Finally started approaching

[Vlad_]

I was raised by my mother and my grandmother and they kind of programmed me into pleasing women. I remember sometimes my mom would slap me in the face whenever I did something "wrong". It made me feel really insecure around women, because subconsciously I was putting them above me and I was overvaluing them. I derived my sense of self-worth out of my ability to be in relationships and to be appreciated by women. It took me years to figure it out and to become conscious of it, but fear didn't go away. 

For the last 10 months I was going to clubs in order to approach women, but the fear of rejection was unbearable, so I couldn't do it. The worst feeling was going home feeling bitter, victimized and wounded. 

Yesterday I decided to try again. My friend and I went to a club in Toronto and I approached 13 girls! I'd never approached so many women in my 25 years! 

None of the approaches went good. Some girls were telling me they had boyfriends, some of them were making weird face expression without saying anything and I guess I really scare a few ones because I approached them from the back.  Surprisingly enough it made me more confident! My goal is to approach 1000 women and it doesn't matter whether I have sex with any of them. 

I'm so fucking happy to finally be able to tackle this fear. It means a lot for me. I can already see the value in pick-up. And it's not about how many girls you sleep with so that you can make up a masculine identity out of it. This kind of pick-up for psychologically wounded men who buying into mainstream horseshit. The real value lies in ability to express yourself in authentic and unique manner which will lead to dramatical changes in life. 

[Leo Gura]

Awesome! Great work!

Yeah, it's all about taking action. That's what you'll learn. When you take action you will feel good, even if you don't get any results. When you don't take action you will feel miserable because you're being lame.

Edited January 28, 2023 by Leo Gura