just got kicked out of the mall

[something_else]

8 minutes ago, vindicated erudite said:

God is sending you a warning. Everyone who does this pick up shit is playing with fire. If you do this long enough in the West YOU WILL ARRESTED FOR SEXUAL HARASSMENT. 

So my advice would be to stop day gaming. 

You're not gonna get arrested unless you're really creepy, or filming yourself and girls as you do it. Or maybe very unlucky.

Hundreds of guys do 'day game' every day without even knowing what day game is, they just talk to girls they see going about their day

I don't think hardcore daygaming is especially ethical, but you have to do it really excessively and really badly to get arrested

[vindicated erudite]

1 minute ago, something_else said:

You're not gonna get arrested unless you're really creepy, or filming yourself and girls as you do it. Or maybe very unlucky.

Hundreds of guys do 'day game' every day without even knowing what day game is, they just talk to girls they see going about their day

I don't think hardcore daygaming is especially ethical, but you have to do it really excessively and really badly to get arrested

You're still at risk for getting charged with sexual assault even if you think you are not being creepy. Imagine how much courage and nerves it took for you to approach your first woman. It probably took you multiple attempts to even say hi to a woman. Yet you want to throw all this stress onto a woman within a single instant, something that to you multiple attempts and hours of "game" practice in order to perfect. You're going to overwhelm them and then they are going to see you as creepy because of this fact. 

The problem with day game is that it is too direct and doesn't give the girl the ability to go at her own pace. 

[something_else]

2 minutes ago, vindicated erudite said:

You're still at risk for getting charged with sexual assault even if you think you are not being creepy.

If anything you'll get charged with harassment. You're not going to get charged with sexual assault for talking to a girl, at least not unless you start talking about your giant throbbing dick in front of her.

4 minutes ago, vindicated erudite said:

Imagine how much courage and nerves it took for you to approach your first woman. It probably took you multiple attempts to even say hi to a woman. Yet you want to throw all this stress onto a woman within a single instant

If you give off good vibes you're not putting any stress on a girl. Humans are social creatures, most of us enjoy a friendly and stimulating conversation. And 9 times out of 10 if you piss a girl off you can just apologise, say you're sorry for bothering her and both of you move on with your life.

Guys who are shy often project that shyness onto others and assume that everyone must be shy and hate talking to people, but it's simply not true.

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The problem with day game is that it is too direct and doesn't give the girl the ability to go at her own pace. 

You realise that daygame can literally be just having a conversation with a girl you happen to encounter in your daily life? Most people with fairly sociable lives are meeting new people every single day. A significant chunk of couples probably met through daygame without even realising that's what happened. Healthy, confident guys will go and talk to girls they find attractive and want to get to know all the time.

I'm playing devils advocate here because to an extent I agree, I don't think daygame is great. At least not the kind where you go to your local high street at 11am on a Saturday and approach every girl you see. But it's healthy to be able to see a girl you're attracted to as you go about your day and be able to strike up some kind of conversation with her. Lots of couples meet this way.

Personally I prefer just going out to clubs because it doesn't feel like a chore and you can be way more direct because it's a more naturally sociable environment.

[Leo Gura]

40 minutes ago, vindicated erudite said:

God is sending you a warning. Everyone who does this pick up shit is playing with fire. If you do this long enough in the West YOU WILL ARRESTED FOR SEXUAL HARASSMENT. 

So my advice would be to stop day gaming. 

I literally don't know anyone who got arrested except actual rapists for rape.

Edited January 31, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Vrubel]

5 hours ago, vindicated erudite said:

The problem with day game is that it is too direct and doesn't give the girl the ability to go at her own pace. 

It definitely works, I have proven this to myself and got hooked. It's actually a good way to get the highest quality girls with whom you click the most. Just learning this stuff can be brutal and will involve some cringy ass fuck ups.

Although I have heard this legend of a guy who approached 30 000 women and never got laid. That's crazy! If that's true that means that not all men are suitable for day game. Maybe if you're overly masculine or have a severe lack of masculinity, have some kind of cursed vibe, or are mentally ill, day game will just never work for you. 
 

Edited February 1, 2023 by Vrubel

[Roy]

16 minutes ago, Vrubel said:

a guy who approached 30 000 women and never got laid.

