Am I too picky?

[BlessedLion]

To be honest I don't find most women attractive enough to pursue. Let's say I'm at a party and there's like 100 women there, I'll likely only be genuinely interested in about 4 or 5. I really like beautiful women and almost always go for the hottest one in the room. Plenty of women are interested in me, but I only want the hottest. This limits the amount of sex I have but I can't really help who I am attracted to. Can I? I actually think I'd like to lower my standards a bit. On the plus side this also results in me hooking up with really hot chicks most of the time, but it's less quantity and options. 

 

I also find that once the sexual energy is flowing the looks become less important. But it's still kinda like, meh. 

[integral]

If what someone's interests are is quick fun then of course they want the hottest girls, if there needs are different and want long term deep connection then there standards will reflect that, they will look closer at inner beauty and stop caring as much about looks.

There is no need to lower your standards unless your needs change.

Are your needs met? 

If your only purpose of writing this is to figure out how to bang more women then yes lower your standards.

The sex is just as good no matter what she looks like, i haven't noticed a difference, its not hotter because shes hotter, its hotter because of her personality and our shared vibe. 

Edited January 29, 2023 by integral