is a little judgmental and narrow minded

I’m not judging. Many fetishes take their roots in traumas and deeper psychological undercurrents.