That's probably a lie. Though I imagine there are guys with a LOT of rejections. You'd have to have some kind of physical defect or noticeable mental disability to even approach those kind of numbers, on top of trying to get rejected. Not to mention if you were bad enough to get rejected that frequently you'd probably get a criminal record for harassment at some point.

Eventually one person would be interested after that much spam. This is just getting laid, it's not rocket science and figuring out how to send people to Mars and back.

Edited February 1, 2023 by Roy

[Hardkill]

2 hours ago, Roy said:

That's probably a lie. Though I imagine there are guys with a LOT of rejections. You'd have to have some kind of physical defect or noticeable mental disability to even approach those kind of numbers, on top of trying to get rejected. Not to mention if you were bad enough to get rejected that frequently you'd probably get a criminal record for harassment at some point.

Eventually one person would be interested after that much spam. This is just getting laid, it's not rocket science and figuring out how to send people to Mars and back.

That’s true.

but I feel like rejections rates for men in America, Canada, and in other first world countries have been skyrocketing non stop since around the beginning of the new millenium. 

Women and men in developed countries are becoming too entitled and too closed off from each other for many different reasons in this day an age.

I worry that this problem could continue to get worse and worse for more and more men around the world until something really bad happens in the future within the dating world.

Edited February 1, 2023 by Hardkill

[Vrubel]

@Hardkill Cool thing with western societies is that are they multicultural, if you don't click with the main group find some nationality or culture you click most with.
I can see a clear pattern in all the girls I dated, they are most often Eastern European, follow a high level of education and two of them were gothic girls. Funny thing is that on dates I often talk about Dante and I have never had a girl not knowing him or his work. 

I seem to click with the most intelligent and feminine girls, so in this sense I am lucky. I am exceptionally unlucky though when it comes to landing a girlfriend. I have to do some improvements on this front, maybe this year will be my year. Like seriously at some point me not getting a girlfriend would be a statistical impossibility. 

[Raze]

On 1/31/2023 at 11:27 AM, Leo Gura said:

I literally don't know anyone who got arrested except actual rapists for rape.

Addy A-Game was arrested for it

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Raze said:

Addy A-Game was arrested for it

He got arrested for it in my city lmao

I'm actually not surprised, hardcore daygame seems like the kind of behaviour that you'd get a lot of shit for here

Edited February 2, 2023 by something_else

[Kid A]

On 1.2.2023 at 1:05 AM, Vrubel said:

Although I have heard this legend of a guy who approached 30 000 women and never got laid.

He must be really into ethnic Norwegian girls. Day game only works on foreigners here in Norway for some reason...

[Vrubel]

7 hours ago, Kid A said:

He must be really into ethnic Norwegian girls. Day game only works on foreigners here in Norway for some reason...

Northern European girls suck for approaching. Obviously, if you click it will still work. But when it doesn't they have the most shitty reactions. I think it's the deep-seated Calvinist mentality that makes street approaching so not-done in their eyes. There is a cultural emphasis on plainness and social norms over sexual polarity and social freedom.

Though southern European, Latina and Slavic girls absolutely love and really appreciate being approached even if it doesn't necessarily click. 

Edited February 3, 2023 by Vrubel

[Kid A]

7 hours ago, Vrubel said:

Northern European girls suck for approaching. Obviously, if you click it will still work. But when it doesn't they have the most shitty reactions. I think it's the deep-seated Calvinist mentality that makes street approaching so not-done in their eyes. There is a cultural emphasis on plainness and social norms over sexual polarity and social freedom.

Though southern European, Latina and Slavic girls absolutely love and really appreciate being approached even if it doesn't necessarily click. 

Interesting points! In my experience they are just as willing to give their phone number away, but are less likely to respond to messages later, and will never agree to go on a date. 

[Vrubel]

@Kid A Even though Northern European girls are globally idealized as the most beautiful on earth and in a sense they are: tall, blonde, blue eyes, perfect facial features. But that is to overlook that they are generally more masculine, level-headed and in my opinion, often lacking that girly cuteness and magical feminity of for example Slavic girls. Or the openness, spontaneity and sexual embrace of Latina and southern European girls.